When a boy who is good at chatting with a girl chats, he is very good at creating a chatting atmosphere with a sense of familiarity, making the girl feel like an old friend with him, very relaxed and natural. I can talk a lot consciously. Moreover, his chat is never casual, but rhythmic and purposeful. In the first stage, he will talk to you about common topics such as the weather and food; in the second stage, he will go a little deeper and talk about something more. More personal topics, specifically talk about your interests and hobbies; in the third stage, consciously talk about some private topics, emotional experiences, etc., so that your topics will become more and more in-depth. And many boys who don't know how to fall in love really make a lot of mistakes in this regard. They can't find the topic when chatting, they don't know how to strike up a conversation with a girl, they don't know how to start a smooth first chat, they can't find the topic when chatting, and they always do it. Damn it, I can’t talk in depth. Even if you chat a lot or for a long time, it's just random chatting with no rhythm and no direction. Girls still think you are an outsider, a netizen, not even a friend. Upgrade the relationship in a timely manner. Boys who don’t know the routine often chat with girls and are treated as their best friends and backup, without knowing what they have done wrong. In fact, many times, it’s not that girls are not interested in you, but that boys have missed too many windows for upgrading the relationship. If a boy chats with a girl every day, and the girl responds enthusiastically, it means she is basically interested in the boy. But if a boy doesn't know how to ask a girl to meet to consolidate and improve the relationship, the girl will feel that the boy may not be interested in her, and slowly convert his enthusiasm for you into a friendship. Boys with deep routines will consciously plant the seeds of invitation during chatting, find the right opportunity to ask girls out, eat, or go to the playground. During the contact process, they will use words and actions to test the girl's mind. Once the opportunity is discovered, Just hold on tight. According to the situation, make timely adjustments. Boys with deep routines will adjust their strategies to attract girls according to different types of girls and at different stages. For example, they will analyze in advance to understand the girl's interests, and then talk about what the girl likes or wants to hear during the chat. They will find out the girl's mentality in advance, read the girl's hints, and all the dating arrangements will be exactly the same. The way girls like it. Once he discovers that a girl feels bad about something, he will stop in time and adjust his methods as soon as possible. For example, when he meets a girl, he may suddenly reach out and brush the hair next to the girl's ear to test whether the girl is very resistant to him. touch. Once a girl shows resistance, he will immediately apologize, explain that he was in a hurry, and ask for forgiveness. And we will be more cautious in the future process. Signs of a man who is good at flirting with girls 2 A man who is good at flirting with girls will never have these 5 signs of low emotional intelligence! The first type is one who is nervous, flustered, timid, and afraid to show off when something happens. Some boys, when their boss assigns tasks or small things happen suddenly, they don't dare to express themselves. They are in a hurry and timid. When they stand at the front desk, they feel flustered, short of breath, confused, and feel a little suffocated. It can be said that this kind of person does not understand himself, does not recognize his own emotional changes, and cannot understand his own inner world. He cannot control his emotions well and does not understand himself. This is a symptom of low emotional intelligence. When a girl sees this, she wonders how could such a nervous boy be flirted with by you and talk to you? The second type is self-pity and self-pity when things happen, fluctuating mentality, and being unable to control one's emotions. Girls need a boy who is sunny, not nervous or complaining when something happens. And some men panic when something happens. He doesn't know how to control his emotions. He only sighs, complains and has a hot temper, which sometimes affects his family. When things come, instead of learning to adjust yourself and find ways to solve them, you just blame others and why you did it in the first place. You never think of a solution. You can't control your emotions and can only vent your anger. A typical manifestation of low emotional intelligence and inability to manage oneself. Can a girl be flirted with? The third type is someone who can't stand the blow, gets frustrated when encountering problems, and is unable to recover. From then on, he sinks into the workplace and just lives his life. When a certain project or a certain customer or something does not go well or is hit hard, you start to have all kinds of doubts and unknown fires erupt everywhere. No matter how much you encourage or provide help, you can't get him out of this low point or predicament. He can't move and direct his emotions according to work goals. He can't get out of the low point in life, and he rarely has the day to start over. This is also a sign of low emotional intelligence and lack of self-motivation. The fourth type is those who speak outspokenly, without thinking, carelessly, and unable to feel the needs of others. If you don’t take care of a girl’s feelings and don’t pay attention to her inner thoughts, how can you flirt with you? Some people talk and say whatever comes to their mind. They never consider other people's feelings or consider other people's feelings. They say this is just their own personality. This is a sign of low emotional intelligence. If you do not consider the needs of others, you cannot communicate effectively. Without effective communication, you cannot communicate normally. You are not sensitive enough to the needs and desires of others. The fifth type is those who cannot regulate their emotions, their moods are greatly affected by the environment, and they cannot handle interpersonal relationships well. Unable to regulate the emotional response skills of oneself and others. Everything is self-centered. Unable to consider others and unable to understand the emotional needs of others. Communication with colleagues is not good enough. There are often some barriers. I don’t know how to refuse or agree. I don’t have a strong heart to bear it.

