I have watched the Taiwanese drama "The Raising of a Common Girl 2" again. I am still moved and wonderful. The trivialities of life are vividly displayed in front of me, but we can never lose the courage and hard work to face life. We must not Knowing where the future will lead, everything in front of you is the meaning of giving your best! How can women live a wonderful life? Everyone has their own answer, whether it is habits or heart, this is their destiny! These can only be weighed and decided by oneself, and then take responsibility. A spark can start a prairie fire in just one thought!
Continuing the fresh style of the first season, this season has the same ambivalent parents, and the two clues of adulthood and childhood are intertwined in the story of the Chen family. It continues to describe the situation of Chen Carina's return to Tainan, without any thrilling details. The plot, ordinary life, contradictory frictions, and various realistic temperatures make people yearn for and be attached to it! Yes, Carina Chen has always lived hard and bravely. Even at the age of forty, she is still energetic and idealistic. After returning to Tainan, Chen Jialing first bought what the neighbors called a "haunted house", and then decorated it in the way she liked, realizing her dream look in her own hands bit by bit. She did not compromise in the face of her parents' well-intentioned interference. It means perseverance with love and strength in your heart, and you will not obey your parents out of guilt and wrong yourself!
The replays of Carina Chen’s childhood are enough to see how nourished her family of origin was, and she was lucky enough to be able to insist on being the most authentic and comfortable version of herself as an adult! Of course, this drama is not just about Carina Chen, but also the stories of other women, which is very touching. There is no doubt that Carina Chen is the luckiest person, not because of material things, but because of her inner abundance. Real luck does not mean the absence of ups and downs, but the optimism and persistence in adversity. This is a courage that many people can't match. And strength, of course, family and loved ones are always the most solid backing, allowing us to freely pursue our own stories!
Chen Jialing's new life is not so smooth. She will not just settle into the life of a small town just because she has adapted to the pressure and pace of a big city. Everything must start again and not slow down as she gets older. pace! Decorating the house, studying and taking the tour guide certificate, all of them are trying to be the best they can be. Without the protection of marriage, they will become an iron wall! The hard work and dedication of a tour guide is gradually reflected over time. Of course, as long as you take everything seriously, you will eventually be rewarded! Fortunately, Carina Chen's relationship has settled down this season. She fell in love with her childhood friend Cai Yongsen. The two stumbled around in the emotional world, with sweetness, disputes, and differences.
When Chen Jialing became pregnant unexpectedly, new conflicts, moods, and pressures emerged, which brought new challenges to her relationship. An independent woman doesn’t want pregnancy to become an advancement in love, nor does she want pregnancy to add a burden to the relationship, so she is willing to face it alone, and even wants to have an abortion! In Cai Yongsen's view, this was a denial of the love between the two and a hint that he had no confidence in himself. The difference in values ??between the two parties led to the breakdown of the relationship! Yes, reality is so fragile. We don’t know where feelings are fragile? Is it the mistress, the economy, personality incompatibility, or the killing of time? Happy marriages are all the same, but unhappy marriages are all different!
But after the breakup, Carina Chen slowly saw her inner feelings and her reluctance to let go of this relationship, so she mustered up the courage to insist on pursuing her own love again and again.
There will still be friction and contradictions, but as long as two hearts are close, all difficulties will be solved. Therefore, love is the hard work of two people, and they will reap a better future! After persisting for so many years, Carina Chen gained love, children, career, and the small house of her dreams. The years are peaceful and her life is great! Carina Chen's perseverance and perseverance, her heart's fascination, envy of her parents and family environment, noisy, but always full of love, never compromise with life, there is no so-called selfishness, just live from the heart! There are times of decadence, but there is never any negative emotion about life. The more frustrated you are, the more courageous you become, and strive to stretch towards the sun!
Carina Chen is a positive role model who positively affects the people around her. Another person who touched her most deeply was her cousin Hong Yuxuan, a canary who had been raised for half her life. In her middle age, she encountered How to choose when your marriage is frustrated? Should we continue to be a canary, or should we rely on our own hands to regain a foothold in society? For outsiders, the choice is easy. How can a woman be attached to a man? As long as you have hands, how can you not survive? It’s just that in reality there are many difficulties and poor self-esteem! Hong Yuxuan graduated from National Taiwan University. She met her current husband before she graduated. He couldn't bear to make her work hard, so she stayed at home pampered after graduation. Watching her husband's career flourish, she also lived the life of a rich wife, even for a second. I haven’t even attended any of the classes!
So in middle-aged marriages, her husband is looking for a younger girl. Even if Hong Yuxuan knows about it, she can only turn a deaf ear. There are also moments of domestic violence, all of which are hidden behind a glamorous appearance. Down. This is also the choice of many women. No matter how chaotic he is outside, he still sits in this home and lets everyone do their own thing. It is better to have a marriage full of holes than to be alone. Every time Hong Yuxuan appears in front of Chen Carina, she is arrogant and indifferent, showing the superiority of the rich wife. Only she knows the weakness in her heart, which only makes her more miserable that she has no silver!
