Many things will happen in our life, and we will face many choices. Every time we make a choice, we sometimes hesitate, and sometimes we make a decisive decision. In fact, sometimes we don’t know that we are

Right or wrong.

No, one woman said that on the eve of her wedding, she learned that her husband-to-be gave the down payment for a house to her first love. Although the woman was pregnant at that time, she still chose to divorce.

And now, this woman doesn't know if her approach was a little too hasty, or whether it was right or wrong.

In fact, I think it should be treated on a case-by-case basis.

01. The whole story: This woman and her husband at the time actually met on campus, and the husband actually had a relationship before, and that relationship was his first love.

In fact, this is nothing, because many people still have their own past, so this woman did not pay much attention to this matter at the time.

But while they were together, they actually accidentally discovered that her husband was still in contact with his ex. Later, the then-husband apologized to her, and she forgave him.

It wasn't until they graduated and found jobs together that their families began to urge them to get married. Of course, they both felt it was time.

At that time, the husband's parents gave the husband the money to buy the house and asked him to use the money to pay a down payment for their wedding house. But who knew that after a period of time, the woman wanted to go see the house, but the husband didn't.

He always declines, and after too many times, the woman will naturally become suspicious.

Of course, no matter how a woman asks her husband, there is always a reason.

So one day, after the woman secretly looked at her husband's mobile phone, she discovered that her husband had lent all the money to his first love.

The woman thought about all the past again, felt so angry that she directly chose to divorce, and the woman was pregnant at the time.

02. Have you ever understood the reason? In fact, what I want to say is that to a certain extent, this woman may be motivated.

Seeing such a scene now would actually make everyone angry.

But has this woman ever understood the reason why her husband gave money to her first love?

If it is really because of my husband, my first love, that there is an emergency at home and I have to use this money for urgent needs, in fact, to a certain extent, it is understandable.

Although she may get angry, it doesn't mean she is divorced. After all, the most important thing is to know whether her husband is dissatisfied with her.

Of course, if you get to know your husband, it is really because they still have a residual relationship before, and this first love is not of much urgent use at all, and then the husband also lent the money to this first love.

Then I think the woman made the right decision. Even if she becomes pregnant at this time, if the two of them do not give birth to the child in the future, the family will not be happy.