YCY didn't read much, you might say.
But first, let's see what kind of life ordinary people who don't study live.
I know two girls. They are both born in the 199s. They are both good-looking, and their family backgrounds are similar. However, just like these two seemingly similar girls, their lives are very different.
Let's call one of the girls Hong. Hong is a beautiful girl. Although she is good-looking, she seldom reads books.
As far as I know, when Ah Hong was in the second grade of junior high school, she dropped out of school and went out to work.
Although Ah Hong's family was very angry at that time and wouldn't let Ah Hong drop out of school, his parents couldn't keep up with his children. Even though their parents strongly opposed it, Ah Hong secretly went out to work.
A Hong met a boy about her age when she was working. They liked each other, and soon they got together.
Not long after, Ah Hong became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter a few months later.
I thought I could go home for a wedding reception, but tragedy happened.
I don't know why. A Hong's boyfriend had an accident at work and unfortunately died in the accident.
Then, left alone in a foreign land, A Hong and her starving daughter.
After this incident, A Hong's parents and her boyfriend's parents knew about them. Her boyfriend's factory paid hundreds of thousands of dollars to the man's parents, but A Hong didn't get a penny.
So Ahong's parents invited some relatives and friends to her boyfriend's hometown to talk about the distribution of money. Later, under the discussion of both parents, Ahong's mother-in-law gave Ahong 1, yuan, but Ahong's daughter had to stay and be raised by her mother-in-law, so Ahong took the money and was taken back to her hometown by her parents.
Later, after returning to her hometown, A Hong was introduced to a man who was more than ten years older than her. Any man was divorced and had a daughter, but he didn't marry him.
then two people got married naturally under the matchmaking of others.
After more than a year of marriage, A Hong gave birth to a son. Less than a year later, Ah Hong was pregnant again, and this time she gave birth to a daughter. As a result, only a few months after giving birth to her daughter, Ah Hong became pregnant again, and then gave birth to a son.
Back and forth, Ah Hong and this man have given birth to three children.
after marrying this man, Hong has never gone out to work, and has been giving birth and taking care of children at home.
The source of a family's life depends entirely on which man works outside, and life is tight.
ah hong, although she is only in her twenties, has lived like a woman in her twenties.
judging from all kinds of behaviors and clothes in life, she is nothing like a post-9s generation in her twenties.
I heard that her husband wants her to have many children, the more the better.
At present, three children have been born. I don't know if Hong will have more children, but at present, three children are enough for their family.
Besides, when Hong gave birth to her second child, she was bleeding heavily and almost died. It's really pathetic.
and the other girl is green. I think she is a lucky girl.
A Lv is also a beautiful girl, which is different from A Hong: After finishing junior high school, A Lv went on to study in high school, and then went to college.
After graduating from college, Green met her current husband, and then they got married after getting along for half a year.
After getting married, Green gave birth to a daughter. Her husband's family conditions are very good, and now the couple have bought a car and a house in the provincial capital.
two people love each other and have a lovely daughter. With parents helping to look after the children, A Lu can still go to work to earn money and have her own work and career.
Although she has already given birth to a child, Ah Lv looks like a beautiful girl with a well-proportioned figure and beautiful appearance, just like an unmarried girl.
At ordinary times, I often see photos of her playing in various places in the circle of friends, as well as photos of various foods and photos of parties with friends.
What we can know is that A Lu's husband dotes on her and loves her, and A Lu's life is very happy.
From the experience and present situation of these two girls, we can see that two people of similar age live completely different lives.
The reason is a choice at the beginning. If Ah Hong didn't choose to drop out of school and go out to work, but studied hard, she wouldn't meet that boy, give birth to a child at a young age, suffer from the loss of her husband, or remarry, and become a child-bearing machine ...
If Ah Hong read more books, she would spend her junior high school life, senior high school life and even be admitted to a school just like ordinary people.
Although not everyone can be as lucky as Green, he can meet the right person and form a happy family.
However, if we read more books, we will have more knowledge, a bigger pattern and more choices.
We can choose our favorite job, lifestyle and people.
for ordinary people, although reading may not make you rich and expensive, it will make you prosperous and get rich overnight. But you don't even have such a chance without studying.
Now I see those girls who choose to go out to work after graduating from junior high school in their teens, and I'm afraid their lives will be as tragic as Ah Hong's.
Maybe you will say that YCY is just a girl who didn't even graduate from junior high school. Isn't she still a star and living a glamorous life?
However, you are not YCY, and you have no luck in YCY.
What you see is just a blessed YCY. Behind such a YCY, there are thousands of YCY in Qian Qian living a hard life in misfortune.
You can go and see YCY's experience before she became famous, because she has no education or knowledge. She worked as a factory girl, a waitress, a network anchor, was harassed by obscene men, and was cheated by others.
Not everyone's success can be replicated, and not everyone can become YCY.
Most people in this world are ordinary people, with ordinary life, ordinary days and simple happiness.
And reading is the best investment to this happy road.
Recommend it.