? There are several basic etiquette on this day. First of all, when the son-in-law meets his parents-in-law, he must change his name to "Mom and Dad". Second, the son-in-law eats "dismounting and making friends". Third, the woman gave a banquet to entertain her new son-in-law and relatives and friends.
? Today I am dedicated to "Lower jiaozi".
? Let me talk about the meaning of "dismounting" first. The ancients got married, and men rode horses and women sat in sedan chairs. "Dismount" means that the son-in-law dismounts at the door of his father-in-law's mother-in-law's house and goes home. This traditional name has been handed down to this day. At present, the wedding is held in the hometown county. Wedding cars arranged by wedding companies include luxury cars such as BMW, Mercedes-Benz, Audi, etc. Most of the first cars that couples take choose white BMW, preferably a series of five or more cars, which means "pulling one hair and moving the whole body", "growing old together" and "dismounting" have a modern interpretation.
? As the saying goes, "jiaozi got on the boat and got off the horse" means going out to eat jiaozi. jiaozi looks like an ingot, hoping to go out smoothly and make a fortune; Receiving guests to eat noodles means that noodles are as long as silk, which represents the host's sincere intention to let the guests stay for a few more days. It is a special custom to eat jiaozi instead of noodles when getting married.
? Jiaozi, who caters to her new uncle, attaches great importance to her family. In advance, she will specially mix a special dumpling stuffing for her new uncle, such as pepper, salt and pepper. Content can be used imaginatively as long as it is edible and unpalatable. When my son-in-law takes a break, he will hold a ceremony to change his mouth. Of course, the big red envelope prepared by my father-in-law in advance should be thick. This is called "changing the fee". I will write an article specially in the future. Cooked jiaozi is served in a small red bowl, and the bowl with special stuffing should be specially placed in front of the new son-in-law. Don't make a mistake, or you will make a joke. Of course, the new children know about the "open plan". I heard that some children are quick-witted and diligent, and take the initiative to show their changes to others. This cleverness will make everyone laugh. The bride's younger brother and sister can tease her brother-in-law. Of course, we can't miss this rare opportunity, continue to pay attention to this bowl and make sure that the new uncle will "enjoy" it exclusively. I used to listen to my father's stories about the countryside, but I was really careless. I took a shot and accidentally ate jiaozi, my new son-in-law.
? Brothers and sisters should use this bowl of jiaozi to warn their new grandfather: Sister is ours. If we marry you as the bride, we must treat you well. The elders kindly reminded the new uncle that life is like this bowl of jiaozi, with all kinds of flavors. Men should learn to be tolerant, share joys and sorrows with husband and wife, and live a harmonious and beautiful small family.
Zazie Hoko
? When my niece got married, my sister-in-law bought all kinds of colored flour in advance. The wrapped jiaozi was colorful, very beautiful, very festive and photogenic. She praised the comprehensive and advanced service consciousness of the merchants and praised the new people for enjoying the new era and life happily.
? Recorded on Thursday, October 26th, 2020165438+1October 26th.