Because you think sharing is the right thing to do.
But in fact, sharing is voluntary and affection. Don’t take other people’s affection as your duty.
Take me for example. First of all, I have a normal relationship with my roommate. We are not good friends, just roommates.
Last time I suddenly wanted to eat egg tarts, so I went to Kaifeng Cai and bought six egg tarts. When I brought them back, I told them to try them. I gave them one each, and there were four left.
I ate two by myself, put them on the table and then went to take a shower. When I came out, I couldn't find them.
It turned out that my two roommates had finished my egg tart.
I ate two of the six egg tarts myself. I bought them for myself, not for you. Is this appropriate?
And I've already separated from you. If you want to eat, won't you wait until I come out after taking a shower to tell you?
Eating the rest without saying a word?
It’s okay not to regard yourself as an outsider, but the problem is that we don’t have that much of a relationship.
A box of egg tarts costs over forty, which is not very cheap for students.
After I asked, one of the roommates might have felt embarrassed and wanted to pay me, but I was too lazy to ask for it.
This may not seem like a big deal to others, but I really feel uncomfortable.
I bought food for myself from the beginning, not to bring you food. I ate it without saying a word. Will I have to give you a bite of everything I buy in the future?