The meeting between two people is often unexpected, and the love between them is natural, but it is not easy to protect a love.
In the public impression, it is normal for couples to break up. I always thought that only women broke up, and the ending of this relationship was expected.
Actually, it is not. Perhaps, the breakup proposed by men is more cruel. They will not be as emotional as women, and they will not have too many entanglements with women.
Men are often cold and violent, and breaking off diplomatic relations is often their main way of indifference to women.
Of course, in this respect, women should not ignore it, but should take the initiative to reach out to men and save their hearts.
It is true that when a man is no longer enthusiastic about you, it is the best time for you to save your love. As a woman, you should also learn these "means" to make men change their minds.
Women are emotional and men are rational.
In this regard, women should not fight hard, but play emotional cards with men to awaken their love for you.
The most common ways are as follows:
(1) Back to the first love meeting place
Our love begins when we meet somewhere. Maybe it's a clear sky in Wan Li, maybe it's a light breeze and drizzle. Just because of the moment we stayed, we met a love.
The place of first love will make men feel deja vu. Women can meet them, create a romantic atmosphere and surprise men.
After all, it is hard for a man to refuse with a woman's heart.
(2) Find out the first gift that a man gave you.
The gift that a man gave you for the first time is very memorable.
Because it may be that a man spent a month's salary to buy it, or it may be that a man went to many stores to find a gift that suits him.
Bringing a gift to a man will naturally remind him of the little things you love. And men will change their minds about you because of sunk costs.
(3) Creating love scenes
As we all know, the most unforgettable memories are those good times, and the most unforgettable memories in love are sweet memories.
When men lose patience with us, we need to create opportunities to make them feel long-lost.
The behavior that produces this feeling of long absence can be: watching movies together, traveling together and cooking together. ...
In short, we can invite men to do anything sweet in love. This will make men even more reluctant to this relationship.
I deeply believe that as women, we should not only ask each other to take care of us, but also undertake the "obligation" of actively retaining men.
Love is supercilious, not a one-way request.
Trust is a long-term bridge, and love without trust is hard to be together.
Perhaps, in love, women are more likely to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. As long as men's actions are not as good as women's wishes, it will lead to a quarrel about "doubt"
The most common phenomenon is this: men come home late because of entertainment, and women think that men ignore home; Because men eat with colleagues of the opposite sex, women will think that the other party has betrayed them; Because men often play mobile phones, women also check men's phone records, chat records and wallets.
This kind of life often makes men feel unable to adapt, and also makes them wonder: Why did the lovely woman they fell in love with become like this?
In fact, everything is because of distrust and because women care too much.
In fact, to some extent, women need to fully trust men and understand that love is not too full, and extremes meet.
It is true that women should not hide their feelings and turn them into excessive control over men, because this will not only make men have no private space, but also consume the trust between you.
If you can, you must give men more trust, which is the best way to keep love.
In short, in love, women tend to fall in love with each other because of men's love words, while men tend to consider women's external conditions and choose to be with men when they are satisfied.
I have to say, this is reality.
Because adult love is not as pure as campus love, establishing intimate relationship between men and women is the choice after weighing the pros and cons.
Therefore, when we see the facts clearly, women should have the confidence to make themselves happy and the capital to make men change their minds.
In this regard, women's coping style is to make themselves more beautiful.
For example, women can change their dressing styles, change their favorite hairstyles, travel and even challenge new activities according to men's hobbies.
When you send these changes to your circle of friends, men will also shine because of your actions. Are you still worried that your appearance has changed and men will leave you?
Xiao Yuan's message: Love needs hard work. Doesn't mean that as long as we are together and do nothing, love can last.
If one day, men are no longer enthusiastic about you because of the dullness of love. Then, women must not be content with the status quo, but should take the initiative to make changes.
After all, there is no distinction between men and women in love. As long as we can be happy, women should show their attitude towards it.
This is the ideal state of love, have you done it?
Topic: How do you think women should keep men in love?