"Isn't there enough food for the two of us?" After hearing this, the boy seemed to understand and his attitude was very sincere. He immediately called a waiter to add more dishes, but the result was still shocking.
The boy called the waiter with overwhelming arrogance, but said, "Add another plate of shredded potatoes," leaving the girl opposite completely speechless.
Although this is a joke, I read it with great interest. There is a saying that art comes from life. In many cases, these Internet jokes are not completely fabricated, and there are always traces to follow.
The purpose of these funny jokes is not just to make you laugh. They always have a deep meaning in them. They use a more extreme way to show certain things that will happen during a blind date. A large category of hot-button issues. This joke is obviously about some stingy men encountered on a diss blind date.
Today’s blind dates are different from those in the past. When I was young and on a blind date, most of the boys were relatively gentlemen. They would not easily let the lady pay the bill. They would try their best to meet all the lady's requirements and strive to leave a good impression. I still clearly remember that I once met a boy who was very funny. I don’t like to take advantage of him. After he bought an order for me once, when I rushed to pay for it, he really showed his behavior. He was angry, not just pretending, but because he felt that I had insulted him and denied him face.
I have to say that although there is some machismo in it, it can still be seen that this boy does not value money very much and is relatively generous.
But today’s blind dates are very different from those in the past. In the past, we emphasized “equality between men and women,” but now we emphasize “equality between men and women.” Some people may ask, is this male and female, female and male reversed? If there is any difference, the meaning is completely different.
In the past, equality between men and women was when men had a higher status, and women demanded the same status as men. But today, as women's status continues to rise, men are calling for the same treatment as women in some situations, such as blind dates.
Many people take it for granted that when it comes to blind dates, it is the men who should carry forward the gentlemanly demeanor and take care of all the expenses. But now men have also raised questions. I don’t owe you anything. We are on a blind date. Who is inferior to the other? It’s not like women don’t eat, drink or consume, so why should men pay all the bills?
In fact, we can also understand these dissatisfaction of men. We just talked about some minor problems that men will have in blind dates, such as being unwilling to spend money on women and being stingy. In fact, most men are It is understandable and willing to pay for the other party's reasonable consumption.
But the key thing is that some girls today are indeed a little proud in blind dates. They think that it is natural for men to pay the bill, and they consume unscrupulously. These consumptions are not reasonable and ordinary.
In the end, although it mainly talks about things that men should pay attention to during a blind date, it is not only about the man, but also requires the cooperation of the woman. I want the man not to be stingy, but the woman can't think that the man is just taking advantage of her.
The woman must understand that your correct view of the blind date expenses will enable the man to also view the distribution of the blind date expenses reasonably. No single party can do this.
The reason why I wrote this article is because I heard one of my editor friends, Xiaoman, complain that she went on a blind date and was full of hope. Before she left, she also I cautiously went to the salon to get a look and bought a brand new dress suit, but when I came back, I was dejected and speechless.
She also packed a lot of good wine and food, and threw them all to her colleagues for everyone to share. While enjoying the food she brought, her colleagues thought she had met a generous and considerate person. boy.
"This boy is pretty good, Xiaoman. He also knows how to win people's hearts! He must have played very hard today, right? Tell us how far you have progressed? Is he handsome? Is he tall? His personality. Okay, are you going to take our little man home to meet his parents?"
The colleagues burst into laughter, and everyone teased Xiaoman, but this guy is very good at picking up jokes and loves to joke. The girl who was bragging was dejected and said nothing.
After a long time, he suddenly burst out like a wind-up rag doll: "Fuck love, it's all a lie. I don't believe in love anymore! I will never go on a blind date again. ! Isn’t it nice to be single when you are happy, carefree, and free, without having to care about other people’s feelings or being wronged?”
Colleagues hurriedly comforted her. After asking, she calmed down and told us the whole story of the blind date.
Let me explain first, Xiaoman is a slightly chubby girl, with plump flesh and fair skin. Although she is not that good-looking, she is very attractive. She is a cute and cute girl type. She is 28 years old this year. Among the singles in big cities, she is really not that big, but in her hometown, she is just a mother of a child.