every woman wants to have a good relationship with her mother-in-law after marriage, hoping to get her mother-in-law's approval in her married life. But because of family chores, the relationship between the woman and her mother-in-law is often very tense. At this time, you should think of some tricks to ease the relationship between them, for example, the law of food!

Many family conflicts are caused by disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Although I love my husband very much, I really can't stand my mother-in-law putting women in a dilemma. Everything comes from life, but it still needs to be solved in life.

food partner.

You can often see such a plot in Korean dramas. The old lady complained in front of her daughter-in-law at intervals: "When people are old, they want to eat something good, and I don't know why they are so greedy." In fact, not only Korean old ladies are greedy, but also China old ladies. Don't forget that food is the best communication prop.

so, don't patronize yourself as a gourmet. Once a month, once in a while, you cancel an appointment with a friend and take your mother-in-law to eat snacks she hasn't eaten. Even if it is not to her taste, there is a saying called "soft mouth eats people", and it will not be praised. I'm sure she won't speak ill of you.

I like to eat the same food, plus your mother-in-law is a good cook, so much the better. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can study how the food in other restaurants is cooked. In the long run, with the friendship of classmates, what are the chances of cold war friction?

surf the internet.

who says that only young people like surfing the internet, and who says that the elderly are slow to respond? Nowadays, more and more old people have become netizens. So, as long as your mother-in-law can read, let's quickly give her computer literacy. First, it will make the old lady fashionable, and second, you can finally have a chance to educate her.

Although it may be bitter and tiring, you will soon find that it feels good to be trusted by her. Mother-in-law will naturally appreciate you while broadening her horizons. Where did she get the time to find fault with you?

shopping.

it is a woman's nature to love beauty. No matter what age a woman is, she always thinks that shopping, especially clothes, is her favorite thing to do. Mother-in-law has always taken her grandson with her, so she won't be too particular about clothes and won't have time to go shopping. Especially after the baby goes to kindergarten, isn't it time to dress up the old lady?

In the process of shopping, I not only relaxed my mother-in-law's mood, but also found that they like plaid skirts of the same style and curtain tablecloths of the same color. These * * * languages can be a bridge of friendship between two people.