Introduction: Flash marriage is no longer a new term. You marry someone you just met in a few months or even days. This kind of marriage has a strong gambling meaning. It is not advisable to make such a hasty decision on marriage without knowing each other clearly, which has buried a huge security risk for marriage.

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The pace of life of modern people is getting faster and faster. In order to adapt to this fast-paced society, fast food has emerged, allowing people to enjoy delicious food when they arrive at the store.

Then taxi platforms such as Didi appeared, allowing people to quickly find travel tools anytime, anywhere, making it convenient for people to travel and shortening the waiting time.

In addition to the accelerated pace of food, clothing, housing and transportation, the speed of people's marriage is also quietly accelerated, and flash marriage is born. Some people even completed this process in just a few days, from getting to know each other and getting married, but is it really feasible to get married so quickly?

can you be sure in months or even days that the other person is the partner you want to spend your life with?

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Xiao Ran is a hothead, and she is in a hurry to do everything, even her own marriage event is no exception.

Before returning home from the Spring Festival holiday, Xiao Ran met a distant relative at a family gathering. He was an elder brother who could not be separated from each other, but Xiao Ran felt cordial for no reason. In her own words, it was to meet each other late, hit it off, and then fall in love.

Despite parents' objections, Xiao Ran married him within three months of knowing each other. On the first day after marriage, they had a fierce quarrel because her husband lost Xiao Ran's beloved golden retriever. It turned out that Xiao Ran's husband hated dogs so much that he didn't allow Xiao Ran to keep them at home.

It was a golden retriever who had been with Xiao Ran for six years. Xiao Ran didn't agree with her husband to drive him away, so they had their first quarrel since they met.

in the quarrel, the two men refused to give way to each other, and they were red in the face.

At this moment, Xiao Ran realized that the man around him was so strange. He was no longer as polite as when he first met, as accommodating himself as when he first dated, and as soft as when he talked on the phone.

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Xiao Ran just found out now that he didn't know the man in front of him. I didn't know that he was so unreasonable and hysterical when he lost his temper.

So she flinched, and suddenly she found that her love for him was just her beautiful side, her imaginary side, and the real him, which she couldn't accept.

she can't accept that he doesn't wash his feet before going to bed, that he looks fierce when he quarrels, and that he doesn't like his golden hair.

Three days after marriage, Xiao Ran ended this hasty marriage.

The biggest drawback of flash marriage is that you don't have enough time to get to know each other. Even when you marry him, you don't know what kind of person he is, whether his life habits are compatible with his own, whether he has shortcomings that he can't accept, and even whether he has bad hobbies.

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When you don't know a person well enough, marrying him and living together will inevitably lead to great conflicts.

when these contradictions and conflicts can't be solved, it may lead to marriage change, which is the reason why most people leave after flash marriage.

Xiao Ran is lucky to get away with it. If she has children, it is not just about herself.

Just like Yingying, she was attracted by her husband's decisive and resolute personality and married him within four months.

After marriage, Yingying is infatuated with her husband like innocent girl. Everything looks so beautiful, and soon they gave birth to a boy.

But gradually, Yingying found that her husband's male chauvinism became more and more serious, and his desire for control was very strong. She not only interfered with her dress, but even interfered with her normal contacts with her male friends.

The most serious time, her husband even hit her. Yingying thought of divorce, but when she saw the starving child in her arms, she hesitated and fell into a dilemma.

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Actually, it's not that flash marriage is not allowed. It's just that the risk of flash marriage is very high. Short-term contact can't make you fully understand a person. Never make an impulsive decision under the temporary stimulation of hormones.

After all, marriage is a major event in life, which can be said to be a woman's second reincarnation, so we must be cautious.

Even if you are not completely sure, you must be 99% sure before you can get married with the other person. You can get married before you have a clear understanding of the other person's temperament and character. If he is a modest gentleman, he will be fine. If he is a demon, it will be too late to regret it.

Just like Xiao Ran and Ying Ying in the article, they didn't have enough time to know the character of the man they chose, and then they discovered each other's shortcomings after marriage, but it was too late to regret it.

Girl, don't get married in a hurry. You should observe it for a period of time, ranging from half a year to three or five years. The most important thing is not time, but whether you really know him and whether he is really suitable for you.

fast food can only fill the stomach, but it can't bring the flavor of the ingredients to the extreme. Only by cooking slowly can we make delicious food, and the food is still like this, not to mention our marriage, where we eat bad food for a while. If we marry an unhappy husband, it will affect us for a lifetime.

Let's get to know him well, step into marriage slowly, and live a life slowly.

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