When women stay at home for a long time, they are easily out of touch with society, becoming less and less confident, full of anxiety and confusion about the future, and often worried about being abandoned by their husbands and society. Being a full-time mother is a great career. She is busy from morning till night for her family every day, but please pay attention to these three points, no matter how busy she is, lest her husband and children "look down"!
1, willing to spend money, time and energy to dress up.
My best friend Xiaoxiao is a stay-at-home mother. Her daily life revolves around her husband, children and housework. She has neither time nor energy to dress herself up. In just a few years, she changed from a glamorous little fairy to a yellow-faced woman. A few days ago, she went to the kindergarten to pick up her son, but he refused. My son thinks that she can't dress up, and it's embarrassing to wear rustic clothes, while other people's mothers are dressed beautifully.
It's vain to laugh at my son, but it makes sense. People are all visual animals and like to see beautiful things. Therefore, no matter how busy and tired a stay-at-home mother is, she should spend more time and energy to dress herself up, not only to give her husband and children a long face, but also to give herself a long face and have a better position at home. If you are rustic every day, your husband and children will dislike themselves and won't even go out together.
2. Read more books to improve your self-cultivation and take the initiative to contact new things.
Bacon once said: "Reading is not for eloquence and refutation, nor for blind belief, but for thinking and weighing". Stay-at-home mothers stay at home every day, and their horizons are already very closed. They need to read more books and take the initiative to contact new things. In the first half of her life, Luo Zijun stayed at home as a full-time mother as soon as she got married. She cares about her husband and children, how much a catty of vegetables costs and how many clothes she sells, while her husband cares about promotion, salary increase and working environment. The ideological realm of husband and wife is completely different. Chen wants someone who knows himself and understands himself, but these Luo Zijun can't give it to him at all, so a third party appears.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with being a full-time mother. She is also contributing to the family, as great as her husband who goes out to work to earn money to support his family. Unfortunately, stay-at-home mothers can't keep improving all the time. In this era, if you don't advance, you will retreat. Learn to invest in yourself, pay more attention to the spirit, read more books to increase your knowledge, otherwise your husband and children will have nothing in common with you, and they will not even dare to talk when they meet many people. Moreover, my mother loves reading and can keep up with the trend. Children will naturally be influenced by their mothers and regard reading as one of their pleasures.
Pillow parenting information
Although stay-at-home mothers have more time to take care of their children, they are easily complacent because they are divorced from society. Such physical care is enough, but they can't take care of their children's spiritual world. Therefore, for the sake of children and themselves, all stay-at-home mothers should strive to achieve these two points!