0 1 "You must wait for me before you die"

The world is always so wonderful, because you will find that there is always a diligent person behind a lazy person.

Cousin's father-in-law and mother-in-law are such a typical combination. The father-in-law is responsible for housework and making money, and the mother-in-law is responsible for clothes and food. Let the whole village see.

My cousin's father-in-law is called Uncle Liu, and my cousin's mother-in-law is called Grandma Liu. They have four daughters and a son, and the son is old. Everyone with discerning eyes knows that such a child structure is produced by chasing sons.

When Grandma Liu was in her fifties, her son also entered the society. See no family burden, next door neighbor jokingly said:

Now you can enjoy life and ask your four daughters to be more filial to you. Look, I only have one daughter and even gave me a gold bracelet.

Inadvertently talking, listening attentively, grandma Liu looked at the bracelet brightly and was very envious psychologically. She also wants to live like a neighbor, eating and drinking, playing cards, singing and shopping when she is free.

Although Grandma Liu has four daughters, the economic conditions of the four sons-in-law she married are not satisfactory.

Of course, she doesn't think about difficult daughters. She feels that as a child, she must be filial. On the Mid-Autumn Festival that year, when all the daughters were here, she began to announce:

I have been tired for most of my life. When I am old enough to enjoy myself, you must give me a holiday fee every year. Besides, I want to buy a bracelet recently, and your sisters have to help me chip in. If the boss is in trouble, you can pay less.

The daughters dare not disobey. Grandma Liu bought bracelets as she wished, and often showed off her wealth in front of her neighbors.

Material is satisfied, but three meals a day, washing is also quite complicated, so she told uncle Liu:

From now on, you must undertake all the housework, including washing and cooking, growing vegetables and farming. Of course, you pay for the living expenses, and I won't use the money my daughters gave me, so you should try to earn pocket money!

Uncle Liu didn't want to do it at first, but grandma Liu really wouldn't do anything. It is impossible not to eat at home. Slowly, Uncle Liu took on everything.

Cleaning the streets, picking up waste products, doing coolies and short-term jobs are the most common jobs that Uncle Liu does. If he works hard, he can earn 20,000 to 30,000 yuan a year, and the expenses at home are basically enough.

One day, Uncle Liu was not feeling well and wanted to apply for a rest, but I didn't expect Grandma Liu to be unreasonable: If you can still get out of bed, you must wait on me!

Uncle Liu finally chose to obey.

Later, Uncle Liu had a granddaughter. Because his son and daughter-in-law were going out to make money, Uncle Liu had another job to take care of her granddaughter's life. Uncle Liu is so busy that he collapses every day. Fortunately, he is still in good health.

In this way, the husband worked hard and the wife was pampered for twenty years.

Uncle Liu, who has arrived in seventy years of age, finally sounded the alarm. Last year, he suffered from unbearable low back pain and even hematuria, but he still worked as usual and didn't go to the physical examination.

He was seriously ill and was diagnosed with kidney cancer in the hospital. The doctor said that his days were numbered.

Grandma Liu, who was used to being served, called her daughter back to cook for her because her wife was in hospital. After Uncle Liu was discharged from the hospital, his daughter took care of him for a few days and left. After all, she also has a small family.

At this time, uncle Liu, who has been scrawny with cancer, began to beg his wife:

Old woman, I have few days to live now, and I can't cook any more. It's your turn to wait on me.

But I didn't expect grandma Liu to refuse immediately:

I wait on you, even if you think too much. Besides, aren't you alive? As long as you don't die, you have to wait on me!

Looking at such a determined wife, Uncle Liu's heart is bleeding. He still picked up the spatula feebly. ...

Everyone feels sorry for Uncle Liu, who has been suffering and tired all his life. Even at the last moment of his life, he did not escape the fate of being enslaved by his wife.

Granny Liu, on the other hand, enjoys the "happiness" exchanged by others with blood and tears with a clear conscience, but never feels a trace of guilt ...

In fact, such a marriage relationship has been seriously unbalanced. If one side doesn't fight back, the other side will only become more and more fearless.

"If I were your life, I would have jumped off the building."

Talking about feelings in front of a hedonist is casting pearls before swine. It's a good thing he didn't put salt on your wound.

