In fact, when you see this, you will definitely feel angry. My mother-in-law is not a tiger. Why are you in such a hurry to put it aside? I think it may be because there are too many things, and the mother-in-law makes things difficult for her daughter-in-law, which makes many people feel uneasy. But now the daughter-in-law in life is different from that in the old society. We can see that many families actually live a better life for their sons, so in the face of all kinds of difficulties from their daughters-in-law, they choose to swallow their anger.
1, food partner You can see stories like this in various TV dramas. My mother-in-law complains in front of her daughter-in-law every day: "Old people are like eating good things. I don't know why their mouths are so greedy." In fact, most women in life are "diners", and few people can refuse the temptation of food. This is also the best way to communicate with my mother-in-law.
Therefore, don't patronize your own meals, attend fewer parties a month, and communicate with your mother-in-law on some "delicious food". Even if it doesn't suit her taste, there is still a saying that "people eat people", and my mother-in-law won't think you are not very good, which can actually increase the distance between us. You can think about it, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a high degree of love for the same food, and they can communicate with each other in their spare time, so the friction in life is greatly reduced.
2. admit that your mother-in-law is young. You walked across the beach with your husband and two young people. Your mother-in-law is definitely not interested in participating. If she wants to accept your consumption concept instantly, the probability of success will not be too high. If your mother-in-law is young and loves fashion trends, then her consumption concept should be equal to yours. At this time, you can try to become "good friends" with your mother-in-law, and talk to each other from the heart. You can talk about any topic, whether it's clothes, designer bags or his son or grandson.
In addition, try to show your lovely side in front of your mother-in-law. There is no need to be strong in front of her eyes, let alone there is no room for a grain of sand in her eyes. If you decide the size casually, your mother-in-law will be more worried about the life of you and her children. If you are a thoughtful woman, your mother-in-law will appreciate you more and feel more at ease about your life.
3. Surfing the Internet In view of the differences of the times, many old people don't know what the Internet is, let alone what online payment is. In fact, everyone is surprised by new things. If you find that your mother-in-law can read, please take her online immediately, so that you can make your mother-in-law fashionable again. Secondly, you finally have a chance to teach your mother-in-law.
Although a little tired, the old people are very studious and have strong working ability. I firmly believe that she will soon form a dependence on you, and at the same time she will be grateful to you, and it is impossible to deliberately pick your shortcomings. After the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law become one in life, you will find that happiness in marriage and family is so beautiful. If you are careful, you can find the problems in your life and deal with them, then the future will certainly be smooth sailing.
In my opinion, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as a dutiful son, he will definitely stand on the mother's side, but if you stand on the mother's side, the relationship between family members will be more disordered. More importantly, your practice did not make your mother feel how happy you are, but aggravated the problem of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
If you stand on your wife's side, your mother should be happy, because for her, you are also happy to see everyone in this family, and the husband and wife can unite as one. Even though your mother looks sad on the surface, she is still happy inside.