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The circle of friends is a public social place on the Internet.

Most people post in Moments to record their lives, happy or unhappy; small happiness or small emotions at the moment...

Of course, some people do not rule out that It doesn't matter if people show off openly, because everyone has their happy and unhappy moments, even if it's just a moment of vanity-like showing off, it's okay as long as it doesn't affect others?

However, there are some people who don’t know why you post in Moments and will make bad comments about your life, make malicious comments or take pleasure in the unhappiness and troubles you are experiencing.

I can only laugh at this. After all, this is a diversified society that allows any weird thing to appear, and lemon essence is no exception.

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Friend Z said on WeChat that he had blocked a few friends who were good friends in the past. It was naturally too disturbing to ask why, and the former friendship could only be closed. In the old days.

Z recently got divorced and was feeling depressed. He posted a sad text on WeChat Moments: Ten years of love has come to an end. I wonder how you will remember me many years from now?

There are a lot of comments below.

A said, you are so pretentious, no wonder you were dumped after ten years.

B said, haha, you can finally change.

C said, your ex-husband is a scumbag, you should have dumped him long ago, you are a bitch.

Z said that these three people are all friends of each other. Everyone has seen the comments. They also have other *** friends.

They treated her circle of friends like a tea party, making random remarks and making fun of her, without any regard for her feelings.

No one sent a private message to comfort her, which made her feel like she was being treated unfairly, and she decisively blocked these former good friends.

In the journey of life, you will inevitably encounter some sad things. Even if you don’t need to comfort you, you are not required to feel the same way. At least don’t make fun of other people’s sad things. Otherwise, there is something wrong with your character. This Don't block people of this kind and keep them for the New Year.

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In the journey of life, everyone will meet some people who make you want to block them instantly. Some people may say that blocking them casually is a childish behavior. Instead of letting others To make myself sick, it is better to block him as soon as possible for peace of mind.

Classmate F is a very tasteful woman who lives a happy life. I like to see her sharing the delicious food she cooks by herself in the circle of friends, the beautiful photos she occasionally takes when traveling, and her son. , lover and parents’ daily life...

She is a sweet-tempered person and seldom posts pictures or photos. Although it is not perfect, her happiness as a little woman is enviable to others.

Every time I see her WeChat Moments, my mood inexplicably gets better, because she always conveys full of positive energy, but even so, there are still some comments below that make her feel unhappy. words.

For example, she posted a photo of herself with the text "The years are quiet and peaceful."

A classmate commented below that he is getting old, fat and ugly.

We all get older as we grow older, but comments like this instantly put people in a bad mood.

Occasionally, I would help her fight back. No one can resist the passage of time, but a beautiful woman is still as beautiful as ever.

Another time she took a photo of a gift she gave to her mother-in-law during the holidays. The same person commented below that after being married for more than ten years, she bought a gift once a day and still had the nerve to post it. I really admire you! It also comes with a pouty emoticon.

F did not respond. When we chatted a few days later, F said that he had blocked the classmate with whom we had the same relationship because every time he posted on Moments, he was speechless with his comments and did not want him to He appears in his circle of friends again.

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For a period of time, I often posted on Moments, and I would be irritated by some people's comments. Later, I blocked him.

One day he asked me why he couldn’t see me posting on Moments anymore. I said that instead of letting others think I’m pretending to be artistic, it’s better to keep my mouth shut so that I can be quiet and others won’t be able to criticize me.

I said that if I see someone’s comments in Moments that make me upset in the future, I will block them.

He smiled and said, I'm really sorry. I just thought we had a good relationship, so I talked like that. I would never dare to do it again.

He really hasn’t blocked me since then, and I don’t have to block him anymore.

Annoying.

As a human being, you must have a good sense of proportion. No matter how good the relationship is, please consider other people's feelings. Don't think that because you have a good relationship, you can comment on other people's lives at will.

You haven’t walked in other people’s paths, so what qualifications do you have to criticize them?

When someone encounters something sad, you don’t have to care about them, but you must not rub salt into their wounds, no matter how good of a friend you are.

The circle of friends is both a public place and a personal show. People are free to post what they want. You don’t have to agree with it. Please don’t comment on others maliciously, because many relationships start and end when you open your mouth. of.

For the rest of your life, I hope you know how to respect and shut up when appropriate, because silence is golden!

Even if you can’t be liked by everyone, at least don’t be hated by everyone, because once you are on the blacklist, you will never get out.