From an ordinary day, we began to love life. With the noise and stubbornness of the city, we never seem to stop, just sitting together with three or five friends, talking about the past and the future, and wasting our time without attachment.
The slogan of yearning for life has always been: we are yearning for life together.
Are friends gradually separated along the way, and those young dreams are also blown away in the material life.
"There should be a lot of boring time in life, so that you can have time to think."
I remember one summer, I went back to my hometown with my parents. I woke up at about six o'clock in the morning and walked out of the yard. I saw large sunflowers blooming in my direction. At that moment, I was suddenly moved, as if life had no troubles since then, and I could live in the sun. It is a kind of vitality, with infinite vitality.
In fact, I pass by sunflower fields every day, but I just take a quick look and never stop. I am either busy on my way or busy looking at my aunt.
Once life enters a state of idleness, the brain will make you think.
1July, 845 to1September, 847, American writer henry david thoreau chose to live by Walden Lake alone, and spent two years writing a book called Walden Lake.
Nowadays, we all hold mobile phones, which prevents us from having boring time, and also prevents boredom from bringing us benefits and thinking. Always eager to get a result, in fact, many times it is not satisfactory.
Laozi said: 30 spokes, * * * a hub, when it is nothing, there is a car. Think of it as a device, when it is nothing, it is useful. Chisel the household as a room, when it has nothing, it has a room. Therefore, it is beneficial to think about it, but useless to think about it.
A wheel made of 30 spokes, the hollow space of which can be used to install the axle, has the function of a car. A vessel made of clay is empty, so that things can be put in it, and this is the role of the vessel. Open the window to build a house, which is empty, so you can put things and live in it, which is the role of the house.
It is those empty and boring things that support everything we see and have.
The life we yearn for, let's think quietly and gossip about tea after dinner. I remember saying to a friend on a rainy day, "I really want to have a cabin in a mountain, just like now." Said it's been a long time since I lost touch with that friend.
"Every process carries everyone's sincerity, and we just need to wait for the happy ending after the sincerity is precipitated."
The reason why I yearn for life is that it can also be said to be a food program. Huang Lei always has a good knowledge of food, which makes people want to have a taste.
Food is very healing. I was depressed for a long time. Like a headless fly, I have no clue, I don't know what I am suitable for, and I don't know how to go next. I only know that this is not possible now.
Whenever I start to feel anxious, I will cook delicious food, which is not really delicious.
Just some home-cooked meals and sometimes toast. Croissants, scallion cakes, pizza, these foods have a * * * same process, that is, they need to be kneaded, and I am almost completely empty in this process. I don't know where my thoughts have drifted in the world, but my hands have never stopped. The whole person will be calm in the end, but I seldom eat all the things I make, because I am afraid of getting fat.
"Four rooms eat, but a bowl of fireworks." The world is working hard, and the best time is just that bowl of common food. When I was a child in the countryside, farmers ate a bowl of sweet noodles in their small yard in summer nights. I still remember the sound of hula hula, which was the only thing worth waiting for after an afternoon's work.
I remember that once my mother didn't have time to steam steamed bread, and the dough in the basin was always rubbed down by her, and then rubbed down again and again. As a result, the steamed bread was surprisingly good, layer by layer. Up to now, I remember eating steamed bread layer by layer. I am very happy and satisfied.
"Time doesn't know how to rewind, and companionship is the deepest expectation."
Love is not as long as companionship, and the person who is always by your side is the most cherished person. Time is the most impotent thing in the world. You never know who you will meet. It may be the last time.
I have a great-grandmother, who has been dead for a long time. When I was in college, she was taken to the city where I went to school by her son. Sometimes I take time to see her on weekends. Wrinkles have spread all over her face, but she was still in good spirits at that time.
Every time I go, she always pulls me to lie with her, and her memory is amazing, so we just lie in bed all afternoon and talk about our family. Whose children are married and whose old people have passed away. It was almost quiet that afternoon, and when I went back to school, she watched me leave from the balcony.
My mother said that old people always leave a shadow for future generations when they die. The last time I saw her was in my hometown. When we walked out of the building, she looked at us from the balcony, waving and crying, which was very worrying.
I remember my aunt who once took care of her said, "Grandma likes you to come. She was very happy all day when you came, and she will roll noodles for you to eat."
We are waiting for her.
I used to be very young. I always felt that the days were long and I had many friends. Later, I learned that there were very few people who could sit down and chat. Many friends circle, you don't want to blend in, so you learn to accompany loneliness.
It's a long time, so we always need to wait, wait for a whole jar of sauerkraut to ferment, wait for a pot of braised pork to be soft and rotten, and wait for the lost mood to pick up again before we set off.
Just like Mao doesn't sing easily:
The setting sun melted into the river before sunset.
I was satisfied with the harvest after visiting the evening market.
My friend called and said he was waiting for you.
There are endless topics to talk about when we meet
The dining table is set in a yard full of flowers.
Slightly drunk, singing and laughing.
Never consider where to go tomorrow.
Because the wind is too warm tonight.
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