In order to sell clothes, children's clothing merchants usually invite some lovely children to be models. Even in China, Tong Mo has long been commonplace. Many children are great when they are very young. Because they are so good-looking, they started their own careers earlier than their peers.
More frightening than domestic violence is that parents regard their children as cash cows. A recent incident has attracted a lot of people's attention. At first, a video application showed that someone was kicked by a staff member while taking photos in Tong Mo. Once the video broke out, it caused great repercussions, and netizens expressed their condemnation. As an adult, being so rude to a child, it can be seen from the video that the child has not done anything bad.
After the incident continued to ferment for a few days, the parties finally came out to explain. Surprisingly, it was the mother who kicked the child.
This lovely little girl named Niu Niu is outstanding in appearance, which makes many businesses willing to find Niu Niu as a children's wear model. Obviously, the parents found business opportunities and signed a model contract for Niu Niu.
In the past few days when the incident has been fermenting, some businesses that have cooperated with Niu Niu have come out to explain, and all these businesses have said one thing in unison, that is, there is too much work in Niu Niu. Of course, it does not rule out that some businesses even fall when they are down in order to unload their responsibilities, but the problem of children's heavy workload should be viewed objectively.
In order to make money, Niu Niu's mother took many jobs for Niu Niu. When constantly changing places to work, Niu Niu sometimes inevitably feels very tired. Niu Niu's mother didn't explain too much about kicking Niu Niu, but said: No parent doesn't love their children.
However, more netizens still questioned: Do you love your children by using them to make money? Now, most netizens have turned their attention from the domestic violence of Niu Niu's mother to the thinking of using children to seek wealth.
Parents use their children's Excellence to make money, that is, in? Hurt Zhong Yong? In fact, we should consider this issue from two aspects. If children like it, then parents should respect their decision. And if children don't like it, parents can't force them.
Obviously, however, this behavior of Niu Niu's mother is still incorrect. Whether children like modeling or not, excessive contact with children is not the behavior that a qualified parent should have.
In fact, Niu Niu's mother's behavior is very similar to the business story we learned in the textbook. Zhong Yong's parents also think that he has found business opportunities, because he has been very smart since he was a child. Cash cow? . In order to make money, children are allowed to perform everywhere, which affects their growth.
And Niu Niu's mother's behavior of letting her children work everywhere in order to make money obviously affects their growth, so it is no wonder that some people accuse Niu Niu's mother of treating her children as? Cash cow? .
Children can become talents overnight? Internet celebrities? This also brings business opportunities to parents. Indeed, because of the development of society, many children's wisdom or characteristics different from ordinary people can be amplified when they are young. More and more social applications can easily make a child become an online celebrity in an instant. Affected by these factors, too many parents hold this idea and try to rely on their children to make money for themselves. Among them, some parents did follow their children's own ideas. Since children want to do it, it is not impossible for parents to help. But some parents treat their children completely? Cash cow? Therefore, in the process of children's growth, parents should pay more attention to learning and self-improvement.
For some parents, their children will go out to work sooner or later. Now that they can work, it is better to let their children start making money early. Under such an excuse, parents try their best to squeeze the use value of their children.
? Cash cow? Seeing Niu Niu's story in Yumi Adachi's miserable childhood always reminds people of the famous Japanese child star Yumi Adachi. Because of her lovely appearance, Yumi Adachi has attracted the attention of advertisers since she was a child. When she grew up, her acting skills were even more amazing.
Looking at such a child, Anda's mother covets interests and undertakes a lot of work for Xiao You's family in the name of guardian. When the children moved around to work, Anda's mother frantically bought brand-name bags with their hard-earned money. The pocket money for children is only 65,438+000 yen, and it is also called saving money for children.
The result of being squeezed can only be? Big is not necessarily good? Under the pressure of this kind of parents, even if the child does have a lot of bright spots at first, but there is no follow-up learning opportunity, just being squeezed by parents, the child will gradually lose its original light.
It's hours, but it's not necessarily good, okay? Even if you were particularly good when you were a child and received a good education, you may not be good when you grow up, but how can you be a squeezed child? Okay？ And then what? I'm afraid such a child has left. Big is not necessarily good? On the way.
Think of the child as. Cash cow? Our parents don't care about their children's growth at all, but what children need is their care. Similarly, growing up in such an environment, it is difficult for children to maintain a good attitude. The most terrible thing is that while making money for their parents, children have to endure the scolding of their parents.
Some parents use the so-called strictness to cover up their ugly eating, and don't allow their children to shout tired. They keep saying they want to cultivate their children's resilience, but in fact they just want to earn more money for themselves.
Even adults sometimes feel tired and bored at work. But for those who treat children as. Cash cow? For parents, children feel a little bored, and parents will choose violence to make their children yield instead of guiding them correctly.
Even ordinary children need the care of their parents when they are tired. More importantly, these child model people must work hard to make money for their parents. Naturally, they need more care from their parents. Just as adults pay for their families, they also need warmth and care from their families, so that they can be more motivated at work.
Tong Mo is a profession, and we have no way to stop the rise of this profession, and there is no reason to stop it. Because among so many children, there must be children who are willing to join the modeling industry, and children's modeling is a good opportunity for these children.
Whether it is good or bad to be Tong Mo, or whether it is good or bad for children to be Tong Mo, is only between parents' thoughts, and the most important thing is actually from parents' thoughts. However, whether Tong Mo is a child worker or an illegal worker still needs careful judgment by all departments.
If we only regard models as a small interest in children's after-school life, it is actually beneficial to children's growth to show them the working atmosphere of adults from time to time and give them a general impression of their future workplace life.
However, some interested parents ask too much of their children. They completely regard making money as a top priority, and don't think about what children can learn and get in the process of work. All they think about is money.
Do such parents completely regard their children as? Cash cow? What I am thinking is how to extract all the use value of children. In order to make money, I constantly force my children to feel the cruelty of reality in advance, and also make them completely lose confidence in their families. These parents may never put their children's growth and future in their own thinking. In their minds, what matters is only their own interests, only the money they get. I wonder if children will feel guilty when they spend the money they get from overwork.
Be yelled at? Mom and dad? , the weight is not light.
Perhaps it is precisely because all professional jobs in this world need to be tested, and all positions need certain experience and experience. Children can only get their parents' names, so too many parents don't cherish their identity at all and are full of using psychology for their children.
If children are born just to make them repay themselves, then such parents will definitely not get what they want in the end. If you can't even live a good life, how can you educate your children? Called out? Mom and dad? This weight should not be light, I hope every parent of us can live up to this title.