I like talking to strangers. I think as an individual, people should be lively and cheerful, and they should share the good things they think with the people around them. Whether they are familiar people or strangers, as long as they have the opportunity to contact them,
You must speak your mind freely, and don't always suppress yourself to the point of being unbearable like guarding against thieves. Basically, chatting with strangers will have the following situations.
On long-distance travel, we usually take trains or buses for long-distance travel. Of course, there are still many situations in trains. Whether you take a hard seat or a sleeper, there will definitely be someone around you. And if you catch up with someone of a similar age,
, then your topic may be accompanied by the spark of youth that comes with your words. Once, Xiaobai went to Beijing, and there was a girl beside him who didn’t know where he was going, so I asked the girl, are you going to university?
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At this time, it depends on the girl’s answer. After all, the contact between people is mutual. If she answers rigidly yes or no, Xiaobai will not continue to ask. The girl will only answer, no, I am
I went out for fun during the university vacation. I made an appointment with a few friends to go to Jiangnan. By reading between the lines, you will feel that the girl is also a person who is more willing to chat, so you can naturally continue to ask, and then the two of us started from university.
We talked about life, from life to relationships, from relationships to the future. We had a very good chat, and eventually we became very good friends. We would also contact each other when we have nothing to do, so sometimes we talk to strangers.
It will bring us very good friends.
The second is to inquire. Sometimes, when we are not familiar with the place, we need to rely on some local people or people around us to inquire about where we are going. Then I will often ask questions directly without thinking, because I feel that there are many differences between people.
Communication needs to be sincere. Only in this way can you feel that the other party is not defensive, can you feel that the other party is very good, and can better promote communication between people.
The third is in a taxi. Often at this time, I will take the initiative to chat with the taxi driver, because the taxi driver’s profession makes them very good at chatting. Many times, when I first took the taxi, I didn’t even wait for the taxi driver.
What did I say? The taxi driver came up with a topic to talk to me about. At the beginning, I was actually tired of hearing it and felt that the two of them were not familiar with each other. Why did they start chatting with each other as if we were very familiar with each other?
Same, but then I slowly understood this feeling. It is actually a very happy thing to be able to directly enter the chat session with strangers. It can help us learn a lot, understand some of each other's ideas, and help ourselves.
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So I like talking to strangers, which can enrich myself and learn more.