Wen | 7 classmate

As an important life theater for modern people, the circle of friends is staged every day to show everyone's colorful life. I have to admire the WeChat team's accurate grasp of the public's psychological needs, and the multiple settings of the circle of friends' rights perfectly fit the different social needs of different groups of people. As a girl, how can I get to know a person through the permission setting of his circle of friends and know whether he loves you or not?

1? Setting the invisible moment is the moment when he closes his heart to you

Zhou Meng and her husband have been married for the seventh year. At the beginning, they met and fell in love on WeChat. At that time, they had almost the same hobbies, they all liked the rain, they were all foodies, they liked to look around for food, and they were all keen on playing the latest social software. * * * The same hobbies make them feel as if they have found another self in this world. Therefore, they quickly met, fell in love and fell in love on WeChat, so that their marriage later became a natural thing.

at that time, they couldn't wait to stick together every day and sleep for one meter and a half forever. They are both people who like to make friends. They pay close attention to each other's circle of friends with great interest, praising each other's comments, showing love and spoofing, and having fun. Look at their circle of friends, friends around them are always suddenly stuffed with dog food, and those single dog people are often tortured to the teeth.

But I don't know when, as a song goes, "Some people forget when they think about it, and some people leave when they walk", and their relationship has faded from the circle of friends to real life. Until one day, Zhou Meng still clearly remembers that it was May 2 last year, their wedding anniversary, and she didn't receive a gift. Sad, she opened her husband's circle of friends, and what stood in front of her was a hard gray straight line. She doesn't want to believe it, but the fact is that her husband's heart is really not here, and he has fallen in love with another woman.

He chose to close her circle of friends at this time, just to tell her his attitude in this way on this special day. For those who have long been accustomed to expressing love and recording love in the circle of friends, such a farewell way has special significance for them.

Look, the gray line he set in his circle of friends is the ray line he set in his mind to refuse you to come near him. People who are invisible to your circle of friends have already removed you from their hearts.

2? He didn't show his sincerity to you when he was visible for three days

My friend Sisi sent a sad circle of friends the day before yesterday, probably saying that he was single again. I'm a little surprised that two people who often show their love in a circle of friends suddenly say that they are separated. I accidentally slipped and praised, and then she began to talk privately about how scum Dapeng was.

He met a beautiful girl on WeChat and asked her out to meet, eat and go shopping. Last weekend, Sisi saw two people taking selfies hand in hand. Sisi exploded on the spot. The bloody story is that Dapeng left his new love on the spot, knelt down and begged Sisi to forgive him, and Sisi ignored him. Later, he sent messages on WeChat again and again asking for forgiveness.

Angry, Sisi asked him, the photos and videos of their love show are still in Dapeng's circle of friends. How did the girl blindly find a love rat like him? Dapeng was honest, and clearly explained the back and forth of their understanding. It turned out that Dapeng had already set the circle of friends to be visible for three days. Three days ago, the girl who was in love with Sisixiu was completely invisible.

all she knew was Dapeng in three days, but she knew nothing about him three days ago. It turns out that she is also a victim. Fortunately, people like Sisi know how to stop losses in time, so they broke up with him decisively.

Therefore, a man who is used to "brand-new" himself to meet new lovers within three days is unreliable. He has not shown his sincerity to you when he has set up a circle of friends for three days. If you want to fully understand a person, you must meet his circle of friends three days ago.

3. He is always hiding something.

Mao Mao, my best friend, has been complaining to me recently. She thinks that her husband, who has just been married for less than a year, is lukewarm, neither salty nor indifferent to her. Let's break up. After all, he has only been married for a short time, regardless. It seems that he has not put all his thoughts on himself and this small family.

Until last night, when I was in a daze, I was awakened by her phone call. She cried and told me that she hadn't noticed before. It turned out that her husband's circle of friends had been visible to her for half a year. Out of curiosity, when her husband went to take a shower, she opened his circle of friends with his mobile phone. The beautiful photos of his ex-girlfriend, the love words he confessed to her late at night, and the photos of her cooking soup for him filled her eyes instantly.

It turned out that there were so many stories in his circle of friends six months ago, which he had been afraid to open. It turned out that the past between him and his ex-girlfriend that he never wanted to delete was in his circle of friends six months ago.

Under Mao Mao's repeated questioning, my husband told him the truth. It turned out that his ex-girlfriend always had a place in his heart, and he was reluctant to delete those beautiful memories of him and her. He will also secretly open a circle of friends half a year ago when thinking about her, and recall each other's past from those little things.

Look, he, who has been visible to you for half a year, often has hidden worries. If you want to know what he looked like six months ago and his true heart, you really need to use your brains.

4 Set all visible He has no reservations about you

Yi Feng's circle of friends is always visible. Just like him in life, he is cheerful, honest, likes to make friends, and most importantly, he is kind to his wife.

It is said that a good man is all-powerful outside, indomitable spirit, full of love at home, gentle and considerate. Yi Feng is really like this. The salary card paid in full every month, the pace of going home on time at 8 o'clock every night, and the two people talking about what they thought for a day half an hour before going to bed all made his wife Lingling feel safe and happy.

For Lingling, his circle of friends is always open. Now, he, three days ago, six months ago, and even more years ago, he has revealed everything to Lingling without reservation. He once told Lingling that he wanted her to know him, from the circle of friends and from real life. Because the more you know, the less you misunderstand.

Look, the person who really values you and respects you, and protects this relationship with his heart, can't wait to tell you everything about him. He wants you to know your true self and love him.

5? You are the only one who is visible, and he has devoted all his heart to you

Have you ever seen a person whose circle of friends is only open to one person? My colleague Xiao Qiang is. At the beginning, I didn't quite believe that such a peerless man really existed by my side.

He and his wife are all junior high school classmates, and their stories are as beautiful as a love movie. Seed of love's mutual love, bitter love for life and death, and warm and perfect marriage life can simply sum up their happy lives.

He always wants to say sweet words to her, the joy of meeting a good thing, the vows he made for her ... He is willing to record them in his circle of friends. All her unhappiness, the little secrets she just wants to tell him, and only the sweet words he can understand, she wants him to feel and share for the first time. Their circle of friends is really a romantic little world that records their love journey, with a love memory that belongs only to them.

Just last year, at their paper wedding celebration banquet, Xiao Qiang made an affectionate confession, "Fan Fan, all I have belongs to you alone, including this heart, including myself", which made Fan Fan burst into tears instantly.

See, only a man who loves you deeply will give you himself as your exclusive product. Everything in this world is no longer important except you.

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