Text | Jiang Xiaot Sunday, March 4, 2018 Weather: Sunny -01- So far, I have more than 300 friends in my WeChat circle of friends. Some of these friends have very good relationships with me.

We talk about everything.

Some of them just have acquaintances once, and they become WeChat friends after they get along well with each other.

Although I have more than 300 WeChat friends, many of them have not been contacted for a long time, and they are almost like "zombie" friends.

There are often people in the circle of friends who are cleaning up some friends that I have not contacted for a long time, but I have never been willing to block or delete the friends I have not contacted in WeChat.

Because I think meeting each other is fate, and I like making friends very much.

However, later on, I deleted a few friends.

-02- When I was at school, I often helped my classmates with things, such as bringing food and water, or helping with a class, which I was happy to do.

However, gradually, I actually felt a little disgusted with the behavior of helping others.

A few days ago, my friend Xiao A sent me a message on WeChat and said: "Can you help me buy a high-speed rail ticket?".

Not long after I bought some clothes for myself, the money left in my bank card was no longer enough to buy him a high-speed rail ticket.

He replied, "I'm sorry, I don't have enough money in my card, so I can't help you this time."

Just like that, the chat dialog box never came up.

The next day, I deposited some money into the card and sent a message to Little A. "I went to deposit money today. Have you bought the tickets? Do you want my help?" Little A replied to me with two words.

The word, "hehe".

When I see the word "haha", I don't know why, but I always feel an indescribable grievance in my heart.

Actually, I just wanted to know if he had bought his ticket. If not, I might be able to buy it for him. I didn’t expect to receive these two words.

When I saw him chatting high with others in the group, but he never responded to my message.

I decided to press the delete button.

Maybe you will say that it is too impulsive to delete a person just because he said "haha"?

Maybe he really hasn’t seen your message!

Then let me tell you another story!

-03- In the fall of a certain year, I registered for a certain exam.

At 10 o'clock in the middle of the night, my classmate Xiao C sent a WeChat message: "Classmate, can you help me register for a certain exam? I am outside now and there is no computer around me. The deadline will be tomorrow." When I saw his message, I jumped quickly

Get out of bed, turn on the computer, and fill in his information as required.

After filling it out, I sent a WeChat message saying “Registration completed”.

I don’t know if he was asleep at the time or something, but he didn’t reply to my message.

Of course I didn't think much about it.

The exam date was coming soon, and I received another WeChat message from Little C, "Classmate, please help me check where the exam room is." I happened to be in front of the computer at the time, so I checked it for him, and then sent the information through a screenshot.

give him.

Then there was no response again.

I myself could only smile bitterly in my heart.

Later, I saw that he had commented on another classmate’s circle of friends, but he still didn’t reply to me. I felt a little disappointed.

Then, on the day when the results were released, he sent another WeChat message saying, "Classmate, please check the results for me." When I saw this message, I was really angry, but I still sent a screenshot of the results to

Got him.

However, after sending him the screenshot, I pressed the delete button.

-04- In the process of making friends, I would like to say that no matter how good your relationship is, try not to mention things about money.

Because, the friendship between me and Little D just doesn’t exist.

Little D and I were high school classmates. We had a close relationship in high school and talked about everything.

Once, Little D came to me and said, "Can you lend me some money? I want to give my girlfriend a bag and I'll give it to you next week." Without saying anything, I transferred 300 to him directly through WeChat transfer.

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A month later, the school was on winter vacation. I wanted to go out and buy a bus ticket. When I was making travel plans, I remembered the money he lent me.

I asked, "Brother, when can you pay me back the money? I have to buy a ticket." "I'm sorry, I forgot. Money is tight recently. Please wait for me for two more days." I don't like what little D said back to me.

When urging others to do something, they didn’t say anything.

That night, I saw him posting a set of pictures on WeChat Moments.

It was a picture of him and his girlfriend eating Western food together, with the text wishing his girlfriend a happy birthday. I thought he was in a hurry because he wanted to celebrate his girlfriend’s birthday. I didn’t push him anymore in the next few days.

Unexpectedly, for the next month, he didn't tell me about paying back the money.

When I went out to play, I saw him handing out some food every day, and the prices were pretty high.