"Japanese boyfriend" has probably become the most distinctive label on me. After six years of foreign love, I am planning to rush to the marriage hall. At first, when I was with the Xuan Ya brothers, I didn't really think it was anything special, just an ordinary love. Slowly, with everyone's encouragement and blessing, in my own feelings, I realized: Ah, so we are so powerful?

Brother Xuan Ya once gave me three copies of China's Wedding Diary, written by Junichi Inoue, about the love and interesting life between him and his Chinese wife. I said at that time: If we can get married, I will write a book like that for you.

God, I must have fallen in love with him at first sight.

My first meeting with the Xuan Ya brothers.

At that time, I was a sophomore and worked as a volunteer commentator in the museum in Yuexiu District. I turned my head and saw a boy come in through the front door. He is wearing a blue coat and light jeans, and a brown bag on his back. My adrenal glands suddenly surged, and I felt dizzy.

I said to him, "Hello, do you need a commentator?"

He looked at me a little scared and waved. "I'm not from China."

I immediately started the English mode: "Which country are you from?"

"Japan."

He saw a staircase leading to the second floor and made an upward gesture to me. I nodded: "Yes, you can go." I only hesitated for a few seconds, and then followed him to the second floor.

The museum is not big and there are few tourists. There is no one upstairs except him and me. He doesn't seem so nervous anymore and starts talking to me one by one.

Time suddenly flies, and I want to spend more time with him. So I made a small mistake and recommended showing him around Beijing Road, and he readily agreed. At that time, I thought, two people go to the pedestrian street together, and then go to the restaurant to eat and drink if possible, even if there is no follow-up, it is quite romantic.

After walking around the pedestrian street, he even asked me, "Do you have a date tonight?"

So, we sat in the restaurant again. In this way, I know that he is 22 years old, majoring in international law, learning Chinese and Portuguese, hoping to be admitted to graduate school. This is his first time in China, and all the money is earned by his own work. I will go to Beijing and Tianjin in the next few days. ...

When I was about to check out, he asked me politely, "Can you tell me your email address?"

I tore off a corner of the newspaper and wrote down my email address. He also picked up a pen and began to write seriously.

Oh, my god He writes with his left hand! Oh, my god His handwriting is too neat! Oh, my god He looks so charming when he is serious! Oh, my god I must have fallen in love with him at first sight!

I want to hug you three times.

The Xuan Ya brothers came to China for the second time.

Before that, we have been exchanging emails to keep the relationship of AUO more incomplete than that of lovers. After a brief meeting, we parted in guangzhou east railway station.

Me: What should I do? Does he have a girlfriend or not?

Me: If I had, I wouldn't see me like this, would I?

Me: If not, why didn't he make a statement?

Me: Maybe he regards me as a special friend?

Me: Do I have to ask him if he has a girlfriend?

Me: Whether he answers or not, I don't know how to proceed?

My left brain and my right brain have been fighting, and I just feel dizzy. Finally, I got up the courage and sent a short message to my friend: "I want to hug him, but I know nothing about him." what do you think? "

The friend replied in seconds: "You can hug if you want, and ordinary friends can also hug."

Simple, powerful and domineering.

I took a deep breath, opened the mobile phone dictionary, found out the hug English, handed it to Xuan Ya's brother, and asked timidly, "Is that okay?"

Brother Xuan Ya hugged me for a long time and hugged me three times.

Then I asked him why he hugged you three times. He said, "There are three words in your dictionary that mean hug. I thought you wanted me to hug you three times. "

Our first night in Macau

After falling in love, we went to Macao for the first time to date for the night. I don't know whether to book a room or two.

Of course I won't ask such a shameful question.

Xuan Ya's brother sent a message: "I booked two rooms."

At first glance, I was a little disappointed, but then I thought: What a gentleman!

Check in at the hotel The front desk gave the key to Brother Xuan Ya, and I thought, where is my key? Why not give it to me?

I followed the Xuan Ya brothers until I entered the room. When I saw it, there was another door inside. Could it be two open rooms? I fiddled with it, but I couldn't open it. It's just a decorative door.

I can't help asking, "didn't you say two rooms?"

"Yes, one room today and another room tomorrow."

I ~! @ #￥%……& amp； *, pawn!

The first time we passed by Haagen-Dazs was in front of the exhibition hall in Macau. Xuan Ya's brother asked me, "Do you want to eat Haagen-Dazs?" I shook my head.

Come back and pass for the second time. He asked again, "Do you want to eat Haagen-Dazs?" I shook my head.

Level three. He also asked, "Do you really want to eat Haagen-Dazs?" I asked him, "Do you want to eat?" He nodded.

