Although Little Joy is over, the topics about children's education and family marriage still continue in our lives. Let's talk about the concept of love in Little Joy, which tells us three important points in marriage.

Complementarity is very important

Is complementary marriage better or similar marriage better? This problem bothers many unmarried people. In fact, these two views are not antagonistic. Falling in love depends on the same interests, while marriage is about living while talking about interests. Under the premise of similarity, complementarity is particularly important. The three couples in Little Joy are complementary to each other.

Fiona Fang and Tong Wenjie have complementary personalities

The couple belong to two completely different personalities. Jennifer Dong, his wife, is a typical hothead with an explosive temper and is impulsive and irritable when things happen. Husband Fiona Fang is a slow-witted, like his name, he is an outsider, and he can look at and deal with problems calmly. Although Jennifer Dong seems to be in charge at home, Fiona Fang is the one behind it. In many things, Jennifer Dong finally followed Fiona Fang's advice.

Jennifer Dong's personality is simple, impulsive, and has no long-term planning. When she encounters major events, she will be distracted, negative and opinionated. Fiona Fang's personality just makes up for her shortcomings in this respect and can help her solve problems and make suggestions.

Ji Shengli and liujing have complementary ideas

The couple are actually very similar in character. Both of them are actually people who are more principled and stubborn. From Ji Shengli's fear of joining a group easily and renting a big house, we can see that liujing usually looks very gentle, but she is actually a very opinionated person. It is obviously her own problem to drive once, but she feels that she is right and insists on calling the police to deal with it. It can be seen that she is persistent in her heart.

In Ji Yangyang's education, Ji Shengli and liujing's ideas are completely different. Ji Shengli pays attention to rules and regulations and treats his son in the same way as his subordinates, while Liu Jing is different. He teaches his son in accordance with his aptitude, and walks into his heart by understanding his son's preferences to educate his son. They just complement each other and learn from each other, and finally resolve the contradiction with his son and achieve a harmonious family.

Qiao Weidong and Song Qian have complementary attitudes

One of them is a strict teacher and the other is a smooth businessman. They are in sharp contrast in their attitude towards their daughter. Song Qian has been putting pressure on the child, while Qiao Weidong has been helping the child decompress. Although it is a bit suspicious, they are complementary in their attitude towards their daughter to learn this. If they are not so complementary, it is estimated that Eiko is also complementary.

It's very important to talk well

After Little Joy, the variety show Chinese Restaurant has attracted the most attention. Huang Xiaoming's explicit words in the program have been repeatedly discussed by everyone like the plot of Little Joy. Huang Xiaoming's overbearing quotations in the program have made him reviled and satirized by everyone, and the key reason is that Huang Xiaoming can't talk well. It is very important to talk well whether facing friends or lovers. Huang Xiaoming should be like.

Tong Wenjie wanted her children to be closer to school and save more time to study. For example, when Fiona Fang put forward the idea of moving, Fiona Fang first expressed his disapproval. When his daughter-in-law insisted on her opinion, Fiona Fang immediately gave up her arms and agreed to her daughter-in-law's idea, which suppressed her daughter-in-law's imminent anger and skillfully resolved a family crisis.

When the daughter-in-law and son were in a fight, Fiona Fang made peace with each other in the same way, which made people admire Fiona Fang's way of speaking. And Fiona Fang's rhetoric of making peace is very useful to many people. When we have a popularity, we all see his shortcomings, but from another angle, we will have completely different gains.

Many emotional breakdowns begin with bitter words. If you can always look at each other from a different angle and always see the advantages of each other, like Fiona Fang in the play, you will feel that the other half is beautiful, so you won't be tired of looking at each other. There is no such thing as a knife mouth and a bean curd heart. A knife mouth is a knife heart, and some words have gone bad from the moment they are exported. The real person with a bean curd heart should be Fiona Fang, who will not add up bad words to each other anyway.

A sense of ceremony is very important

Those marriages that think they lost to daily necessities are actually lost to a sense of ceremony. Every enviable marriage needs a sense of ceremony, whether it is a solemn apology after each mistake or a celebration of various anniversaries.

In "Little Joy", it is a sense of ritual for the whole family to eat delicious food together. In the season of victory, Liu Jing's family moved into a new house, and it was a sense of ritual to celebrate with flowers and food. In Qiao Weidong and Song Qian, it was a sense of ritual to prepare a table of food to appease Eiko's fake marriage. Although this drama focuses on family education, it is always a sense of ritual for family and marriage.

Family needs a sense of ceremony, especially marriage. When you are in love, you pay the most attention to the sense of ceremony, and almost every day is a special day. After marriage, due to the trivial life of daily necessities, the sense of ceremony gradually decreases, and finally there is almost no sense of ceremony. Many times, for women, the sense of ritual is gradually drifting away, which is often the gradual disappearance of a marriage passion, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of marriage. When life is too dull, it needs to be seasoned with a sense of ceremony to make life stir up some waves.

In Little Joy, Fiona Fang Tong Wenjie and Ji Shengli liujing are both middle-aged people. Although they are faced with various family problems, their feelings are no problem, and they are as sweet and beautiful as lovers. The sense of ceremony plays an important role in a beautiful marriage. Another couple, Qiao Weidong and Song Qian, divorced because of misunderstanding, but they still love each other, and the sense of remarriage ceremony also played a great role.

One of the key factors that makes the TV series "Little Joy" popular among people is that it comes from life and is higher than life. The characters in the play are like you, me and him around us, and the plot in the play is really staged around us every day. The genius of TV series is that although it comes from life, it plays down the bitterness in life and selects the sweet part and the beautiful part of life to present.