It’s the season again where getting up requires perseverance and taking a bath depends on courage.

Not to mention that children stay in bed all kinds of times. If parents are not at work, they also have difficulty getting up, right?

The baby is wrapped up in a warm quilt and is sleeping soundly. It is inevitable to drag and drag when getting up, which is the most likely thing for mothers to get angry.

In order to win the final victory in this war of waking up, parents tried their best and even adopted the method of "destructive wake-up call".

What is the "lethal wake-up call" method?

It is to use the method of waking up to cut off the starting process and make people regain consciousness immediately.

Those who use excessively loud sounds or non-stop noises to touch the other person's body and deprive them of the sense of sleep are all "lethal wake-up" methods.

Below, Ya Ya Ma has listed several common mistakes that we often use. Moms, have you ever done this?

1. The heart-rending lion roared loudly, "What time is it? Get up quickly!" 2. The overwhelming force lifted up the quilt and pulled the child hard, forcing the child to get up.

3 The Great Merciful and Great Compassionate Mantra kept shouting and nagging: "Wake up, do you hear me? Get up, do you hear me? Get up..." 4 The embattled people on all sides artificially create high-decibel noises that can't wake up.

The kid thinks I lose.

These four rough ways will have a very bad impact on children.

Therefore, never use this wrong way to wake up your children!

A pleasant way of getting up will not only ruin the child's whole day, but in the long run, it will also cause varying degrees of physical and psychological problems for the child, such as disrupted emotional control, impulsiveness, low mood, slow reaction, lack of concentration, and aggression.

People are indifferent and numb, or they cry.

How to start a good day for your children correctly?

1. Notify in advance.

Tell your child the night before that you will wake him up in time tomorrow morning so that your child can be mentally prepared in advance.

2. Awaken children through music.

Play some music that your children usually like to listen to, or play some gentle music to awaken their brain nerves.

3. Visual arousal method.

When it's time for the child to get up, the mother can gently open the curtains or turn on a desk lamp with soft light. In this way, the light will naturally wake up the child without the mother yelling.

4. Use delicious food to tempt you.

I wake up early every day and prepare a meal. The child will wake up when he smells the aroma of the rice. I will feed the child a mouthful first, and then take the meal away. If I don’t give it to him, he will get dressed and eat.

5. Wake up with gentle touch.

What to do when all the above tricks fail?

All I can do is give it a gentle caress, using the mother's warm hands to gently caress the child's forearms, upper arms, and cheeks. With such tenderness, the child cannot continue to sleep.

Yaya's mother likes to complain that the weather is cold now and her children are more upset when they wake up.

Parents must use the switching mode correctly to keep their children full of energy and state throughout the day.

The best way to wake up is the gentleness and patience of parents, so that the children can feel enough warmth and safety to spend a whole day of physical and mental pleasure.

Moms, does your child love the bed?

How do you wake your child?

Share your story and discuss it.