Sit down in Haagen-Dazs. He shyly explained why he repeatedly asked me if I wanted to eat Haagen-Dazs. "You know what? Today is 14 March. Although we can't celebrate Valentine's Day, we can visit white day. "

He touched me unexpectedly.

On the way back, I saw a billboard of Haagen-Dazs at the station: "If you love her, take her to eat Haagen-Dazs."

The tortuous experience of meeting parents

Frankly speaking, the biggest pressure between Xuan Ya and me comes from his parents. For example, when the Xuan Ya brothers tried to talk about my situation, they immediately stopped and left a sentence "I'm not interested in knowing". Although I am sad, I can understand.

Brother Xuan Ya worked hard for a long time, and finally his parents decided to see me. Unexpectedly, things are far more tortuous than I expected.

A few weeks later, Brother Xuan Ya told me on the phone that his parents changed their minds and canceled the meeting.

Being able to get permission to meet parents means a certain degree of recognition. Obviously, Xuan Ya's brother's parents think they can't accept me to meet me. I am sad, frustrated, desperate and angry. Tears flow in my heart and face.

Later, I recovered my mood. No matter what Xuan Ya's parents think, I also want to show my respect and heart to them.

Before we left, Brother Xuan Ya and I discussed for a long time what gifts to prepare. He means to buy a small letter. Brother Xuan Ya and his family like to drink red wine, so I bought two large bottles and a small bottle of red wine, and also bought cakes made by hand in Macau.

I don't know red wine, and I can't appreciate it. At that time, I had hundreds of dollars with me, and hundreds of kinds of red wine in the supermarket dazzled me. Rush out a solution: choose the most expensive one. But the money is not enough, buy the second most expensive one. The faint pattern on the bottle is elegant at first glance. Buy it.

Later, Xuan Ya's brother told me that the red wine I bought was really his mother's favorite brand, and those Macau cakes were also very popular with my family.

Ha, now that I think about it, it seems that God helped me at that time.

My brother Xuan Ya and I were having breakfast in a restaurant when suddenly he received a short message. It's from his father, asking him if he has time to have dinner tonight. The Xuan Ya brothers replied "Yes".

I began to get so nervous for no reason that I couldn't eat breakfast.

My brother Xuan Ya said, "I just have dinner with my father tonight. If possible, I may have dinner with my mother again in a few days. "

The place to eat is a typical Japanese restaurant, where men and women sit cross-legged. I really can't adapt to this sitting posture, and I move almost every 10 minute. Xuan Ya's father saw this in his eyes and asked Xuan Ya's brother to tell me how to sit comfortably, so there is no need to be like them.

We ordered eel rice, which can be eaten in several ways depending on the side dishes and soup. I don't know a word of Japanese, so Xuan Ya's father personally demonstrated various ways to eat. Maybe I was too nervous and tired to finish the eel meal.

I asked the Xuan Ya brothers in a low voice what to do. After all, we can't waste it. Xuan Ya's father said to Xuan Ya's brother in Japanese: If you can't finish it, I'll give you the rest. Finally, Brother Xuan Ya ate all my leftover eel rice in front of his father. Ah! Too shy.

On the day before leaving Japan, Brother Xuan Ya said, "My parents want to meet you this afternoon."

Yeah! The first level has passed!

No matter what impression Xuan Ya's father has on me, at least this time he will bring Xuan Ya's mother to see me.

Xuan Ya's mother is very delicate. She is wearing a light blue sweater with a long skirt and a pearl necklace. The makeup on her face is very elegant. Xuan Ya's brother and his parents talked so fast that I could hardly understand what they were saying. I can only giggle all the time and occasionally respond to a simple sentence or two.

This time I met Ya's parents, and my impression of them has changed a little. "I think your father is very kind and often smiles at me. I don't think he is as fierce as you said. "

Brother Xuan Ya threw cold water on me: "This is a polite smile. My father works in a department store. This is a professional smile. "

When I left, the Xuan Ya brothers took me to the airport. A few hours later, I arrived in Hong Kong. The mobile phone keeps vibrating. When I saw it, it was Xuan Ya's brother's WeChat.

"I found a place where I can see your plane at the airport! Your plane has already taken off. "

We will be together forever.

Brother Xuan Ya's birthday is coming. We discussed where to celebrate and finally decided to settle in Taiwan Province Province.

When I was in college, I went to Taiwan Province Province with the group, and Brother Xuan Ya also went to Taiwan Province alone. As it happens, we all have a very good impression of Taiwan Province Province. I think as long as I gently open my mouth and pronounce the word "Taiwan Province Province", the air is already filled with sweet taste.

