It's not difficult to get a woman. What topics can you talk about easily?
1: Talk about life-related topics and know her personal hobbies
It is because of communication between people that it is possible to create love between them. Every happy emotion cannot be separated from good and effective communication. Xu Ling had several blind dates under the plan of her parents. Only one person impressed her deeply, and they had already changed from a boyfriend to a close couple. The standard of this man who is dating her on a blind date is not better than before, but she doesn't feel bored at all when they get along. My former boyfriend has been showing off his capital and influence at the dinner table with great fanfare, and likes to show off what he has heard and seen, as if this can make the other party look at him differently.
I don't know that Xu Ling is very resistant to men's boasting, and she always listens to them as a listener and never really gets involved in small talk. She is now a boyfriend, but all over the world to discuss their own lives, but has been pulling the topic discussion to her, inadvertently, the two talked about the same language more and more. In daily life, many women find that their husbands pay less and less attention to the novelty in love after marriage, and even stop trying to please themselves. Love is gradually diluted by the dull life, and there is no good communication between husband and wife, and the feelings are certainly not as sweet as in the past. In the relationship between men and women, two people need to get to know each other actively at all times, and only in this way can they run a married life well.
2: Talk about topics related to love, and master her view of love
Some people say that people who have different views can never spend a happy life. In love, if a man wants to pursue a woman, he must actively understand the other party's view of love in addition to creating surprises for the other party. There is too much love in the world, and some people like to spend this life flatly; Some people like to enjoy the unexpected surprises of life vigorously; Some people want to be desperate for love; Others will put love behind work. If the love between two people is really different, even if they are destined to come together, there will be no fate to accompany them to old age.
It's like the love story between Liu Shufen and Xu Bochang in the TV series "Don't Ask West". In the front, there is a simple life of looking forward to three meals a day, while in the back, there is a single-minded pursuit of professional knowledge and ideals. The two people have different views, even if they are married, they just live under the same roof and torture strangers. Therefore, in the pursuit of women, men must understand each other's love view. If two people have the same idea, a man can also take the opportunity to pursue it. If he knows clearly that they are not suitable for each other, he can also stop when he is not in love and look for love again.
3: Talk about the vision of the future and create a consistent pursuit and overall goal
Most women look forward to a sense of belonging in love. I hope I can meet a sincere love and find a place to rest assured. I once read a question: "How to judge whether a man wants to spend the rest of his life with himself?" The netizen hit the nail on the head and responded: "If a man plans you into her future life as a whole, it shows that he has already decided that you are old." In a relationship, men actively talk to women about their ideas about the future, which can not only provide the other party with a sense of belonging to a certain extent, but also build a beautiful vision for the future between them under the condition of chatting, and then work together for it.