"If adults can know what children are thinking, the tacit understanding of love and being loved must be better than now."

Before buying, Baidu noticed that the online evaluation was not very good, but I was still touched by this sentence on the cover. There are not only children's psychological growth and changes, but also memories of full childhood. For parents, it may be difficult to have a mother like carrot in our life. We can reflect on ourselves and better reflect on getting along with children, understand children, and better enter their hearts, which is actually to grow ourselves.

The hero boy in the book, his name is carrot beard, but his real name is not. Just because his hair is ochre red and there are many freckles on his skin, everyone cried like this. Carrot beard has a father, a mother, a brother and a sister, and a maid. As naughty as we were when we were children, carrot bushu told a little lie, and did some ugly and stupid things ... But his essence was good, just to get the recognition and affirmation of his family. Instead, he didn't do what he wanted to do well, which made his family hate him, especially his mother ... At home, she was teased by her brother and sister and abused by her mother. With my brothers and sisters, all the hard work and dirty work is Huber Xu Qian. Such as: assigned to close the henhouse, kill partridge, hunt a man with a gun back and forth ...

Regardless of his mother's words in the article, I think it will be an interesting memory to close the henhouse. After reading this, I think I closed the henhouse when I was a child. Now urban life is accelerating, and even towns and cities are integrated. There is almost no such experience. Let's look at the description of carrot must do it:

When I first started reading, I only thought it was a dull description. When I read it again and again, I thought about our psychology in the dark when we were young, walking alone at home at night. Is it the same? If you are dissatisfied, do it reluctantly, do it well, be proud of your heart and look forward to your family's concern and expectation, isn't it?

Looking back on myself, I used to feel this way when I was a child, but I couldn't express it then? I looked at the adult's expression with great expectation, but when the words of my family lost, my heart was empty, and I slowly stopped expressing and expecting, and used silence as the language of communication again and again. If we can think back to our childhood in this way, maybe we can get closer to each other for our children and communicate with them.

Killing partridge is the saddest thing for me. A child loves and protects small animals, but his family assigned him to do it at home. The whole process of killing partridge can be described as miserable. After finishing, the family repeatedly blamed him and treated him coldly ... Through the description of language and action psychology, I think this is not killing partridge, but carrot must abuse himself and hate himself for being unable to resist ...

And when I was a child, I wet the bed ... What I like to eat and what I don't like to eat is completely imposed on him by my family. Generally speaking, he should only like what his mother likes to eat ...