We live in the world, overcoming thorns and thorns along the way, wallowing in the quagmire of fate all day long. The ultimate goal is to live an ideal life. Because we have different expectations of the life, our lifestyles are also completely different.

In the consciousness of most people, their ideal life can be roughly summarized into two types.

The first is the pastoral life of "picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence and leisurely seeing the Nanshan Mountains", which is Tao Yuanming's beloved retreat and the ideal living state expected by modern people.

The noisy and prosperous life, the reinforced concrete buildings, and the frivolous favors always make people want to live in seclusion.

After work is over, take the time to enjoy your vacation, enjoy life, and even enjoy the sunshine.

The economy is changing rapidly, and we are consuming ourselves. When one day we are unable to do what we want, pastoral life is the best choice.

Choose a house in the mountains.

Open the windows in the early morning, welcome the warm sunshine, listen to the first chirping of birds, and be with vegetation, flowers and birds as neighbors.

Hoeing lotuses in the mountains, sipping tea in the pavilion, and listening to the rain under the eaves. The joy of life lies not in the accumulation of wealth, but in the leisurely mood.

The second is the diversified life in the parallel world proposed by Dabing - working from nine to five while traveling around the world.

? Da Bing's book is a bestseller and is very popular among college students. The life he proposes is widely sought after among college students. You can work and play. Such a life is so cool!

These two living conditions are suitable for middle-aged people and young people.

In the final analysis, if you want to achieve such a life, you cannot do without financial freedom.

As long as you live hard, you will be able to live like a wandering cloud and a wild crane.

Work hard to ensure that your life is materially abundant and you are mentally relaxed and comfortable.

However, how many people will persevere in this life full of thorns?

How many people will become deserters halfway through?

I think the ideal for life is to have a reason to love life.

Have the belief to fight for "the people who love me and the people I love".

We have parents above us, children below us, and lovers by our side.

Our parents raised us when we were young, and we have to support them when they grow old. This is the responsibility of one generation after another.

In the past, they worked hard to bring us up in a difficult life. Now, no matter whether we have the ability or not, we must remember the "parents' kindness in raising children." We must make our parents comfortable.

When we reach another stage of life and have a lover and children, hope will be ignited.

During the highs and lows of life, our lover accompanies us through thick and thin. Why should we not protect him (her) from wind and rain and be his (her) safe haven?

We were once the children of our parents, and now we are the parents of our children. The change in status means a great responsibility.

When we understand that responsibility is actually love, life becomes clear in an instant.

All our efforts are to make the people I love grow up happily and the people who love me grow old gracefully. In order to achieve this goal, every step of our life is meaningful.

Have eyes that are good at discovering beauty and a mood to savor life. When walking on the road of life, you not only rely on your feet to move forward, but also use beautiful eyes to identify the direction and savor life with a leisurely mood.

While rushing on the road, don’t forget to appreciate the beautiful scenery on the road to relieve the hardship of rushing along the way.

Things have two sides, and so does life. In this chaotic world, we will find that life is unbearable, and some things will make us jump with anger; we will also find that life is beautiful, and we may even be moved to tears by the small details in life.

Crossflow.

How to distinguish the beauty and ugliness of life?

Then you need to develop a sharp eye in a complex world.

Discovering the beauty in life will give you the motivation to keep going, and you will also have the mood to keep going.

Quietly watch a flower blooming, savor the aftertaste of a cup of tea, every moment in life is so beautiful, unknowingly slow down, look at flowers, clouds and scenery.

When you see beauty in your eyes and love in your heart, you will see the world in a different light.

Spend every day seriously, take every step with peace of mind, and treat every minute and second seriously. Only this kind of life can reward us with fragrance and be worth remembering.

Have the motivation to realize your own value. In the interactions between people, some people are hypocritical and some are sincere, some are kind and some are cunning. People have many sides, and things have right and wrong. We have the right direction, the belief in struggle, and the rest is left to us.

Speedy mobility.

This motivation must be based on one's own value, because everyone has a different attitude towards life.

Some people live in a muddle-headed way, some deal with it in a fussy way, and some people are as stingy as plucking their hair... All kinds of human nature are fully revealed in life.

There is no unified standard for how to live, but the core of all living conditions must be related to one's own value.

Let yourself live to the extreme and live a more valuable life, which is a serious attitude towards life.

Be sincere to people, be serious about things, find a place in your work, be enthusiastic about helping others in life, and be like a firework that ignites the most beautiful brilliance and illuminates the people around you.

Human life is rare, and life is difficult to walk in. Living not in vain is the only criterion for us to realize our own value.