When women travel, they always have their own unique routes and scenery, as well as their emotional and lyrical side. They can always find a particularly suitable place, and then they may go shopping without even thinking about eating. Their craziness is no less than that of football fans.
Meeting David Beckham, or a female movie star meeting Brad Pitt.
Or, women also like to go into unfamiliar alleys, looking for special accessories and delicious food... Whether it is shopping or disappearing in the alleys like "eloping", what women are looking for is a kind of happiness and a kind of freedom.
A wonderful mixture of heartiness and freedom.
However, women traveling alone sometimes need more rationality and thinking. For example, where is the most suitable place to go?
What is the most meaningful way to play, and what is the most worthwhile and valuable thing to do after you go there?
Isn't there any more meaning besides broadening one's horizons, enjoying life, or taking a break when you're heartbroken, and occasionally looking for some passion and adventure?
Chen Qizhen once sang: ...You linger in the beautiful and unreal scenes in the movie, but you can't tell the reason why you love me, but you can't tell which expression of mine you appreciate, but you can't tell what I have distracted you on occasions,
Unable to explain the meaning of travel, this was obviously a confusion; then, Chen Qizhen gave the answer:...I barely said that every letter you sent me was the reason for your leaving. When you left me, it was travel.
Although the answer is given to the meaning of the book, it still cannot escape the sadness and lamentation of the little woman, nor can it escape the ordinary reasons for traveling.
In fact, travel is a way for women to know themselves, discover themselves, and find themselves. It is the beginning of another life and life. Travel has a higher meaning than relaxing or having an affair, especially for women.
I remember that Calvino once discussed travel in "Invisible Cities". He said, "Every time you arrive in a new city, the traveler will discover a past that he has never experienced - the old self that no longer exists and the things that no longer exist.
The strangeness of the things you own is waiting for you in a foreign place that is unfamiliar to you and does not belong to you." This passage can tell the biggest secret of people's travel, that is, people always seek something strange and different from what they have experienced before.
It is undoubtedly a wonderful feeling to experience something completely different and travel in search of a strange feeling.
Then, Calvino pointed out, "Other places are a negative mirror. The traveler can see how little he owns and how much he never has and will never have."
The passage also expresses the directionality of travel, that is, traveling is not for the past, but for the future. In other words, although the meaning of travel includes summarizing the past and forgetting the past, it is more about the future. People travel for the future.
Of course women travel too.
Yes, for the future, for the beautiful life, and in order to move on, women always move towards that distant place, exile themselves again and again, search again and again, in order to gain inspiration and enlightenment, and gain courage.
Gain wisdom... This may be the biggest reason why more and more modern women choose to go alone.