I am experiencing hesitation, confusion, and encouragement, and I want to take the first step in life, but I have been out of touch with society for too long, and I can’t even use a copy machine! But the story still tends to be positive. Hong Yuxuan was lucky to have the support and encouragement of Carina Chen, so she had enough courage to break away from her collapsed marriage! There is a point in the drama that is worth recalling, about people’s collective consciousness and their shared joy and sorrow! When Carina Chen's mother Aqin encounters what she calls a marital crisis, the three women decide to take a road trip. One is broken up and two are in marital crisis. This is a journey of self-healing for women, to forget the pain and start over. !
The joys and laughter during the journey are very beautiful, so if you have a group of good friends and go out when you are frustrated and hesitant, you may have a different mood! The travel story is over, and the three women have returned to life! However, Carina Chen and Cai Yongsen reconciled as before, and her aunt Aqin also returned home, leaving Hong Yuxuan alone and helpless. Seeing the happiness of others, the ripples and imbalance in her heart were instantly awakened, so she hurriedly got on her husband's pie. When the car comes, I would rather continue to live a hopelessly prosperous life than glimpse the fear in my heart at this moment! Yes, it is easier to get through the days of hugging each other for warmth. Once others are happy before you, this kind of abandonment mood is more likely to be negative and pessimistic, so you can't wait to escape, even if you hide in the devastation again, it is also a kind of comfort!
But Hong Yuxuan's luck is that she has Carina Chen, a crazy and persistent woman who desperately prevents her from escaping back to her old life, so she can take on the courage to break up and be reborn! It is difficult to take the first step, but once you have the courage to go out, the outside world will not be so scary and fearful. Everything is developing in a good direction. Hong Yuxuan will also have the ability to survive independently and will meet love again. Life is Dare or dare not!
Just like Chen Jialing's grandma, after decades of shopping for food, cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the whole family, she still wants to find what she lost after awakening to a certain consciousness. Own. In fact, she likes to eat cream, and she likes dry and sour tomato scrambled eggs. However, in order to adapt to her family's preferences, she excuses herself that she doesn't like cream and scrambles delicious tomato scrambled eggs with soup. So she became a grandma, a mother-in-law, and a wife, but lost the opportunity to become Li Yueying. Despite this, after a certain birthday, I decided to leave home and live by myself for a while, enjoying the simplicity of spending time alone in a friend’s yard, feeding the dog, and eating a dish and a soup. Having never been able to read or write her whole life, she eagerly asked her granddaughter to teach her the three characters "Li Yueying".
Yes, Li Yueying will eventually have to return to her proper identity and family. She has no time to step out of the house, but a moment of rest allows her to meet her soul and find her own soul. Life should be a pure color - just become Li Yueying. The power passed down from generation to generation subtly affects everything around them, so when her daughter-in-law Aqin discovered that her husband was having an affair with another woman, she decided to leave everything behind and live her own life first. She gave up driving just because her driving skills were better than her husband's, so that no one around her knew she could drive. In the marriage of this era, the other person and the child came first, and finally she could have herself!
When I stayed in Chen Jialing's cabin temporarily, I walked in the courtyard and was pleasantly surprised to find that the sky through the leaves was blue. It was a beauty that had been neglected for so many years. Fortunately, I finally discovered it, and then I sat on the swing, as innocent as a child, swinging, looking at the blue sky, and working hard for the family for many years. After being hit by life, I began to have this person of my own. Human consciousness! So I dyed my hair, learned to dance, enjoyed delicious food, and had myself in my heart. This rekindled the relationship between husband and wife, and they began to see each other's existence more and more, not just habits!
The emotions between women are complex and hard to describe. Carina Chen has been encouraging Hong Yuxuan to get out of her broken marriage. When the young Aqin had an abortion, it was her mother-in-law who was the first to object. Obviously Women understand best the pain of giving birth, but the constraints of their thoughts still make the mother-in-law want more blood sources. After her objections failed, Aqin insisted on the operation. Her mother-in-law stewed the most delicious chicken soup and sent it to the hospital, and asked her son to prepare herbal medicine and supplements. After doing all this, she left indifferently! Women understand women after all. They just do their best to protect the interests of the family, but let men hide behind their responsibilities!
It’s great to have a happy ending. Life will always encounter ups and downs, but if you believe in the brightness of the sun and your inner strength, how can a woman live a wonderful life? Everyone has their own answer and lives in their own landscape. The consciousness of independence and excellence is gradually awakening, not only for the family, but also for inner understanding and persistence. It is definitely not an assertion of hegemony. Women are made of water, soft and powerful, the best is like the combination of water and sonorous roses!
How can women live a wonderful life? Don’t ask, create from your heart!