Is a divorced person really not worth marrying or marrying? Let's take a look at the stories of these two divorced men and women:

Story 1: Xiaomin is my friend, and she fell in love with a man 12 years older than her in college. That man has a successful career, and he speaks politely, giving people a feeling of being practical and steady. So as soon as he graduated, Xiao Min married him immediately.

After marriage, Xiaomin has become the envy of us, so we don't have to rush to find a job, let alone worry about not being able to pay the rent for next month. Although it is far from being a rich wife, Xiaomin is more chic than any of us, and his circle of friends is either traveling or eating.

However, the only deficiency is that due to Xiaomin's weak constitution, she has never been successful in pregnancy preparation. At first, Xiao Min didn't feel anything. He was so young that it would always be good to recuperate his lower body slowly. But at this time, Xiaomin's husband is very impatient and will lose his temper at Xiaomin from time to time.

what Xiao Min never dreamed was that her husband filed for divorce on the grounds of infertility. Xiaomin also learned during the period of divorce that her husband's last marriage was also due to fertility problems.

Although my friend had advised Xiaomin not to marry a second-married man easily before marriage, her husband told Xiaomin that he was different from other second-married men.

Now Xiaomin knows that there is no simple love for a divorced man. On the surface, they seem stable and mature, but the price behind this is that once they don't meet his standards, they will be decisively abandoned.

Story 2: Before I got married with my wife, a friend advised me to think it over. I didn't care at that time, wasn't it because she was married? I'm also married for the second time, but I subconsciously feel appreciate each other for her, and I don't think there's anything wrong with her.

After I got married, I was very gentle with her, and I was also very polite when I spoke and did things, for fear of accidentally touching her sore spot and making her unhappy. Usually at home, as long as I am free, I will take the initiative to help her with housework. The economic power in the family is also dominated by her, and I never ask about some small things, so let her dispose of them at her sole discretion. However, she has always been wary of me. Although she can't see it on the surface, I know that she never trusted me and always left me a hand.

I have been married for two years now, and I feel as if there is still a layer of film between me and her, and it is always difficult to really get together. I would like to tell all my friends here that it is really difficult to have a heart-to-heart relationship with a second-married woman. She is always on guard against you, afraid that you will hurt her, and doesn't want to believe you.

These two stories may not be representative enough, but what Xiao Bian wants to say is: whether divorced or never married, they may have their own advantages and disadvantages, but don't generalize.

who doesn't have a shortcoming? Before getting married, get to know each other's character well, and then consider whether it is suitable for marriage. There's no need to get too entangled in divorce. Besides, which divorced person didn't come from the stage of never being married? You have never been married before, so you can have a marriage history.

Of course, people who have been divorced have many differences compared with those who have never been married. Because of being hurt, love may be reserved and will not be devoted to it; Because I have been married, I know more about what I want and what I want, and I have a stronger sense of purpose. Because of their marriage experience, their family relationship may be more complicated and complicated.

But at the same time, people who have been married have many advantages: for example, they will be more mature in dealing with family relations, because they will cherish marriage and family more than those who have experienced marriage failure; Because of the experience, I will know each other better, know how to be considerate and know how to measure; Because of their marriage experience, they know more about how to run a marriage, and they will not leave easily.

Therefore, having a marriage experience is not necessarily a bad thing, and marrying a second-married woman and a second-married man is not necessarily a bad thing. The most important thing is whether people are good or not. Even if you are married for the first time, they will not be happy or even divorce. If a person is really good, even if he is married twice or three times, he or she can make you feel good. In marriage, the most important thing is to find the right person. As for whether you are divorced or not, it really doesn't matter.