My friend asked me, "What do you think is the most beautiful word in the world?"
"Meet unexpectedly." I brushed my hair and said the word. Since I cut off the oblique bangs and began to comb them, I stopped throwing Liu Haier to express my arrogant temperament, but smoothed my hair to show that what I said was thoughtful, as if brain waves really came from my brain and flowed through my hair.
"It seems that you believe in fate."
"Well, I'm always idealistic." Later, I felt that my friends who studied philosophy and Buddhism would probably correct me that idealism has nothing to do with faith ... and I just want to say that I believe in God, ghosts, fate and all the uncertainties in this universe, such as not meeting in advance.
Accidental meeting. I like this word, and I prefer it to be pronounced through my lips and teeth. Four syllables, ups and downs are falling tones, so it is not obvious at all; Also, because there is a unique upper voice that needs transliteration, there is no need to open your mouth wide and your upper and lower lips slightly open, so the word "unexpected encounter" will come out of your teeth. I like it better when I read it than when I think about it.
The ancients said, "Meet unexpectedly." But I don't think I need to trace my love for this word back to that distant time. My fascination with this feeling may come directly from my mother.
My mother likes watching Kangxi Dynasty. Recently, she has been complaining that this drama is not shown on TV. Like all young people, I suggest that she go online directly.
"No, looking directly from the Internet is not the same as sitting down with the TV on. You can't break this feeling just to watch the play quickly. It doesn't feel right, and the play is wrong. It's even worse if you miss the time to watch TV dramas on TV because you watch TV dramas on the computer. " My mother said as she fiddled with the pot of chlorophytum that was growing well at her hand.
Maybe every mother can become a philosopher of life. If not, at least she is an experienced person. I thought about it, and the feeling she just said should be expressed as: a forced encounter may ruin a fate that should have happened naturally afterwards.
This feeling of suddenly seeing Kangxi Dynasty on TV is probably the joy of meeting unexpectedly. Many people have experienced this moment. When they changed the channel with the remote control, they suddenly saw a favorite program being broadcast, and a factor representing happiness quickly occupied the whole little heart. Sometimes I think that this feeling can be compared with the feeling of "waking up in the morning and finding the sunshine with you", although the future I want can not be simply summarized as watching TV and watching my favorite drama every day.
The future I want is probably someone or something I met unexpectedly. Since then, the story has naturally unfolded. I followed the script written by God, but in the end I met an unexpected beauty.
Perhaps, there is no particularly beautiful story in the script written by God for me. It doesn't matter. If you can't satisfy yourself, let others tell me. I usually chat with my favorite friends and talk about places to drink and drink tea. I will ask, "honey, can you tell me a story?" Sometimes after asking this question, the other person is confused. In this case, I will quickly save the scene and say, "Then I'll tell you a story …" Sometimes, the other person will tell me a story after thinking for a while. It's always pleasant to meet a beautiful story unexpectedly. Once, my friend Zong Fei told me such a story, which was related to meeting unexpectedly.
The hero of the story is called Feng 'er. Feng 'er is the most beautiful girl in the village, perhaps even more lovely than Xiao Fang in the song. You can dress up as a phoenix girl yourself. For example, her face may look like tomatoes ripe in summer, red and pink, soft and lovely, and many people can't sleep without her smile. I dare not describe the girl's appearance casually, because even Zong Fei has never seen the girl when she was young. We only know that this girl is good-looking and kind.
At the beginning of the story, Fenger girl took her little niece Lingling to the next village to play. The two children had a good time and forgot to go home. It was not until Lingling shouted that she was hungry that they realized that the sun was going to set in the west. Fenger wanted to take Lingling home quickly, but Lingling, a hungry ghost, whined that she wanted to eat at once. She knew that her sister-in-law who loved her most would never have the heart to let her starve. It is said that the beautiful food and love in this world can't live up to it. Sure enough, Lingling didn't live up to her delicious food, and Fenger didn't live up to her love for Lingling. Fenger held Lingling and knocked on the doors of dozens of families, but they were all driven out on the grounds that there was no food at home. Fenger was desperate, but she decided to try again. This time, it was a thin-faced man who opened the door for the wind. After listening to Feng Er's request, he said nothing. He turned back to the house and took a white flour steamed bread and stuffed it into Lingling's hand. During the famine years, a white steamed bread made the wind remember this person.
