Thank you for your invitation. Life is really not easy. Facing the world from the day you are born will bring you happiness and bitterness. People are born to live in nature and contradiction. Some people can find their correct position in the laws of nature, but others are not. Sometimes they may put themselves in adversity, which will easily bring great harm and influence to their bodies and minds and easily lead to mental illness. "How to eliminate the influence of demons and external harsh environment" I have the following immature views: (1) It is very important to strengthen ideological and moral cultivation, which is a compulsory course in life. (2) adhere to the principle of being broad-minded with people, don't care too much, and solve it according to the situation. (3) As the old saying goes, "My son saves three provinces in one day", which means that we should always check our own shortcomings and take a warning, so as to clear the way for our future career and life. (4) Keep a peaceful mind and learn to benefit others without self-interest.
if we have any of the above four items, what will our mental outlook be like? This is self-evident!
Before answering the questions, first understand the concept of "demons". This concept can't be found in the modern standard tool books of Ci Yuan, Ci Hai, Modern Chinese Dictionary and Newly Edited Ci Hai. Fortunately, there are several explanations on Baidu, which are similar. Judging from this, this word is still in the process of normative changes in the Chinese language context, or it is an uncertain concept. As the saying goes, the name is not correct, the words are not smooth, the teacher is unknown, and the answer is easy to produce confusion. This paper combs: the so-called demons are the psychological and conscious obstacles that people take care of the objective world. How to eliminate its impact? Let's talk about my own opinion.
first, divert attention. Attention is a psychological process such as feeling, perception, memory, thinking and imagination. The external harsh environment is nothing more than two aspects. First, it is natural, such as the harm caused by natural disasters and earthquakes. What this brings to the living is the demons of asking questions. The dead are like this, and the living will live after all. Turning your attention to living tomorrow, surviving, living and working, and struggling forward will help reduce its impact. The second is social. Its competition is fierce, its survival is difficult, and its life is not easy. Such as malicious attacks and slanders caused by competition, deliberate slander, etc., may be very harmful to a person's psychology, very exciting, and easy to produce demons. You can focus your attention and concentration on another thing, don't cling to it, and you must resolutely put it down to reduce the overlapping of consciousness and psychological obstacles it brings.
second, strengthen the will to act. A person with strong willpower can overcome many unimaginable difficulties and achieve his goal. The basic qualities of will are: consciousness, decisiveness, firmness and self-control. On the lobby of the official residence of Lin Zexu, a horizontal plaque is hung high, and the two characters "Cure Anger" are written. It means that in behavior, we should always control our emotions and restrain our words and deeds. Santiago, the Nobel Prize in Literature winner and the hero of Hemingway's The Old Man and the Sea, faced the harsh external environment, that is, the raging waves of the sea, fought with sharks, nature, storms and huge waves, and finally overcame the extremely harsh natural environment with his strong will, scarred and dying, and returned to the harbor. The reason why Santiago can live is that he has strong confidence, unshakable determination and indomitable willpower.
Third, cultivate a wide range of interests. Existence determines consciousness. The bad social environment is a reality and inevitable. After all, people can't live without society, and they can't give up just because there are pits on the road and thorns on the road. All roads lead to Beijing. If one road doesn't work, change the road. You can't hang yourself on a tree. It's unrealistic to cultivate your extensive interests and not to fall down and fail because of one thing. In order to transfer the psychological trauma and obstacles caused by this external environment, it is suggested to cultivate a wide range of interests. Such as learning interest, production interest, food interest, travel interest, music interest, shooting interest and so on. From a wide range of interests, look for new stimuli, new excitement, and improve your ability, so as to better alleviate psychological stress and awareness obstacles, and improve your adaptability and driving control to the harsh external environment.
if you have no desire, you will be strong, and if you do nothing, you will do everything! In fact, it means not to be too purposeful, otherwise it will be easy to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, which will only increase your troubles. How can we do it without suffering? The most important thing is to have a correct understanding of life. It is said that no one can succeed casually. Anyone who can achieve certain achievements must make long-term and arduous efforts. Without ten or twenty years of consistent persistence, you can't succeed. If you do not succeed, you are qualified to complain about your fate, otherwise you will only be content. But if you persist, even picking up waste, you will become an expert in picking up waste. If you don't believe me, just stick to it for 2 years. [yi tooth ]
this question is really difficult to answer. Because there are both subjective factors and objective problems. The most difficult thing for people to solve is demons, that is to say, their own subjective problems. Ideas and concepts can't be changed at once. Only by receiving the education of new ideas and concepts can they be changed. The bad external environment has a greater impact on people, because people are too weak in front of this bad external environment. Therefore, when faced with these two problems, ordinary people will choose depression or self-numbness. There is still a solution, try to make friends with people who are positive and capable. As the saying goes, those who are close to ink are black, and those who are close to Zhu are red. At the same time, we should have a positive and enterprising spirit and find an environment suitable for our life and work.
hello, your emotions are controlled by your beliefs, values and rules, that is, the belief system, and these things exist in your subconscious. In fact, you don't have demons, but your inner emotions control you, and you can't get rid of them, and you can't use your emotions.
