This famous female host is Chai Lu. Her physical defects were present at birth, but it is a pity that she is still single. Her life is not all suffering, let’s take a look at her life experience.
1. Although Chai Lu is a little different, she works hard
Chai Lu was born in an ordinary family. When she was born, Chai Lu’s neck was slightly swollen due to the umbilical cord. It's a little crooked, and you really can't tell if you don't look carefully, but this is Chai Lu's pet peeve.
When she was in school, she always paid attention to her own image and paid attention to standing and sitting upright. She also worked hard in her studies. When she was in the second year of high school, her teacher saw her ability in reading aloud and suggested that she study broadcasting and hosting. This opened up Chai Lu's heart.
When she was repeating her studies, she made up her mind that she must be admitted to the Beijing Broadcasting Institute. If she failed, she would stop studying. In order to have a good image, she also underwent corrective surgery. She successfully entered the Beijing Broadcasting Institute with top scores in both cultural and professional courses.
In school, she was not the kind of person who ran around like a deer, but was calm and majestic. In college, I learned professional knowledge and improved my temperament.
After graduation, she joined CCTV and became a reporter and director of "Cross the Strait". She was able to use the opportunity of running outside to improve her adaptability and language organization skills.
In the process of working as a reporter, Chai Lu also encountered a thrilling incident. When she went to Taiwan for an interview, she was almost surrounded by some emotional people. Fortunately, she had experience as an outdoor reporter. , got rid of them.
This experience taught her the importance of knowledge. Through hard work, she was admitted to Tsinghua University and received a master's degree. With the improvement of her academic qualifications, her horizons have broadened a lot, and she has new understandings on many issues.
She is fortunate to be the host of "Cross the Strait". Her dignified hosting style, wise and calm analysis, and her ability to talk with guests make people deeply impressed by this beautiful host.
As an excellent host, you can face the challenges of many things. CCTV carried out internal reforms and made all-round adjustments to its programs. Chai Lu served as a reporter for "Investigative News" and the host of "Oriental Time and Space".
For her, it is a challenge. Reporters need to travel around. She once took a camera crew to interview the scene of a forest fire in Muli to explore the cause of the fire. This is also due to the reporter's sensitivity and keen insight.
She also has to host programs indoors. These are two identities and two characteristics, but she can control them both easily. Many people envy her work. But she was very indifferent and felt that this was a job and she just needed to work hard to do it well.
This is very similar to Teacher Dong Qing. She is the first sister of CCTV and has hosted many large-scale programs on CCTV. Whether it is the Spring Festival Gala or the "Chinese Poetry Conference", she can easily handle them. These are all the skills she has accumulated over time. results. She is also the producer and host of "The Reader".
The reason for being so good is that I have high self-requirements. Chai Lu is also such a woman. She has very high requirements for herself, so she studies hard and is admitted to graduate school. It is also because the requirements are high that one person holds two positions.
Chai Lu said that she is an ordinary office worker who doesn’t care much and just wants to do her job well. Do you like such a low-key Chai Lu?
Chai Lu has always been single, probably because of her high education and high IQ
In ancient times, people paid attention to being well-matched. Only in this way can two people be happy. Now is a new era, and we no longer pay attention to these things, but what we pay attention to is the integration of the three views. An outstanding person like Chai Lu will definitely not give in.
For someone with such a high degree of education, it would be difficult for her to find a boy with similar thinking and realm to her. A graduate student at Tsinghua University could meet Chai Lu. The chance of meeting Chai Lu would be like meeting someone thousands of miles away.
Some people say that they are destined to meet each other thousands of miles away. Look at Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi. They are more than ten years apart, but they started falling in love just because of a big drama. During the relationship between two people, it felt like honey with sugar added, it was too sweet.
Will Chai Lu meet such a person? In his experience, he may have encountered it, but I haven't seen her talk about it. Some people say, then use the old way - blind date. The success rate of this method is not certain. After Feng Shaofeng divorced Zhao Liying, his family arranged a blind date, but it seemed that the result was not very good.
I don’t know if Chai Lu has been on a blind date, but what I do know is that she has been single. CCTV is such a big place, and there are so many people inside, all of whom are highly educated and highly intelligent. Why is there no one who can catch my eye?
Maybe it’s just fate. We don't know each other by chance, but many of our colleagues are just acquaintances. Chai Lu's high education is also a big obstacle. Because she is highly knowledgeable, if she wants to communicate with her, she must have similar experiences or knowledge higher than hers, and more experience than hers.
It is very difficult to achieve harmony with a woman with high IQ. If you don’t do it well, you will say yours and I will say mine. This is embarrassing once, twice is too embarrassing, and there is no third time.
Chai Lu has always longed for love. Although it is not the kind of love that Cinderella longs for for her glass slippers, she still longs for beauty.
Just like Yang Yuying said, the love she hopes for is the cherry on the cake. The love Chai Lu wants is also a beautiful life, but she won't step out easily until it arrives.
