I will choose to stay away from my in-laws and not associate with them frequently. If they want to interfere in our lives, I will let my partner deal with them and perfunctory them with words. I think the in-laws who interfere in the lives of young couples are very ignorant. After all, young couples have their own lifestyles and their own career choices. Although their in-laws have a lot of life experience, they can't take care of their lives by themselves. In-laws should give young couples full freedom, just let them come back to visit themselves during the holidays, and there is no need to get involved in their lives too much. And I think my in-laws who don't let their daughter-in-law go out to work are very conservative. These in-laws generally have the authority of parents, and regard their sons and daughters-in-law as their own affairs, interfering not only in their lives, but also in their work, which is also very disgusting.

I don't think any girl wants to meet such in-laws, because it will make her lose her freedom of life and work. Once she accepts the arrangement of her in-laws and returns to the family, she will become a complete housewife, worrying about housework and children and completely losing herself. Many conservative in-laws will think that working outside is a bad behavior. Some in-laws often want to manipulate their daughter-in-law's thoughts and make her completely obedient to her son. But Ms. Shen is a very independent and enterprising woman. Even after she got married, she shouldn't go back to her family.

We don't know whether she and Mr Du Can will get married. After all this time, I can't see that the couple have any plans to get married. Of course, that woman knows. I think after my son gets married, my in-laws should stay away from his life, live their own lives and concentrate all their lives on his son, which will also make them lose themselves. If the in-laws love their sons too much, they will want to control their sons, and by the way, they will also want to control their daughters-in-law, which is very unfavorable to the feelings of young couples. This kind of in-laws relationship will lead to frequent quarrels between young couples and eventually lead to disillusionment.

A good in-laws should stand up when young couples need help, quietly quit when they need independent space, and don't interfere too much in their child care unless they take the initiative to ask for help from themselves. When taking care of grandchildren, they should also fully respect the opinions of their daughter-in-law and don't take care of their children in their old ways. After all, scientific parenting is now emphasized.