Zheng Jie is a housewife, but his life is very hard because her husband Lao Gao and her son Ajie are lazy.

Forget laziness, you are particularly vain. Although the deposit is negative, but self-confidence, many times bragging and playing cool in front of neighbors.

Usually, Lao Gao drinks wine, plays cards, smokes, buys suits and watches, dresses decently, and looks like a superior person.

My son has a job with a monthly salary of 4 thousand, but the salary is too small, but it costs a lot. Every day, I either hang out in the bar or go out to eat and drink.

Such a father and son, naturally, never do anything. When they had no money, they reached out and asked Jie Zheng for money. Every day, when Zheng Jie comes back from work, she has to wait on a little son. Later, the son had a child, and Zheng Jie had to take care of his grandson's diet and daily life because of his daughter-in-law's long-term business trip.

In front of this lazy and vain father and son, Sister Zheng always does what she says. If the food is not delicious, the father and son will scold her. If the service is not comprehensive, the father and son will break things.

And Zheng Jie is always resigned and silently bears everything.

She believes that as a hostess, we must do our best to support this family, and it is nothing to suffer for our husband and son.

However, what she didn't expect was that she had been busy for many years and was already overworked. When I went to the hospital, I found myself suffering from hemangioma, breast adenoma and diabetes. ...

When my son saw his mother lying in the hospital bed, his first thought was: What should I do in the future? If she falls, who will take care of my child?

And the husband, not only didn't care, but despised his mother in front of everyone:

Honey, you said your life is too hard. You have worked hard all your life, never lived a good life, and you have so many diseases. If my life was so hard, I would have jumped off the building!

Everyone scoffed and sighed. Sister Zheng's life is really miserable. She has such a husband and son!

Sister Zheng saw the true face of father and son. But she held back her tears and didn't cry. I have no choice but to accept my fate.

I thought I was sick and relaxed, but my husband and son didn't care about her health and shouted together:

When you leave the hospital, you will wash clothes, cook and take care of the baby. This disease needs no treatment and will not die for a while.

Sister Zheng is carrying a marionette, just like an artificial intelligence robot obeying orders. She agreed to all the demands of her husband and son, but she still couldn't say a word "no".

Neighbors advised her to cherish herself. The father and son are too selfish. But she always shook her head: will you starve to death without eating?

Someone advised her to leave this home, but she still stubbornly asked: Is a home without a woman still a home? Besides, what about the little grandson?

From beginning to end, she never complained about her husband and son.

Her enslaved life is really chilling.

If no one in a family cares about your contribution, even your life and death, what's the point of this unnecessary sacrifice?

Love yourself more and stay away from hedonists.

It's hard to imagine what it's like to live with a selfish hedonist all your life.

Perhaps around our lives, there are many "wife slaves" like Uncle Liu and "domestic slaves" like Sister Zheng.

In order to maintain the relationship between husband and wife and protect the integrity of the family, they chose to accommodate, compromise, make concessions, and even willingly be bossed and dominated.

Especially in labor, lazy, vain and hedonistic people often become strong. They greedily ate the fruits of each other's labor in constant demand, and gradually the two sides formed a relationship of slavery and servitude until their death!

To outsiders, we all think it is a kind of torment and torture. But in their own hearts, they never think that they are being destroyed and consumed.

On the contrary, as long as they see each other's satisfaction, they feel that they have a sense of existence and accomplishment.

However, they don't know that it is because of this blind injustice and obedience that they encourage each other's arrogance, fulfill each other's enjoyment and deepen each other's selfishness.

No one will remember what you suffered, no one will ask you about the injury caused by overwork, and no one will care that you may fall down one day and never get up again …

What I want to say is that love doesn't mean giving everything, regardless of return.

In the face of selfish partners, you should bravely say "no".

Home is not necessarily a warm harbor, but sometimes it can be a terrible cage.

It imprisons your mind, affects your soul, and makes you willingly trapped and controlled by it.

Diligence is like you and tenacity is like you. Why not try to break free from this terrible cage and look at the free sky outside?

A healthy relationship between husband and wife never means that one party gives his life and the other party enjoys it desperately.

If so, then this marriage is morbid. And this disease is not only brought by him, but also by you.

So, love yourself more, stay away from selfish and lazy people, and never overdraw everything in your marriage!