Bi Shumin's prose is simple and sincere, telling the wonder of the world, the unforgettable perception of life, and the unchanging love for life. Although there are negative emotions of hurt, grievance, and anger in her writing, after reading the whole book, I feel that wonderful and wise words can be seen everywhere. There are also many short stories in the book about how to resolve the pain in life, which have numbed us for a long time. Nerves become sensitive again and regain our ability to perceive life. At this moment, Bi Shumin is like a good friend who understands you best, talking to you in the gentle night, recalling the most beautiful moments in her experience: maybe it is a small wilderness flower, maybe a red lantern in winter, maybe It is the vast desert twilight, trivial and ordinary, but it can push away the dullness for you and encounter the vastness of life. Bi Shumin's book is so beautiful that you can't put it down as soon as you read it. It is delicate and beautiful, as sweet as a clear spring, sweeping away all the haze and raising beautiful hope! I will share with you some excerpts from the book:

1. I like women who love reading. Books are not rouge, but they can make a woman's heart stay beautiful. Books are not sticks, but they can make women powerful. Books are not feathers, but they make women fly. Books are not omnipotent, but they can make women change in many ways.

2. A good heart does not have to be gorgeous, but it must be strong.

3. I like women who are deeply grateful and travel alone. I know how to thank my parents, but I don’t follow them blindly. I know how to thank heaven and earth, but I am not afraid. Know how to thank yourself, but don't be narcissistic. I know how to thank my friends, but I don’t rely on them. I know how to appreciate every seed and every ray of breeze, and I also know how to get up early to sow seeds and walk in the wind.

4. There are countless forks in life, and at the different intersections, there are probably temptations. We are often dazzled by the strangeness of matter. We need to think about it in the dark and quiet night, think about our innate ideals, think about the steps we are going to take, is it close or far from our ultimate goal? Eyes are certainly useful. But sometimes when we close our eyes, we can better listen to the answer from our soul. ?

5. You have to talk to the sun, the moon and the stars, talk to the rivers and lakes, shake hands with every tree, rub your hair with every grass, and then you will suddenly realize the vastness of the universe and the power of life. Delicacy, time is precious, and death is near.

6. If you are angry, you shout; if you are sad, you cry; if you love, you express; if you like, you pursue. Don’t belittle yourself, don’t feel sorry for yourself, just go out and be yourself bravely.

7. Travel is a kind of learning. It allows you to see the world and different societies with a pair of baby's eyes, making you more tolerant, understanding different values, and making you more Know how to love and cherish well. Travel allows you to start a new life with another identity, make new attempts, and allow you to rediscover yourself.

8. Rekindle the passion for life by returning to basics.

9. As long as you don’t fall down, others can push you to the ground, but they can’t stop you from standing up with dust on your face and scars all over your body.

10. There are some things that we cannot understand when we are young. When we understand, we are no longer young. Some things in the world can be made up for, and some things can never be made up for.

11. We don’t have to be beautiful, but we are healthy. We may not be great, but we are solemn. We may not be perfect, but we work hard. We may not be eternal, but we are sincere.

12. Happiness blindness is like color blindness, which reduces the gorgeous world to blurry black and white photos. Wipe your happy pupils, and you will see the happiness that is hidden, covered, ignorant and confused, rising from the deep sea like a mermaid, nurturing us.

13. People are always trapped in their own cocoons for life. This is their own choice. When life is about to end, people may suddenly realize that: the world is originally a huge cocoon, and We have never truly lived...

14. All natural things are slow. The sun rises little by little and sets little by little. The flowers bloom one by one and fall one by one, and the rice matures very slowly. Those sudden natural changes are often disasters. Such as volcanic eruptions, hurricanes and heavy rains. A child grows up very slowly. Sleeping alone is also very slow. One can only rest from sunset to sunrise.

15. Only with a big heart can you hold joy and anger and gain strength.

16. How can I always keep an eye that is good at discovering beauty? How can I make my mind clear and alert? It’s a great question, and the answer is that beauty and surprise can be found in familiar places.

17. The border of the heart can be made very big, like the most malleable gold foil, covering the entire universe, covering the sun and the moon. Not a single dark cloud can cover the vast territory of the heart; no No earthquake or volcano can completely cover the majestic building of the soul; no storm can freeze the hot springs gushing deep in the soul; no natural disaster or man-made disaster can make the fields of the heart barren in autumn. The size of the heart can also be reduced to a very small size. It can only accommodate one family, one person, one sesame seed, and one drop of virus. A trace of rain drowned him; a ray of wind shattered him; a rumor made him miserable; a conspiracy made him doomed. A good heart does not have to be gorgeous, but it must be strong.