1. There is no doubt about the topic of chatting with other people. The first thing that comes to mind is food, but some people think that eating food is only to describe girls. In fact, many boys can't resist the temptation of food, so two people can ask him out by inviting him to dinner. You can tell him which restaurant I had dinner with my best friend before. It was very delicious, and I want to eat it again. Boys usually say, wait for me. 2. It is also possible to travel on a higher topic. Talking about this topic will make boys feel that they are a very sunny and cheerful girl who loves life. With such a very good impression, two people basically get twice the result with half the effort. You can also take this opportunity to talk to him about a trip. 3. If two people really don't know what to say, you can talk about your childhood life. For example, some embarrassing things happened when you were a child. I believe it can narrow the distance between you and him and let the other person know the basic situation of your home. 4. Everyone has his own star and idol, and you can also talk about his idol. You can talk about the positive things of this idol, but if you don't know his idol very well, don't comment at will. The above is the related content of the chat topic introduced by Xiaobian. Second, the object chat skills 1. People often say that people reach out and don't smile. If you chat with each other with a smile and a good voice, then the atmosphere of chatting between two people will definitely not go anywhere. When you start talking with each other, you don't know when it is appropriate to chat with him. Then you can choose this method. For example, the clothes you wear today are very beautiful, and he is very good at choosing clothes, and this clothes are very suitable for you. Presumably, he must be very happy. If he feels very happy, naturally, the topics of chatting between two people will increase, and the atmosphere of chatting will become more and more intense. 2. When two people first come into contact, because strangers are unfamiliar with each other, there will often be awkward scenes. If you want to avoid this situation, you can talk to him about what he likes and have no resistance to what he likes. If you cooperate with him to buy what he likes, he will feel very happy. First of all, you can talk about your life ideal and your plan for the future. This is because the other party has just met your partner, and the relationship between the two people is still unstable and even lacks some sense of security. At this time, if you can plan their future well, the other party will feel at ease. Secondly, you can also talk about some relaxing topics, such as gossip about a star or something novel. If two people's feelings want to warm up, they need a comfortable environment. If you are too nervous and serious, the other person is likely to be influenced by you, which will lead to great pressure. If this continues, you are likely to make some impulsive choices, so talk about serious things when you should talk about serious things, and try to relax when you should relax. The last and most important thing is to know more about each other's hobbies. A person will certainly be very active in discussing topics of interest to him. Therefore, it is very important to find out each other's hobbies. You can only work hard in this respect if you know what the other person likes. Whether it is to catch up with this knowledge or turn the other person's hobbies into your own hobbies, you can create many topics that are similar to each other. Besides, you should also cultivate some hobbies that two people have in common. For example, the other person likes morning exercises, so you can join badminton in the process of morning exercises. As long as you write well, the other person will like it more and more. In this process, you can also talk more about badminton stars or a ball game with the other person, so naturally there will be a topic. The last and most important point is that you can't always talk to each other, but you should also guide them to talk to you, so that you can stick to it for a long time, and when the other person becomes more curious about you and wants to get to know you better, your feelings will go further. Talking about the object topic 3 Topic 1: What happens around you When two people are together, they must let each other know what you are doing every day. What happened? These can be the topics of chatting, and you can talk to your partner about things around you every day. These things happen around you, and I believe we can say a lot. Two people can talk to each other, so that you have a lot of unnecessary topics to talk about. There are many different topics from this topic, so your chat atmosphere must be very pleasant. Do you feel very happy if you can't finish talking every day? Topic 2: Love words and feelings need to be cultivated with heart, and saying some love words properly helps two people's feelings. Love words don't have to be said only at the time of confession, but also at ordinary times. When you don't know what to say, you might as well say something sweet. Compared with thinking about you and loving you. At the same time, you can choose to use warm-hearted love words as the opening remarks of daily chat. This may make the other person feel very intimate, and love words are not only for boys. Girls should also learn to take the initiative, and it must be very effective to talk to each other. It is very suitable for men and women who have just established a relationship. As for how to say it, you can only rely on yourself. Just say a little appropriately, there is no need to exaggerate. It's easy to backfire, just a sentence or two. Topic 3: Hobbies When two people are together, they must know something about both sides. But two people can't do this, they must have a deep understanding. Then, when chatting, we can talk about the interests and hobbies of both sides. If you have the same interests, you are not afraid of boring this topic. On the contrary, we can talk more. Increase mutual understanding, and many topics emanate from one topic. Let you feel reluctant to part every day, because you are going to end the chat and get ready to rest. In this way, the affection between you will be stronger. Topic 4: Planning for the future Two people can't just be together, they must have some plans. Everyone's ideas are different, so everyone's yearning for the future is even different. You can ask the other person what your current plans are. For example: What job do you want to do? Where do you want to develop in the future? Just ask this question. I believe it is impossible to make it clear in a few words after a question is asked. It's definitely necessary to make a long speech. If you have any questions about what the other party said, you can also go back and ask. In addition to being able to understand each other's thoughts, you can also work hard towards your goals. These four topics can all be used as chat topics between men and women who are in the same place.