With the emergence of various social software, people have not only strengthened their communication links, but even you can get a glimpse of the life details of friends you don't know. In the past, people could only live in bask in the quilt. Nowadays, people can not only bask in bask in the quilt, but also bask in children, delicious food and various luxuries. What do you think of these people? Some of these people who are exposed to the sun show superiority, and some I believe are more eager to show what they lack.

After giving birth to the second child, my husband looked at me and made it up to me.

A friend around me just gave birth to the second child, and he showed off the beauty instrument he bought for her in a circle of friends. The next comment praised her for her good fortune and having such a husband. However, once a friend invited me to dinner and complained to me. Since the birth of the second child, my husband has not been as caring for her as he was during pregnancy, and sometimes he will be cold and yell at her. Friends often take care of two babies alone, can't sleep at night, and want to divorce when they are exhausted. I asked her, didn't your husband give you a beauty instrument? It's quite good. The friend said that it was because her husband disliked her ugliness and they quarreled, so she sent a beauty instrument to make amends.

Real life is not so perfect

If you talk to this friend more, you will find that she is happy and living a good life with her friends, but let others think that she is very good. Maybe she cheered herself up in this way, and life might not be so bad. But this is all self-deception. Of course, not all the content in the circle of friends is like this, and some are because they don't want to show negative emotions in the circle of friends, or to create an image for work needs. Of course, there are some that are really smooth.

what life really looks like

sometimes when we see the happiness of our circle of friends, it is inevitable that we will not feel sour in our hearts, because we don't believe that the perfect life is true, or that it has not happened to us. But if we see life as it really is, have no illusions and calmly take life in our own hands, not in the eyes of others.