Have you ever thought about whether you will help your parents do housework besides studying when you are 12 years old? I think back to my childhood, when I went to work, I was very busy. After school at noon, I would go home for dinner alone. The first dish I cooked was fried shredded potatoes. At that time, shredded potatoes were cut as thick as my fingers. I accidentally cut off my nails once, but fortunately I didn't cut them into the meat. It was a false alarm. When I was young, I washed my school uniform myself. At that time, my living conditions were not as good as they are now. I washed my clothes by hand. There was no washing machine, so I took care of my life when I was young. When I think about it carefully, the reason why I did it at that time was that my parents were busy making money because of poor family conditions, and I wanted to reduce their burden. As for the present family, children are regarded as treasures. This 12-year-old boy can cook a good dish, and his usual living situation may be similar to that of my childhood, so it is very distressing.
a 2112-year-old boy, a 2112-year-old boy who has finished the New Year's Eve dinner
can cook 9 dishes and 1 soups, and it is obvious that it is not the first time to go to the kitchen. If you can arrange the kitchen properly, you should often cook. This child is a rare good boy who knows how to be grateful to his parents. At the New Year's Eve dinner, I hope my parents can have a good rest and then let them taste the food cooked by themselves. It is really touching.
Education for children is not only about learning well
Many parents demand of their children. As long as they learn well, they don't need to consider other things. In fact, this is not good. It is every parent's wish to study well, but it is also necessary to let children participate in family work. Because the child is also a member of this family, he also needs to undertake anything in the family, especially doing housework. Many children have never done housework, which is worthy of parents' consideration. If children want to know how to cherish the fruits of other people's labor, they must first know how to work by themselves. Let the children know that you will get what you pay, whether it is dressing, combing your hair or washing your face, all these things need to be done by yourself.
The values of growing up in different environments are different
Many children have to make ends meet and clothes are stretched out. As long as parents don't disagree with their demands, especially when grandparents take care of their children, they will definitely give them whatever they want. But think about it, children will eventually go to society in the future, and those people in society will not love your children. Everything will not be left to your children. If you don't educate them well at home, you will definitely suffer when you go to the society, and their psychological endurance will be greatly reduced. At that time, when you encounter a little problem, you will feel that the sky is falling. Scientific education of children is the most important thing.