Chatting requires certain skills. Learning to chat with others will not only make your work go smoothly, but also improve your emotional intelligence.
When facing different people, you should choose different topics, so that you can have a pleasant chat and open the other person's heart. On the other hand, you can create a good chat atmosphere. Both parties can chat in a more comfortable atmosphere without feeling embarrassed.
So when chatting with girls, what topics can make them open up?
Let’s take a look.
First, you can talk more about food with girls.
Food is something that most people are interested in, and our lives are inseparable from food. Good-looking food can also heal people's mood and make people happy.
So when chatting with girls, you can start from the perspective of food and talk about what kind of food is nearby. That kind of food is popular recently, and then the topic will expand. If you say something, I will say something, and the chatting atmosphere will get better and better.
This is a common way to chat with ordinary people. First, gain the other person's trust through food topics, and then slowly you can understand the other person's psychological thoughts, and the relationship between the two people will become better and closer.
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Second, you can talk more about clothes and bags with girls.
There is always one less piece of clothing and one less bag in a girl’s wardrobe.
When girls see beautiful clothes or nice bags, they will be particularly happy and want to buy them.
So when you first start chatting with girls, you can start with clothes and bags, and talk about which clothes are more fashionable recently and which bags are good-looking.
You can quickly open up the other person's topic to touch on this topic, and they can talk to you about a lot.
If you ask other questions at this time, the other party will be more willing to share with you.
Because she is in a happy mood at the moment, she must know how to find the right topic.
The above are some suggestions on chatting with girls and what topics can make them open up. I hope they can help you.