Qian Qian talked about a boyfriend, Hadron. When she was in love, Hadron talked to Qian Qian every day. When she is free, she takes Qian Qian to various parks and eats all kinds of delicious food. At that time, Qian Qian felt that she really found the right person. She gradually became dependent on hadron. The feeling that she likes being with him can make the whole person relax and feel unprecedented care, but the love period is always over.
After the infatuation period passed, Hadron began to have his own life, which was completely different from the man who kept chatting with Qian Qian all day. Besides work, his daily life is eating, sleeping, playing games and meeting friends. Once he played with his friends until the early hours of the next morning. He didn't remember to tell Qian Qian that he was playing outside. Qian Qian waited for his reply until she fell asleep.
Sometimes Hadron would rather play games all night than chat with Qian Qian. Once she couldn't help it, so she said bluntly, "Why don't you reply to my messages?" Am I too annoying? You used to be different. "He said," I don't think we need to contact every day. We won't forget each other. Isn't it too greasy to contact every day? "Do you think you spy on me every day?"
Is it really unnecessary for couples to contact each other every day? The biggest difference between lovers and friends is that friends can only contact when they need it, while the feelings between lovers need to be maintained through communication. Hadron doesn't think it's necessary to contact every day. Contact every day is monitoring.
This only shows that he doesn't love Qian Qian that much. When a person loves you enough, he will always want to know your dynamics and stay with you when he is free, instead of feeling the need to contact him every day like Hadron. This is just an excuse for him as love rat.
Why do couples contact each other every day?
First, contact them every day to let them feel your heart.
What is the purpose of daily contact? Is to give the other person enough care and let the other person feel your heart from the bottom of my heart. If you only want to come and go when you need to, do you love her enough? One thing is very important in feelings, and that is enthusiasm.
Why do some girls have an affair with other boys after falling in love? This can't be entirely attributed to girls. That man can't escape. If he is not active enough, the enthusiasm of others will take advantage of it, so it is very necessary to contact him every day.
Second, contact each other every day and feel each other's existence.
In fact, the daily contact between lovers doesn't have to be intimate and say a lot of love words. In fact, it's very simple. As long as the other person can feel your existence, especially long-distance love, if the contact is interrupted, you don't know the other person's dynamics at all. Those who can keep a distance for a few days are not qualified couples at all, and they know nothing about each other's lives and experiences. They keep in touch every day just to feel each other's existence.