Eating, drinking and having fun is an essential thing in life, which happens every day.
Therefore, this is the most common topic in chatting, including food, music, movies, activities, wine, coffee and so on. , and the content is very extensive.
In dealing with girls, of course, you can't say, "Hey, I ordered a takeaway today, and it took 1 half an hour to deliver it. I ate a bowl of bibimbap, which was expensive and unpalatable. Now I'm hungry. "
In this kind of chat, before you say this sentence, you should think about what kind of psychology girls will have when they hear this sentence, what kind of reaction they will have and how they will reply to you.
Faced with this situation, I'm afraid the most common responses are "Oh", "Well" and "Then eat more".
You finally started a topic, and after looking for a sentence, you can't talk anymore. You can only change the topic again, and the chat later will be much more difficult.
When it comes to eating, drinking and having fun, the most important thing is to have a memory.
In other words, no matter which topic you choose, there must be something different from ordinary daily chat for people to remember.
Then how should we speak to remember?
Let me tell you something. For example, I like small bars very much, so I will tell her:
M: I'm too tired to work overtime recently. I must go out to relax after work.
W: Yes, everyone is busy.
M: How do you like to play when you have a rest?
Woman: blablabla…… ... ...
M: I haven't been to Taikooli for a long time. I used to like to go to the private bar on the 45th floor next to Yu Lang at night.
W: You should have a good view at this height, right?
M: The location there is very high, the scenery is very good and the boss is very good.
Before my friends come over, I often take them there, order the famous Long Island iced tea, sit by the French window by the window and talk about everyone's recent situation. When I look back, I can see the bright night scene in Taikooli at night, the traffic on Shamao Street next to it, and the dazzling Chengdu TV Tower in the distance.
You feel that you are in a noisy downtown and have a rare leisure.
Looking back, the quiet room was accompanied by soothing music, and the glass was served. In the dim light, cocktails are particularly thorough. Duang meets a cup, stimulates your taste buds and slowly enjoys the beauty of the night.
W: Wow, there is such a good place in Taikoo Li. I didn't know it before.
With memory points, you can stimulate girls' interest points.
When you express these memory points in reasonable language, girls will naturally be attracted and interested and will naturally be willing to continue chatting with you.
If the chat is good, you will soon be able to blur the invitation and prepare for the date.
Talk about travel/travel
Travel is also a good chat topic, and girls nowadays like this kind of leisure.
Therefore, you should take a good look at the information displayed by the girl, her circle of friends, the photos she sent and so on. To know where she has been and where she wants to go.
If you find a place she wants to go but you have been there, as soon as you say it, she naturally wants to ask you how you feel in that place, what's delicious, how to play best and so on.
If you find a place where both of you have been, you can talk about your special experience or folk customs, which can also arouse her memories and past.
If it's a place you haven't been to, it can also resonate, and you can look forward to it together.
There are many such places, and they don't have to be high, as long as they are interesting, interesting or meaningful.
Of course, you can ask her different feelings about traveling, such as: where is the coolest place you have been in the past few years?
When she answered her unforgettable experience, she was naturally happy.