Why can't you date a girl?

When you see the above question, you can think about it first: Why can’t you date a girl when you chat with her?

Why doesn't she want to see you?

For something, what is the reason?

What is the result?

You may be thinking: "I chat with girls just to date girls." First, let's take a look at what is the purpose?

What is the result?

What is the purpose of chatting with girls?

For example, the purpose of eating hot pot is to enjoy the food; the result of enjoying the food is that we are full, and we eat this meal to extend our lives.

So what is the purpose of drinking coffee with girls and friends?

It's to chat and enjoy our free time; the result of drinking coffee is that we can't sleep.

Many people say that the purpose of chatting is to date a girl, but can you date her?

The fact is that dating girls is not the purpose of our chat, but a result.

The purpose of chatting is to attract girls and make girls like us.

As it turned out, she wanted to see me and I asked her out.

Therefore, chatting with girls is to improve the relationship with girls and make her like you.

After she likes you, she will definitely want to see you, and she will definitely want to make a date with you.

Remember the following sentence, "If a girl doesn't like you, she has 10,000 reasons why she doesn't want to see you."

Women are particularly good at lying. She will find any reason to refuse you, such as her best friend’s birthday; she is visiting her aunt today; she slept too late today and doesn’t want to go out; she didn’t wash her hair; she couldn’t find lipstick, etc.

Wait, women will find a bunch of reasons to reject you.

If you don't attract girls and you go out on a date with a girl, the girl will definitely have a bunch of reasons to reject you.

You can think about whether the chat between you is too boring.

Many people worked hard to date the girl, and they had a meal, but the girl didn't like him at all. At most, he just acted as a "payer" once.

In the same way, if a girl likes you, she will have 10,000 reasons to want to see you.

In our internal group, many students are often asked out by girls. If girls want to meet boys, what reasons will girls find?

Girls will say: "No one is home today. It's so cold. I want to hug you and sleep." Women will say: "I want to chat with you."

A woman will find a lot of reasons to want to see you. Even if she can't find lipstick, she still has to buy a lipstick and put on makeup to see you.

From the side, it can be explained that all the reasons a girl gives to meet a boy are not reasons at all.

You ask a girl to meet, and she says, "I slept too late yesterday, and I don't want to go out today." Many girls sleep very late every day. It's not that they don't want to go out, they just don't want to go out to see you.

If she likes you, no matter how late she sleeps, she will go out to see you and dress up to see you.

Therefore, women's reasons are all flimsy. She finds reasons not to see you, but she just feels that she is not ready to see you yet, and you have not given her the urge to see you.