Near the end of the year, I believe many farmers who are still working in other places or have returned home have received many invitations, right? Maybe some people have long been used to it, but they are more helpless because many banquets in rural areas have changed now. All kinds of luxurious banquets emerge one after another. Car buyers, hanging gardens (those who buy houses in cities), recovered and even divorced people will throw a big party. In a word, nothing is impossible, except what you can't imagine. In the past, rural folk customs were purely complementary, and farmers also attached great importance to their relations with relatives and neighbors. The most common way is to hold a banquet. However, unlike now, it usually only entertains guests and friends at weddings, funerals, weddings and other weddings, and its purpose is very simple and pure. They don't care how many gifts they receive, and they won't go online because of the number of gifts. Guests will not worry about the amount of gifts, but also be happy to share the host's happy event!

Nowadays, booze in rural areas is far from being as simple as it used to be. The original intention of maintaining feelings is the second, and accepting gifts is the first. The number of gifts has become the standard to measure their relationship. In order to curb the popularity of this culture, many rural areas have also set the scale of drinking and the upper limit of gifts. At the same time, relevant experts called for the suspension of this service. However, for outsiders, this is good news, but the farmers are not one-sided. So what do these opponents think?

with the development of society, farmers' way of making money is no longer limited to one acre and three points. More and more people choose to leave the countryside to work in cities. These migrant workers usually return to the countryside only in the New Year, and there is less and less communication between relatives and neighbors. Therefore, banquets have become the best way to get close to each other. When we get together to talk about the recent situation, the distance is far away, and when we recall our childhood, the distance between us is virtually narrowed. If the banquet is stopped according to the expert's suggestion, the chances of getting together will be less, and we will become the most familiar strangers.

I don't know since when, rural booze is no longer just a simple "wedding, funeral and wedding", and various kinds of booze emerge one after another, such as buying a car, going to college, buying a house in the hometown of the city, divorce and so on. In some areas, even pigs, cattle, sheep and calves have to be served with wine, which is even more ridiculous. Of course, what is even more disturbing is that some people not only throw banquets indiscriminately, but also go to great lengths to read out the guests' gifts publicly, fearing that others may not know the purpose of putting out wine. However, due to the face or the heart of comparison, spending a lot of money to send a big gift will only increase the economic burden!