Later, when the family acted as matchmaker for Feng, she was still thinking about this man. Now we always say that love at first sight is all about the face, but I always feel that the so-called love at first sight is probably a chance. The more beautiful people are, the more likely they are to have this opportunity. And this opportunity, in many cases, may really have nothing to do with looks, and it has nothing to do with whether it is a rich second generation, such as this man that Feng Er likes. The Feng family went to the neighboring village to inquire and learned that this man was ten years older than the Feng family, and his family was poor and jingling. I don't know how the Feng family made white flour steamed bread that day. But Fenger insisted on marrying this man, because she felt that God had made her meet this man that day and saw his kindness.
"What happened to Fenger after she married that man?" I knew you would ask me this question, because that's what I asked Zong Fei at that time. But Zongfei said he didn't want to end Fenger's life so soon. After all, life is long, so we are always eager to jump to the end. "In fact, their stories are similar to ours, but they are different. They are luckier than us. " Zong Fei stopped here for a long time, which gave me a chance to recall the story between me and him again.
My story with Zong Fei is very simple, and I don't know how to cherish it. He met me when he was preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, but he didn't know me until after the written examination. At that time, he had submitted to Z University, which was backed by the water towns in the south of the Yangtze River and claimed to have trained the most talents in China. And I'm going north to C University. It's always awkward to meet at the wrong time. When the train was about to leave for the north and south, I said, "Will you tell me a story?" He thought about it and sat in the sun and told me a story told by her uncle. The heroine of the story is his grandmother who just died.
My uncle is very old, and his eyes still glow when he talks about things when he was young. He said that he met Zongfei's great-aunt during the famine years. Her name is Fenger, and she is a beautiful and kind girl ... He said that after marrying Fenger, he has been working hard to ensure the harvest in the field and went out to work during the slack season. I am always afraid that my family is short of money, that the wind is hungry, and that the wind has no money to buy new materials for clothes. I dare not get sick, for fear that I will be ill and no one will take care of Fenger. I am too old to be idle. Afraid of leaving first, afraid of being idle and getting sick. No one will take care of Fenger and talk to her ... I also said that I really have to thank Zongfei's mother. If she hadn't clamored for food, he wouldn't have seen Fenger. In that case, I really came to this world for nothing.
Some encounters are predestined, whether there is a happy ending or not. Even if I am doomed to miss it in the end, I can't avoid meeting at the beginning.
In the last summer of college, there is always a grand parting. Zong Fei and I separated at that time and never met again. Sometimes, the gear of fate is only a little bit short, but it just can't bite tightly. It's just that I am still grateful for all the encounters in my life, and I am willing to wait for the next unexpected encounter.
I always believe that every encounter in life has its meaning, but as mortals, we can't understand it and don't know how to cherish it after passing by. After meeting, everything may get better and better. Just like the wind and her man. The meeting met unexpectedly with its meeting. It seems that all those years have been welcoming this encounter. It seems that all those days in the future exist because of this meeting. It may also end in nothing after meeting. Like me and Zongfei. This is not a dazzling encounter, and there is no colorful auspicious cloud, because at the beginning of the encounter, God has already written the ending of our respective trips to the end of the world for us. The meeting was unexpectedly out of place. Think of it as an accidental epiphyllum, knowing that she will die the next day, but she is still full of joy. Let happiness stay when you are happy, and you won't be so sad when you leave. Never try to take away the happiness of meeting, all you can take away is memories, and the beauty at that time will stubbornly stay in the past. The only thing I can do is to be grateful for all the encounters. Those encounters that have not been agreed in advance are all beautiful things that I can't replicate in my life.
One day, God will make the gears of fate mesh perfectly. The unexpected meeting coincided with its meeting. The story after meeting, that's all. I believe.
Thanks!
Love is delicious. Who did Fang Xin end up with?