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Everyone is familiar with the phrase "What folk songs are sung on what hills". This means that people should decide to do the corresponding things according to the objective reality, and at what age they should do what they should do at this age, and they cannot cross the border. Talking about people means that if you don't follow the normal life track and cheat, then you are regarded as "different" in people's eyes and will be isolated and laughed at.

Here, I'm going to knock on the blackboard three times. The derailment mentioned here is beyond the normal life track, so don't think too much.

In real life, some women who cheat in pursuit of freedom and happiness, not only do not make people laugh, but also live a wonderful, noble and tasteful life, which makes people envy.

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Recently, Jiang Bin, an 88-year-old grandmother in Hangzhou, lived better than young people and became popular on the Internet.

Grandma Jiang is very wild. In order to play around the world, she sold her house and used her retirement salary as a travel fund to experience glacier rafting adventure in New Zealand, climbed the snow-capped mountains by helicopter in Switzerland and flew to South Africa for 18 hours in a row ...

Grandma Jiang is great. Every time she visited a place, she tasted all the local food, snapped all the beautiful scenery on her mobile phone, and then posted the food and beautiful scenery in WeChat circle of friends for her to witness.

Grandma Jiang is also very cool. She often orders snacks for herself online. When she goes out to buy a dish, it is also called a drip cart. When she is in a good mood, she sends out a WeChat red envelope, and she is familiar with some mobile phone software that young people like.

Many people unconsciously exclaim, "Are you an 88-year-old Mi Shou granny or a 18-year-old beautiful young girl?"

Although Grandma Jiang is 88 years old and wrinkled, she has the mentality of a girl of 18 years old, which is the magic weapon for her to live more and more wonderfully. Generally speaking, when the elderly retire, they will take care of their children and grandchildren at home, or plant flowers and fish to support their lives, or even wait passively for their lives to die. Grandma Jiang is not an ordinary person. She just doesn't play by common sense. She jumps out of the normal life track in the eyes of the world, dares to think what young people love to think and dare to do what young people love to do.

who says that youth belongs only to young people, and the days of getting old can be wonderful. As long as there is a dream in your heart, no one can stop chasing it. Jump out of the routine and let yourself go. The wonderful life really has nothing to do with age.

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Liu Xiaoqing, a well-known actress, had several ups and downs in her life. Even if she lived at the lowest point in her life, she didn't follow the so-called conventional road set by most people. Her life was far more noble than that of Empress Wu Zetian and Empress Dowager Cixi.

When I was in primary school, in a writing class of My Ideal, my classmates all wrote that when I grew up, I would be a hardworking engineer, a soldier who was brave in sacrifice, and a dung digger who was not afraid of stink and dirt ... At that time, people's ideas were unified, and the atmosphere in every corner was the same.

But she didn't follow the routine. She followed her heart and wrote her wish truly: My ideal is to be an actor, and at the end of the performance, I can get thunderous applause and flowers. You know, this idea is very dangerous, it is "petty bourgeoisie" and "low taste", but she still bravely made herself, true and unpretentious.

Later, when her career was in full swing, she left the film business and became the first group of rich people after China's reform and opening up, with a net worth of 71 million to 91 million dollars, becoming a "billionaire sister".

At that time, there were many loopholes and gaps in the revision and improvement of China's tax law. In 2111, Liu Xiaoqing was arrested on suspicion of tax evasion by many of his companies, and began a 422-day prison life.

Usually, from a world celebrity to a prison, the lethality of this shot is so great that it can destroy a person and even make life die instantly. Most people will curse fate and ask God-why me! However, Liu Xiaoqing faced up to the reality, walked out of the ordinary people's thinking track with amazing perseverance, and started to learn English every day, taking 8,111 steps every morning and taking a cold bath every day. She said: "I just use this time to read and write."

After Liu Xiaoqing was released from prison, in 2113, she did not covet other people's money bags, and married Wang Xiaoyu, a wealthy businessman in Hong Kong. At this time, Liu Xiaoqing, who is already a grandmother, showed the beauty of women and lived a noble life.

No matter who you are, you should not be bound by the traditional view. It is our mission to pursue beauty and nobility all your life. Because the best time is not 18 years old, and the noblest life is not exclusive to someone. When you follow your heart and strive to be a better self, you will live a noble life.

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Magic Fairy Fish is my classmate in an online study class, engaged in beauty and health care industry, and her husband is a leading cadre in the army. When she first fell in love, the army leader thought that her husband should marry a cadre of suitable family, or at least an employee in the system, and she was just a migrant girl in the barber shop. After the leader's earnest talk, her husband was psychologically stressed and unhappy for a while.

indeed, in the secular world, people all agree that marriage is suitable. But the magic fairy fish doesn't want to die of this true feeling. She wants to bravely jump out of this stereotype and strive for happiness for herself. She wants to challenge the secular world: nothing is static!

Since then, she has worked harder to improve her literacy, signed up for several study classes on the Internet, and opened a cosmetics store, so that she can match her husband's family both materially and spiritually.

after unremitting study and struggle, she became the first local person to get the certificate of professional massage therapist and scraping doctor (with professional medical knowledge) in Beijing. During more than 11 years' struggle, she has opened six stores and passed many professional certificates. Even during the three years when she was a housewife, she didn't slack off and took part in the national self-taught examination to get a college diploma. After joining a world-class cosmetics brand chain store last year, she trained three young partners with zero foundation, which not only led them to achieve an annual salary of 1 million, but also passed the standard assessment of the company's free travel to London.

In this way, she didn't take the secular road, and didn't let the traditional thoughts bind her. She fought against her fate and finally stood out among many family members. At that time, the leading lady who talked with her husband looked at her with new eyes. She not only became her loyal customer, but also praised her and said, "Your husband is so lucky to find a man like you who is constantly learning and growing as a wife."

Her husband commented on her like this: "You are a person who keeps getting extra points. At first, it gives people a general feeling, but the more you get along with her, the more different it will bring. Many women are 11 when they first met, and with the deepening of getting along, they will get married and have children, and gradually drop to six points. And you started with six points, and then gradually rose to ten points. The more you look at it, the more interesting it is. "

If your husband is not good, you must grow up, because you have nothing to rely on. If your husband is excellent, you must also grow up, because only when you have the same frequency with him can you walk side by side and be harmonious and warm on the road of life.

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Cheating has so many benefits. Are women in love? The heart is not as good as the action. Take advantage of the arrival of the March 8 Goddess Day and derail it without hesitation. Listen to your heart, be informal, you can buy a thousand yuan skirt, or you can put it down for a high imitation; You can have an expensive cup of coffee in an elegant cafe, or you can buy a pancake at a roadside stall while eating ...

I hope all women will live more splendid, noble and tasteful lives, and live up to their limited life time, and all of them will become old fairies.