When choosing Benxi Xiaoshi Yizhuang and Benxi Guangshan Lake as your children's travel destinations, you can consider the following three aspects: itinerary arrangements, transportation methods and accommodation.

1. Itinerary: The itinerary of Benxi Xiaoshi Yizhuang is mainly based on catering services. It may be monotonous, but it is suitable for children to taste various delicacies.

The tourist attractions of Benxi Guangshan Lake are more diverse. The lake shape is wide on the outside and narrow on the inside, which can bring a unique play experience to children.

2. Transportation: If you choose to go to Yizhuang, a small city in Benxi, it is best to drive yourself or take public transportation, because it is more convenient to go there.

To go to Benxi Guangshan Lake, you can choose to drive by yourself or take public transportation, but self-driving is more convenient and can easily reach various areas of the scenic spot.

3. Accommodation: There are many accommodation options near Benxi Xiaoshi Yizhuang, which can meet tourists with different budgets and needs.

There are relatively few accommodation conditions around Benxi Guangshan Lake, but you can still find some suitable places to stay.

To sum up, Benxi Guangshan Lake may be more suitable for children in terms of itinerary arrangements, transportation methods and accommodation.

However, which place to choose depends on your actual needs and preferences.