The sense of ritual between lovers is often related to special times or events. For example, the 100-day anniversary of falling in love, the 3-year anniversary of falling in love, your partner’s birthday, the anniversary of a special event, etc.
Closely related to the sense of ritual are formalized rituals and special actions. For example, on this day, couples will go out to have a delicious meal as a commemoration, or both parties will prepare a gift for each other, etc.
The sense of ritual is a very important emotional experience that allows people to recreate special and precious emotions.
For young couples who are not financially well-off, they can create their own special moments through some small ways that save money and have a sense of ritual.
The following are some ways to save money and have a sense of ritual: 1. Small ways to save money and have a sense of ritual
1. Watch a movie together.
You can prepare some popcorn and drinks at home, choose a movie you both like, and watch it together.
2. Make a DIY gift.
You can make a special gift based on the other person’s preferences, such as a pop-up book, handmade card, key chain, photo frame, etc.
3. Make a love card.
Write a reward or punishment on a beautiful piece of card stock, and let the other party win the reward or accept the punishment during the game. Rewards can be telling the other person a bedtime story to put them to sleep, giving the other person a full body massage, or cooking the other person a dish they like.
4. Make an exquisite photo album
Develop a photo of two people. You can edit the photos you took and make a beautiful album to record important moments for each other. .
5. Go for an outdoor picnic together.
You can prepare some simple ingredients, find a park or outdoors, and enjoy a long afternoon full of sunshine and natural electricity together.
6. Play a cooperative game together
Choose an electronic two-player cooperative game, such as "Break Up Kitchen", "Two People Go Together", etc., and cooperate with your partner to complete the level.
During the process of cooperation, two people will encounter various problems, so they can analyze and discuss them together. Solving the problems can add emotional points to the two people. At the same time, it can also increase the mutual understanding of topics and cooperation.
The above small methods can help young couples who are not well-off to create their own sense of ritual, and also make the relationship between them deeper.
However, in fact, recording special days is also very important, because it can leave tangible and findable memories.
For lovers, the easiest way to give their relationship a sense of ritual is to record their precious events. These events may include their dates, trips, birthdays, anniversaries, and more. 2. A true sense of ritual: recording of every important and interesting day in life
There are many ways to record these events, and each method has its own advantages and disadvantages.
1. Brain memory:
This is the simplest way of recording, but it is also the easiest way to forget. On special days, we can try to remember these important moments carefully, but as time goes by, these memories may gradually fade.
In addition, if sometimes, when you are particularly busy, you will often accidentally forget it, which will often make your other half unhappy, so unless you have a particularly good memory, you must be careful when using this method to record. .
2. Taking photos and recording:
Taking photos is a very good way to record life. We can use our cameras or mobile phones to take photos to record the moments we spend with our partners. You can also develop photos that you particularly like and put them in a photo album to reflect on them carefully.
Because these photos help us relive those beautiful moments and share them with family and friends.
3. Text records:
Text records can help us record some special words, conversations, moods, etc.
We can record these words in a diary or in an electronic diary that can be consulted by two people.
Sometimes browsing and communicating these diaries with the other party can promote mutual understanding and understanding.
These written records allow us to understand each other more deeply and help us recall the past.
4. Handbook records:
Handbook is a very popular recording method nowadays. Handbook records are very interesting and can combine pictures and text to express richer events and emotions.
We can use the diary to record each other’s interesting daily life, each other’s life plans and goals.
When we look back, we can have more profound emotional memories of what we have experienced together.
In short, it is very important to record every important day and moment in your life in various ways.
No matter which method is used to record, these precious and beautiful memories can be made between each other, making this connection more ritualistic.
At the same time, it also makes the relationship between the two more lasting and fragrant like aged wine.