A girl needs to be reserved. Fu Seoul said that the story of Cinderella tells girls a truth: when it is time to disappear, you must disappear. In this way, people who like you will come to you.
Chai Lu is also such a reserved woman. She doesn't want to say much about her feelings, hoping to see the boy's sincerity. Although she is not a long-distance runner, she is not a sprinter either. I also hope to feel the feeling of pursuit by boys. If not, it doesn’t matter.
You can buy it if you don’t have roses, but you can’t do it if you don’t have bread. She puts her time and energy into her career, and career development discourages many boys. On this point, Xie Nan once said that before she and Wu Jing fell in love, she talked about her career plans, but Wu Jing withdrew.
What Wu Jing heard was that Xie Nan had to be busy with her career and could not fall in love. Xie Nan's explanation after her marriage was that she said that just to tell Wu Jing that she could work hard and become at the same height as Wu Jing, and the two would be a perfect match. This is the different understanding of careers between men and women. Chai Lu is indeed single based on her strength!
Another reason for being single may be that the requirements are too high
A girl has proven with her strength that she can choose the other person according to her own wishes, rather than focusing on what the other person has. condition. In her eyes, the condition is that she can see it.
A person without money wants to marry a rich man. This is how Li Jiaxin is. She worked so hard just to marry into a wealthy family. In the end, her wish came true. However, Chai Lu didn't think so. She felt that men should be spiritually rich in order to provide others with safety.
Such a requirement is too high. What is spiritual prosperity? Do you want to read through the "Twenty-Four Histories"? Or do you know Mr. Buffett’s investment philosophy? Or do you want to know about the Tao of Confucius and Mencius and the state of etiquette?
This beauty did not give an answer, but just said that she believed in fate. The matter of fate is really illusory. It may fall in love at first sight in an instant, or it may end up alone.
Chai Lu is already middle-aged. It will be very difficult to find the person you like and have children. Because there are many dangers for older mothers. However, Chai Lu didn't seem worried.
Maybe they think that getting married is not the goal, but that it is more important for two people to get along well with each other. In this regard, she is quite similar to Xu Jinglei. She said on "Round Table Party" that because she has not found the meaning of marriage, it is enough for two people to be together and have a good relationship, and the piece of paper is not important. If it is for the sake of children, you can have children without getting married (this view is questionable).
Although I don’t know if Chai Lu has the same idea as Xu Jinglei, I know that she has always been single. The requirements are so high, isn't mom anxious? You may also know that there is no point in being anxious.
Some people say that women are rotten in their forties. At this time, it is not you who picks others, but others who pick you. Chai Lu felt that her knowledge was good, her career was good, and her income was good. Why do you want to be a big cabbage, picked here and there by others?
Think about it, no one in this world can survive without you. There is no need to change your lifestyle because of one person. Some people say that this may be her last moment of stubbornness.
In any case, Chai Lu has expectations for her partner. If she cannot meet the requirements, then there is no need to talk. Many people feel that it is a pity that a beauty like Chai Lu did not leave any descendants.
Do people like this still live in ancient times? Is the role of a woman just to reproduce? If this is the case, this task can be accomplished without getting married. As a beautiful host with high IQ, Chai Lu will naturally not be reduced to a child-bearing machine.
She can be single, but she cannot be insulted. Such an approach is neither harmful nor insulting. If it were said to Chai Lu alone, I don’t know how Chai Lu would respond. Do you want to see it? Go to Chai Lu’s account and ask.
It can still be exciting without a guardian
On CCTV, you can see many hosts taking photos together. They are partners at work, or they may be playing in private. Companion, after get off work, dress up beautifully and go shopping together.
When you encounter a small product you like, buy it and you will be happy for a while at least. Some people say that women should wear jewelry. Without jewelry, they feel like they are missing a lot.
Some people say that what is missing will be replenished. A spiritually rich person like Chai Lu would naturally not fill his heart with worldly things. What she is willing to do may be to make a cup of coffee or tea at home, turn on the music, and enjoy some quiet time.
Some people say that time can be carved, so leaving your own mark in time is also a beautiful thing. Accompanying my changes are glorious times and beautiful things.
The splendor of life does not necessarily have to be experienced through wind and rain. Just thinking about it at home, looking at the skyscrapers outside the window, listening to the light rain falling outside, and the piano music in the background, is wonderful.
Wouldn’t it be delicious to cook some of your favorite food, taste it slowly, and let the food overflow in your mouth? Leave the evening to yourself? Why should another person break this peace and comfort?
Summary:
Chai Lu’s life is not limited to her physical problems. One is because she is too strong, and the other is because she has high requirements. . In this way, she did not get into marriage. Like Yu Feihong, she can still be wonderful without getting married.
One person, one flower, one world, spend the afternoon with a cup of tea. Isn’t this kind of life what many people hope for? Chai Lu can realize it. If there is fate, two people can share it together. If not, they can enjoy it alone and be very happy.
Do you think Chai Lu’s life is beautiful?