Can't read other people's facial expressions, only focus on your own pleasure. In fact, the key to flirting with a girl is to know how to take care of her feelings. When two people are together, there will always be some emotions. You must avoid some manifestations of low emotional intelligence, know your own shortcomings, practice hard, and finally embrace the beauty. After all, it’s not easy to be single! Performance of men who are good at flirting with girls 3 Why some boys are particularly good at flirting with girls. Good personal conditions, understanding of women’s hearts, and having courage and self-confidence that surpass ordinary people are all important factors for successfully flirting with girls. If you still can't attract girls' attention now, you need to learn from it and improve yourself. As long as you persevere and practice hard, I believe it won't take too long, and you can win the heart of the goddess like those masters of seducing girls. Good personal conditions Why are some boys so good at flirting with girls? Because they have relatively good conditions. Or have a certain material foundation, or have a good appearance, or exercise regularly to maintain a healthy body. Many people may say that inner beauty is more important than outer beauty. However, in daily life, most people still make judgments based on first impressions. Just imagine, if you were a girl and met a slovenly boy, or a boy who still had to pay for his living expenses from his family, would you be willing to talk to him? I believe most of them won't. External conditions are very important for a boy. You may not be handsome enough, but you still have to be at least fresh and tidy. You may not have enough money, but you still need to be able to support yourself. Some boys are particularly good at flirting with girls because they have one or more of the above external advantages, which allows them to express confidence and sunshine in their words, which can naturally attract girls. Understanding Women’s Hearts Why are some boys so good at flirting with girls? Because these boys understand what girls are thinking. They know how to talk like this can arouse girls' interest, and how to talk can improve their position in girls' minds. Some scumbag men in society, although their external conditions may not be particularly good, can attract many women. What is the reason for this? The answer is simple, because they can understand what the other party wants to say from the girl's conversation, and they will respond accordingly. Some boys may complain that they cannot attract the opposite sex, and they may think that it is because they are scumbags that they cannot attract girls. It is true that it is not advisable to play with other people's feelings. But shouldn’t some boys also find the reason from themselves? You can learn some communication skills with the opposite sex through books, the Internet, etc., and have the courage to try, and face it calmly even if you fail. Over time, I believe you will also have enough ability to seduce girls, come on! Have courage and confidence. Why are some boys so good at flirting with girls? Because they have enough courage and confidence. Many of the boys who are good at flirting with girls are not very capable at the beginning. Maybe I wasn’t used to getting along with girls at first, and it didn’t go well many times. Some boys may feel inferior because of this and dare not actively try anymore. However, people who are good at flirting with girls have a stronger ability to resist frustration than ordinary boys. Even if I fail, I don't think it's a big deal. I actively train my abilities, so my ability to communicate with girls is getting better and better. In addition, these boys are more confident than the average person. When talking, their movements and expressions show naturally. Let me ask, who doesn’t like confident boys? If you are submissive, shy or stutter when talking to girls, how can you make girls think you are an excellent boy? How can I safely spend the rest of my life hand in hand with you? So, if you still don’t have the confidence and courage now, try to train yourself! Manifestations of men who are good at flirting with girls 4 Men who know how to "pick up girls" mostly have these four characteristics: 1. External sunshine As mentioned above, although handsome men may not necessarily be able to "pick up girls", but external sunshine Handsome men are often more likely to be favored by women. Why? Because in the minds of many girls, appearance is "justice" to a certain extent. If they are asked to choose between an ordinary-looking boy and a handsome-looking boy, I believe that most girls will choose the handsome one. Other qualities that should be ignored. It can be seen from this that external sunshine or money, although not a magic weapon to "attract girls", are indeed very important supplementary conditions. 2. Be well aware of the tricks of "flirting with girls" In real life, we find that some people are ordinary-looking, but they have good luck in romance. The reason for this is actually that they know how to flirt. What's more, almost every girl is eager to meet her own Prince Charming, so they long for love and the pursuit of others. And those men who know how to "woo girls" will have good luck with women just by grasping this characteristic. It can even be said that this is a concrete manifestation of their understanding of the routine of "picking up girls". Of course, such a person is generally not satisfied with the status quo, so he becomes a philandering man. This is actually another characteristic of men who know how to "pick up girls". 3. Good personality, especially good to women. Generally speaking, men with good personality are more likely to gain more relationships with the opposite sex than men with bad temper. No girl wants to have a bad temper by her side. The boyfriend who started getting angry after just a few words. Therefore, men who really know how to "pick up girls" have mostly good personalities, especially towards women.

It is because they have this kind of tolerance and love that they will naturally have many inexplicable suitors. This shows how important a good character is for a man. It can even be said that besides money, what women value most is a man’s character. Therefore, a good personality is actually another characteristic of men who know how to "pick up girls". 4. Be good at listening. In interactions between people, it is very important to listen to each other, especially male and female friends. On the other hand, a man who is too self-centered or is used to being self-centered will actually find it difficult to have a relationship with the opposite sex, let alone know how to "pick up girls". By implication, being good at listening is also one of the characteristics of men who know how to "pick up girls."