It's not difficult to eliminate the influence of the external harsh environment. You can regard the influence of the external harsh environment as a kind of training. Is it that "the sword front is honed"? Compared with the external influence, the inner influence is the greatest. You can also write down the external harsh environment with a pen, then burn it and let it drift away with the wind. You can also try to think on the bright side and think of some good things to keep yourself from going.
a person's demons are brought by their own and external harsh environment! Eliminating demons is not terrible. The most impressive thing is the series of negative effects brought to you by the harsh external living environment. This kind of living ambient light cannot be achieved by personal efforts.
So the only feasible way to eliminate demons is to choose to leave this place and make a living elsewhere.
We go back more than 1 years, or even beyond! At that time, the people in the barren coastal areas of Fujian and Guangdong were poor and the living environment was bad. The early ancestors traveled together by thousands across the ocean to find their way to Southeast Asia and seek jobs.
after the reform and opening up, a large number of people who want to change their poor lives went to the coastal areas of Guangdong to make a living. Wave after wave of people of insight and a large number of people from poor and peasant areas on the edge of mountainous areas have moved to rich coastal areas in order to gain their own place in big cities.
China's current urbanization process has reached about 4%. Many workers in poverty-stricken areas, old and young, have found their place in big cities.
Today, we can see their hardworking figures in every big city and every aspect of our lives. Among them are white-collar workers and industrial workers. There are couriers, taxi drivers, employees in shopping malls and supermarkets of all sizes. There are mainly selling vegetables, chefs and food delivery staff in the restaurant. There are also a security guard, cleaner and so on in the community.
brother! Change your mind! Or get on the job again through vocational training? There are all kinds of occupations that can be chosen in big cities! What industry are you suitable for? As long as you are willing to work hard and be diligent! Big cities will give you a sky to stretch your talents.
This is a complicated problem. Generally speaking, it lies in one's own will, and will is to be cultivated. For example, starting from a small place, cultivating willingness means being mean to others, giving good things to others, living diligently, not caring, and being happy for the happiness of others. These are all willingness.
knowing what you need and don't need is tantamount to rejecting the external environment, putting your own needs in a relatively low-grade position and keeping it for life. What you intentionally do can be undisturbed, because you want to do it yourself.
but it doesn't mean that you are poor and down-and-out. It's too unemotional, that is, everything is enough, and you don't follow and climb. If you are a rose, just make this flower and don't think about cherry blossoms.
four words for you-aboveboard.
a mother is the soul of a family.
Father is the soul of society.
the instability of the family is due to the lack of female virtue.
Social instability is due to family instability.
shame is the foundation of the country. Men don't understand shame as a thief. Women are prostitutes if they don't talk about shame!
propriety, righteousness, honesty and shame are the four dimensions of the country, and if the four dimensions are not open, the country will perish.
courtesy is the way to get along with each other. A monarch, a monarch, a minister, a father, a son and a son, self-denial is the way to reciprocate. If you don't self-deny, the son will kill his father, and the mother will kill her son. Husband and wife kill each other, there is ...
Righteousness is the bottom line of behavior. Suddenly, I saw a boy fall into a well, and those who saw him were bound to feel pity. From the heart, from the practice, from the righteousness. If you don't believe in righteousness, the society is indifferent, the world is cold, and the public transport in Chongqing is terrible! The country is like a moving train. Everyone is responsible for the rise and fall of the world, that is, the righteousness!
honesty doesn't mean honesty! Lian is self-aware! Confucianism saves me three times a day! Introspection to maintain honesty! If you don't know honesty, a woman betrays her husband, a husband betrays his wife, an official betrays his position, and a country betrays his family, the way of family is absolutely gone!
shame is the heart of shame! The book says, "If you don't get a husband, it's the fault of Yu;" The people have had it, and the sin is in me. " Do as you would be done by. Shame is the last line of defense of human nature. I don't know myself, I don't know shame, what is a person!
it's not shameful to raise people, but to raise livestock! Animals have only edible value! It's a pity to die!
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