When "Struggle" was aired, many people couldn't understand why Lu Tao liked Xia Lin but didn't choose Mi Lai.

As a Milai fan, I was extremely angry at the time and felt that Lu Tao simply had low quotient.

Later I realized: Two people with different views may have a spark of love, but in the end it will be difficult to stay together.

If Lu Tao had been born with the surname Xu, and had grown up around Xu Zhisen, and had been influenced by him, maybe his choice would have been different.

Love also requires finding a like-minded person.

01 Yaoyao is actually in love!

She is actually accepted by someone, and she can actually have a boyfriend.

The shock level of this incident can definitely be ranked in the top three of my list of the most unexpected events this year.

Having been her roommate for a year and a half, I am definitely qualified to detail her "weird things".

However, she has always had the attitude of "stick to my weirdness and let others struggle with it!" when it comes to our accusations.

She has severe mysophobia and obsessive-compulsive disorder.

When we were living together, she would get up on time at 7 a.m. every morning and fold the quilt into tofu blocks. When I was sleepy, I often mistakenly thought that I was back in the military training period.

She has repeatedly set records of mopping the floor more than ten times in one day; for my occasional behavior of not folding the quilt, she always insisted on coercing and nagging me until I folded it with black lines all over my face... She

One thing that is least understood and accepted is working overtime.

In her opinion, it is up to her to decide whether to work overtime, not the company. She can refuse to work overtime without giving any reason, and she must be paid as long as she works overtime, even if it is just for one minute.

I tried many times to explain to her that working overtime is a normal phenomenon using "accidents of human nature" and "special circumstances", but still failed to convince her.

She shook her head and said firmly: "No, not abroad." "But you live in China. This is China, not the United States." I said through gritted teeth.

She still shook her head, expressing her disapproval, and I didn't bother to talk anymore.

When she said many times that if she couldn't find a suitable boy, she would stay single for the rest of her life, I strongly agreed and never dissuaded her.

I felt that I was simply doing good deeds. The boy who could live with her for the rest of her life would definitely die not in a nursing home but in a mental hospital.

But now she is actually in love and is very likely to talk about marriage.

I really don’t know which “unlucky guy” is blind.

It didn't take long for me to see the "unlucky guy": he had shiny black hair, was wearing a spotless white shirt, there were two ironing lines on his trousers, and his leather shoes were shiny. He was standing there straight, holding Yaoyao's hand.

This boy is clearly Yue Lao’s tailor-made partner for Yaoyao!

02 During the dinner, this clean-minded boy cut the steak into shapes of the same size and specifications, and watched dotingly as Yaoyao ate it in small bites, while I grabbed it with all my teeth and claws.

While they were talking about Blue Mountain Coffee I suddenly wanted to drink Wong Lo Kat.

They said that they would not hold a wedding and go on a trip when they got married. I thought that if my partner dared not give me a decent and luxurious wedding in the future, I would regret it temporarily.

The "unlucky guy" also said that he could actually not have children, lighten his burden and still live in a world of two.

Yaoyao agreed deeply, her eyes filled with approval.

On this day, I was not only a big lightbulb, but also a big fool.

Fortunately, this girl is determined and has not been ruined by the two of them.

The idea of ??not having a wedding or having children seems to me to be simply irresponsible and rebellious.

If my partner dared to come up with such an idea, I would immediately label him a "scumbag".

But Yaoyao, she agreed with him and was happy to do so.

Yaoyao and I have different views on things, and I also have different views on "unlucky guy", but they have the same views on things, so they can get together, so they can talk happily, and as an audience, I

, like sitting on a pin rug.

Emotional experts say, "People who are similar are suitable for fun, and people who complement each other can grow old together."

It seems that what they are talking about is only the character, not the three views.

Personality may affect three views, but it is by no means the same as three views.

Two people with complementary personalities can stay together for a long time: an extroverted and lively person and an introverted and quiet person are really compatible together, and they can make each other laugh.

But it's another thing when two people with different views come together: one party thinks that they should plan ahead and make careful calculations, while the other party feels that life is short and they should enjoy themselves in time. If neither one is willing to persuade or reform the other, the contradictions between the two parties will become increasingly intensified over time.

Who can be happy?

Three views are a person's spiritual beliefs and the support of a person's soul. How can they be easily changed?

Lu Tao and Xia Lin both have dreams, both are poor and brave, and both want to fight with the people they love.

When Lu Tao had nothing, Xia Lin came to him. When Lu Tao had 20 million, Xia Lin left him.

Charlene said: “Your success makes my efforts worthless.