It's not a superpower, but it's also an ability that I didn't expect to have when I was young.

is an introvert, who has developed the active social skills of extroverts, but it is a bit sad to say it.

In fact, this society is not friendly to introverts. Only crying children can have milk to eat, while introverted children who can't cry can only go hungry.

at the family level, the child who used to eat the most delicious food and was the most favored was always the one who could coquetry, speak well and have a particularly sweet mouth.

The one who is scolded the most is the one who doesn't like to talk or answer. The more fierce parents will also curse: "Did I give birth to a mute? I can't fart for a long time."

fortunately, my family is a bowl of water for me and my sister, and I have not been wronged.

But at the company level, it's different. Those who are commended, paid attention to and given more resources are all extroverted people, or sales people who can talk back, or workplace fritters who can talk nonsense.

Introverts may get a sentence: Well, this employee is honest and practical, but there is no more. You are a dispensable existence, and good things will never think of you. Even some bosses can't remember you.

In my first job, I was treated uncomfortably because I was introverted.

For example, in a large-scale activity of a company, I was forgotten when the work was arranged. Everyone except me had a job, but I didn't appear on the shift schedule.

For example, the direct leader cynically assigned more work from time to time and gave others the treatment that should belong to me. She felt that I didn't like to talk and wouldn't complain.

For example, when I left my job, my boss said to me, "I really didn't expect you to leave. I have always known that you have done a good job and are very down-to-earth, but I seldom think of you, and I never even thought that you would leave. In the future, you can't just bury your head in the farmland, but also look up at the road. "

actually, how does the boss know that I didn't look up at the road? It's just that I didn't have positive communication with him.

In this way, my first job came to an abrupt end, and then I began to change myself. I didn't like to actively communicate with others, so I forced myself to take the initiative to greet others and exchange information.

if you don't like to associate with leaders, you force yourself to associate, offer tea and water to the leaders, look at the boss lovingly during the meeting, have dinner and take the initiative to pour wine to the boss.

if you don't like to be the focus in public, you should force yourself to be the focus, speak at meetings, give presentations on PPT, and go out to talk about the plan, so that you can get everything.

That's it. Working for six years has turned an introverted person into an extroverted person with super powers.

Now, such an extroverted person pretends to be a little tired, resigns and goes home, and prepares to do something that can be done quietly by himself.

It gives me the feeling that what I do under pressure from the environment is successful, so that I can be myself beyond the environment.