"Before I met her, I never thought about getting married; I have been married to her for decades, and I have never regretted marrying her, nor have I thought about marrying another woman." This is the ideal of Mr. Qian Zhongshu and Ms. Yang Jiang

Marriage is also the ideal marriage that everyone wants.

How difficult is it to meet the right person in a huge crowd?

There are about 7 billion people in the world. Among the 7 billion people, you will meet someone who has the same personality and similar views as you, who is willing to chat and have a good conversation. You love her and she loves you, and you can overcome the distance, family, etc.

Waiting for external factors, and finally getting together, just meeting the first three points is not an easy task.

I have seen or indirectly known that there are many couples. No matter whether they are passionate or gentle when they are in love, most of them do not make it to the end. Do you think they don't love each other?

Falling in love, at least in the early stages of love, two people like each other, and I don't doubt that the vows of eternal love that I patted my chest on at the beginning were false.

But in the end, they will break up for various reasons. The reasons for the breakup are varied, but no matter what the reason for the breakup is, it can only be said that the love is not deep enough.

When he can let go of your hand easily, it only means that your position in his heart is not important enough for him to risk everything for you, and he is not the right person.

You see, meeting the right person is really difficult.

On Zhihu, for the question "Will you definitely meet the right person in life?", the most upvoted answer was from a man named Ye Ming, "Look forward to it as if he will come tomorrow, and look forward to it as if he will never come."

I will live like that. "If you ask me, is it possible to meet the right person in this world?

My answer is: definitely.

One day, Lin Zi said to me on WeChat: "Before, I didn't believe in fate at all, but now, my whole body, even my hair cells, are absolutely convinced of the existence of fate. I have to say, fate is really amazing." I

I was extremely surprised, because Lin Zi really didn’t believe in fate before. He always said that the fate mentioned on the Internet was all a lie to you innocent little girls who are full of fantasies about love.

Across the computer screen, I asked him: "Why do you suddenly believe in fate now?" He said: "I am single. The moment I met her, I knew it was her. Do you know? In her eyes, I

See the stars, see me." Lin Zi has been single for 28 years. After he graduated, what Lin Zi feared most was the Spring Festival, because every Spring Festival he would be bombarded by seven aunts and eight aunts.

"Stop choosing, just find a girl who is similar to you." "You are already so old, and it will be harder to find a good girl as time goes by. What are you waiting for?" "We are all doing this for your own good, your uncle said

The little girl from my family is quite nice, why don’t I introduce her to you?” As far as I know, Lin Zi agreed to or was forced to go on a blind date probably dozens of times. In the end, no matter who asked for a blind date, Lin Zi would

Rejection due to being too busy at work.

Seeing that Lin Zi is about to reach the age of 30, Grandma Lin Zi looks forward to four generations living under the same roof every day: "Lin Zi, tell grandma, what kind of girl are you looking for? I have introduced so many to you before, is there not a girl who is suitable?"

?" Lin Zi was about to suffer from blind date depression after being kissed by his seven aunts and eight aunts for countless times. He thought that his grandma had a high position in the family. If he said a word, the whole family would not dare to express their opinions. If grandma said something,

, then he can take it easy.

Lin Zi looked at grandma and said very seriously: "Grandma, I met so many people, but when I saw them for the first time, there was always a voice in my heart telling me, it's not her. It's not because they are not good, nor are they good.

It’s not because they are not beautiful, there are many excellent and beautiful girls among them. How about we try to chat? As the saying goes, we develop feelings when we chat. But the more we chat, the more convinced I am that I am not the right person.

She, I can't deceive my heart, let alone delay a kind girl. I know that my elders are worried about me and do my best, but I can't face the loneliness that sometimes arises in my heart just because I have reached the age of marriage.

Or when you see couples and couples around you loving each other, you just find someone to live with. This is unfair to the other person and will hurt her even more. I know it is difficult to meet the right person, but no matter how long it takes, I am willing to wait.

, As long as she comes, this is the happiness of my life, and it is also responsible for my marriage." Since then, Lin Zi has rarely experienced the bombardment of his seven aunts and eight aunts.

It's just that Lin Zi has never met the right person. Lin Zi said that he might never meet the right person in his life.

Fate is a very wonderful thing, it is both naughty and cute, and it always appears inadvertently.

Lin Zi went on a business trip last spring. He was not the one who was originally on the business trip. Just two days before the business trip, a project that the colleague was responsible for had a problem and he was unable to take care of it. Lin Zi also participated in the business trip project, and Lin Zi University

In that city, everything was suitable. In the end, the company decided to let Lin Zi take the place of his colleagues on the business trip.

After Lin Zi finished handling the project, he received a call from his roommate who stayed in school the day before he left: "Before leaving, we had a meal together. We haven't seen each other in so many years.