What's it like to live in a city alone?

Let's talk about everyone's feelings. When you live alone in a city, how do you feel? Are you born to be popular? Do you choose loneliness? Or choose loneliness?

ps: The difference between loneliness and loneliness. One day, when you were walking in the street, it suddenly rained. You hid under the eaves and searched your phone address book, and you didn't know who to find to send you an umbrella. At that moment, you were lonely, but loneliness was that you hid under the eaves and waited quietly for the rain to stop.

Let me explain my feelings with my experience of one day:

After standing in front of chicken legs for a long time, the salesman said that 8 yuan was the only one. After watching it for a long time, I came back silently. When I opened my mobile phone, I only got a message (Happy Birthday) from 11186. It's cloudy outside and I'm homesick.

He Shan

It took me an hour to pack all my luggage, and I didn't have time to think about the consequences. When I arrived at the station ahead, Shenzhen

opened the door and got off the bus, and a warm current hugged me. I took off my coat and sweater, rolled up the cuffs of my shirt and strode to this ignorant city.

on the third day, I used Baidu map and navigation to find the company that asked me for an interview. Two days later, I passed the second interview, and I officially took up my job the next Monday. I came to work too fast like a tornado. It's ridiculous to think that the problem I couldn't solve for half a year turned out to be so easy!

I was walking alone in the street, and there was a naughty man whistling, so I realized that a person should pay too much attention. When I got off the subway, I was caught in a heavy rain. A group of big men driving motorcycles all gathered around me, and finally escaped from the side for a long time and ran in the rain.

I cook, eat and wash dishes alone. Make a good lunch the next day, speak carefully, smile generously and work hard! I think, I will successfully transform into a beautiful woman with quiet years. Will it be a surprise and full of praise to meet my old friends after several years?

in order to achieve this goal, I often try the food I have never eaten alone, go shopping, read books and watch movies alone. I often encourage myself that the most awesome thing is that I have spent the most lonely time beautifully alone, so every time I take the bus, I will sit by the window and seriously appreciate this bustling and hard-working city. If I meet a handsome guy, I will pull my hair behind my ear and feel that it will be more beautiful. Like the plot in an idol drama (shy ≧▽≦)

Until one day, a colleague leaned in with a chopstick and took the meat from my bowl, I knew that the road of quiet years was coming to an end. I couldn't speak carefully, smiled generously and told her that you had nothing to eat. That was stealing the meat from my bowl and stepping on my bottom line.

Since then, my world is no longer quiet. Just because someone dragged me into a group and everyone asked me to introduce myself, I sent a picture like this.

So no one regards me as a gentle girl next door anymore. They unscrupulously robbed me of the dishes in my bowl, and of course I will get more back.

Later, I moved to the dormitory of the company, and became more familiar with my colleagues. After work, I was always dragged to eat and go shopping, and asked me about my work difficulties. Sometimes I bought vegetables and cooked delicious meals together. Like this,

It turns out that they are all people who live alone in this city like me, and such people can be met everywhere.

For the first time, I found that people's hearts are not as sinister as they thought. Everyone comes to a city alone, and there must be reasons why he has to, and different stories.

Loneliness is a way for people to feel sorry for themselves. Reality is an uncontrollable wild horse. Meeting is a appreciate each other from different regions.

-wo? Zi Ji Shuo de

I also shed tears in the middle of the night. The next day, I was heartless. I couldn't be strong without loneliness. How can I know kindness without injury? I smiled in the mirror in the morning. Who can see my sadness last night!

Slow down

This is the 4th year that I live alone in Chengdu.

I have been studying in Chengdu since the first grade, and I have been working for the fourth year now. This city is all too familiar to me.

Middle school has been a closed school for six years, so I can only go home on weekends. My parents and my home are in another city in Sichuan, which is still some distance from Chengdu.

Later, I had my own house in this city. I live alone after college and work. From here on, I can really live independently in this city.

The feeling is that

I will check the door lock many times before going to bed every night, and sometimes I will wake up in the middle of the night to see if the door at home is locked.

Get up early every morning and leave half an hour for yourself to have breakfast slowly.

One should also eat well to make the day start in the morning.

Sometimes I go to the movies alone if I don't want to go home after work.

When I was bored, I watched the same movie in the same cinema, the same screening hall and the same seat for two days in a row.

I also went everywhere to eat delicious food by myself. Sometimes I took a taxi from one end of the city to the other just to eat a chicken's feet.

Or I went to eat barbecue by myself. When I was happy, I never wasted every meal in my life.

So I was interested in all kinds of delicious food in the streets of Chengdu.

I've also learned that eating more than boys always goes to a restaurant to eat food for two.

My favorite thing to do alone after work on weekends and weekdays is to go to the library to read books.

Because this makes me feel that today's day is full and meaningful.

I will also go to the nearby university playground to run alone, but this is the only time that makes me feel lonely ... < On weekends, I go to a coffee shop alone, a book, a computer, a cup of coffee and a dessert, and stay all afternoon

On Manchester United's match day or various cup days, I get up in the middle of the night to watch the football match with barbecue takeout and wine

I win and lose silently, and I cry and go to sleep silently

I go to eat buffet morning tea alone in the morning after watching the World Cup

I have eaten so much

Sometimes I have to take it home from the supermarket no matter how heavy it is. I feel that I can't go further and further on the road of a woman ...

I brought the following things home from the supermarket at one time

My slogan is that there is no bottle cap that I can't unscrew _

I have lived in this city for so many years and there are many good friends who have known each other for many years

, so I don't always ask for hot pot with my little sister alone

. When you are happy, go to your best friend's house and have a drink together.

In the evening, I call my friends to come out for a midnight snack barbecue hotpot skewers.

It's best to have friends who have nothing to talk about and endless food. This is the most attractive place in Dacheng.

Although

I have come home late, I find that mice with mouse horror at home still leave a lot of mouse droppings on my bed … and a crazy me

Then I change the sheets silently

. At present, the water pipe at home burst out of bed in the middle of the night and stood in the water, and the water flowed down and flooded the family's home downstairs. < P > I cried and called my father, and then I went to other people's homes to apologize for losing money and sweep the water, and then I asked a repairman to fix the water pipe.

There have been times when I was surrounded by gangsters and said rude things on my way home ... or when my bag was opened by thieves ...

Fortunately, there were more times. Now I see that they are no longer afraid.

There are times when I am sad and depressed, and I cry and call my mother to say that I want to go home.

but it's better to cry. Just get some sleep.

When I am really unhappy, my father will come to Chengdu to take me home.

Although I cry every time I leave my parents' home until now ...

I still feel

that living alone in this city is simple and happy.

I can do anything independently, so I am not afraid of helplessness.

I am not afraid of loneliness because I can have fun with myself.

There are some close friends who have been with me for many years, so they are not afraid of loneliness.

I'm not afraid of boredom because I will focus on my goals.