The night before departure, I had a video chat with my brother Xuan Ya. I prepared a birthday present for him. "Do you want to see it now? Or do you want to see it when you meet? " Before, the Xuan Ya brothers must have closed their eyes and shook their heads and said, "Don't show it to me, I want a surprise. Give it to me when we meet. "

But this time, he really said, "Let me see."

Me: "Why?"

Ya: "Because I'm afraid that if something happens, I'll never know what your gift is."

Me: "Baka!"

After a while, he added, "If I have an accident, you can get 5 million yuan in insurance money."

"Stop it, there must be no accident!"

Seeing that I was a little angry, Xuan Ya's brother smiled and said, "But you are not my wife yet, so you can't get this 5 million, hahaha!"

When we were in Taiwan Province Province, we went to Shifu Street to hang lanterns. Two men holding pens, facing a huge blank, wait for a while stood quietly for a while, not knowing what to write.

Me: "What shall we write?" A few minutes later, the Xuan Ya brothers blurted out: "We will be together forever!"

I jumped up with joy, "good! All right! I write in Chinese on the left and you write in Japanese on the right! "

Everyone writes and draws pictures on the sky lanterns very devoutly, sometimes whispering and sometimes laughing. Finally, let go of the footboard standing in the corner of the sky lantern and gently remove the finger holding the sky lantern. Well, it just carries yours, mine, his and their wishes, and floats high and far with the wind.

"If our wish comes true, come to Taiwan Province Province again." Brother Xuan Ya took my hand.

"Very good."

I nodded and looked at our sky lantern, floating in the sky until it became a small point in the distance.

My daily life with my Japanese boyfriend.

Eggs 1

Brother Xuan Ya and I are very different in height.

I hate the sky every time I see him. But I'm not a good driver. I'm either scratched or sprained After several times, Brother Xuan Ya gave an order: "Don't wear such high shoes, it's easy to fall down."

Before going out, he squatted down and gestured my platform sandals with his fingers. While gesturing, he blamed me: "Your shoes are very high today, don't wear them next time!" "

"Gentleman, gentleman (Japanese: it doesn't matter), I won't fall!"

Oh, the way he squatted down to measure my heel was lovely and sweet.

Egg 2

Every time I book a plane ticket, my brother Xuan Ya always wants to book business class, but the price is too expensive.

If he booked business class on any trip, he would be as happy as winning the lottery.

I don't understand why he likes to fly business class.

"My legs are long and I am comfortable in business class. Your legs are short, you won't understand. "

Egg 3

We are in Hong Kong Disneyland, riding the roller coaster of Grizzly Bear Villa.

You have to make a hullabaloo about before you can enjoy yourself.

At this time, Xuan Yage took a backhand shot and covered my mouth with his right hand: "Your voice is too loud, disturbing others!" "

People around you are shouting wildly. Who are you bothering? !

Oh, are Japanese people so temperate when riding roller coasters?

Egg 4

Brother Xuan Ya took the Chinese Level 2 exam.

There is a topic that he can't make up his mind. "Which is right?" Eat more or eat more?

During the exam, I remembered that when I was eating at your house, your family told me to eat more, so I wrote eat more. "

I laughed: "Sorry, my family speaks Cantonese and Mandarin. The correct statement is to eat more rice. "

Egg 5

For a time, Brother Xuan Ya was fascinated by the pronunciation of "er" and the word "death".

"Have you read this book?"

"Will you call today?"

"I ate shredded pork with green pepper tonight."

My ears were almost raped by his impure and vague "two" sound, warning him: "I don't like Erhua."

"Are you? Oh, I want you to die. "

I was frightened: "Why? Do you want me to die? "

"I miss you very very much."

Oh, so what he wants to say is "I miss you so much".

Egg 6

Speaking of future life planning.

Brother Xuan Ya offered to manage my passport and asked me to manage his passport.

The reason is that he is worried that I will return to China if I don't agree.

Of course I refused. He has his passport, and he has no freedom.

"No, give me your passport, give it to me, give it to me. I will take care of it. "

"Then give me your bank card and password."

"No, I'll give you a supplementary card. You swipe your card to brush my money. "

Oh, skillfully negotiate with the "enemy".

There is a lyric in Leslie Cheung's "The Wind Blows Non-stop", "I want to wash away my sadness and pain, and I want to remember that tenderness". I took him as an example and chose to write down happy, happy and wonderful times, kicking away all sadness, pain and sadness. But that doesn't mean I don't have tears, runny nose, insomnia and crying until dawn.

We all have some bad habits. Up to now, we have really put a lot of thought, energy, money and time into each other. This running-in process is called taming. And the taming of people means that you are tamed by me and I am influenced by you.

Author | Ma Lujun

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