Compared with parents, children's love is actually simpler and more convenient. They don't know the way of the world, don't have so many rules, and simply want to love their parents. Example of short story:

Every afternoon, when I pick Lin Lin up and go home, he always holds hands with his mother, especially the relationship between mother and child is better. On several occasions, I will also put the special food in the kindergarten in my pocket and then give it to my mother. Seeing that there are some ingredients that are not very good in color, my mother is impressed or impressed.

People around you are envious of Xuan Xuan's mother, and feel that she has educated her children very well, and she has known "nurturing" since she was a child. Seeing the way NianLia * * is like seeing the future. When the mother needs it, the child will always be by my side, and it feels warm to think about it.

Everyone thinks that children only know "asking for" now, but when they see Lin Lin, they are completely warm men and have nothing to do with "asking for". At this moment, I remembered a sentence: some children are born to be grateful, and they understand the hard work of their parents.

Indeed, a child who is born with gratitude and kindness, his love is hidden in the subtleties, which makes his parents feel warm. Children who are born to collect debts seem to owe them in previous lives. No matter how many parents they are, their parents have always looked inadequate, and children are absolutely ungrateful. Why do some children only know how to "ask for"? Everything is blamed on mom and dad

There are no children born to collect debts, and naturally there are no children born to repay kindness. When they were born, they were all like a blank sheet of paper, clean and simple. Often later, they become different types of appearance, because of the parents' education, parents fill them with different colors.

in the final analysis, it's a ghost of being spoiled and spoiled. It is considered that a qualified parent is a child who indulges a lot and meets the requirements of students. The conclusion is forgotten. Human nature has no bottom line. Repeated indulgence and indulgence can only make children push their luck.

in the end, they will become people who only know how to ask and don't know how to give. The love of mom and dad makes them more and more selfish, completely forgetting thinking and making moves, and just thinking about relying on them. But life is his own. If a child only knows how to rely on it, how can he become a responsible person?

Moreover, children who don't even care about their parents will certainly become "heartless" when they grow up. Not begging to raise a baby can prevent aging, at least it is not necessary to become a "blood clan", so that parents can still have a chance to enjoy their old age and not live too desolate.

"Love is a double-edged sword. If you don't master the specifications, it will become the only way to hurt". Therefore, in the case of loving children, parents can think about what kind of people they want to be. It depends on how parents choose the education method.

Some children are very filial to their parents, but only adults did not receive the data signal. As a result, they ended up "mutually assured destruction". The children were heartbroken and their parents were helpless. Compared with this, it is not as good as lowering your posture in daily life, spending more time with your child, but finding his love. Children who are filial to their parents will also be reflected in some details

1. They have delicious food and always think about their parents first < P > In children's hearts, delicious food is as important as their favorite items, so many children develop the good habit of eating alone. But if the child is aware of his generosity, he is willing to forward everything he thinks is delicious to his parents, which means he is sweet and greasy.

at this moment, parents and children are as important as delicious food. Because of this, he will not hesitate to enjoy it, just to let his parents taste the special food. Therefore, when you want to let mom and dad taste food, don't refuse their kindness.

2. I like to pester my parents and don't want to be apart.

If I have been pestered by my children all the time, some parents will feel upset and scold me. However, I don't know that it is also a kind of happiness to be entangled in children. This is the parent-child time that everyone yearns for. Smart parents, now start to seize the opportunity to enhance their feelings with their children.

just imagine: if children huddle around them and parents and children do what they want together, not only can the interaction between parents and children be pulled in, but the children will also grow faster. If we pull them away directly, the child will be hurt in his heart and even unwilling to be close to his parents again.

3, parent-child relationship, endless words

Many parents show that they haven't chatted with their children for a long time, and every time they just open their mouths, they will feel upset. Many parents are facing such a picture, and their helplessness is obvious. But if you change the scene, the children and their parents will never finish talking, how comfortable that scene is.

Indeed, parent-child relationship is the warmest, which is the envy of many families. After all, in the process of communication, children will quietly become excellent and then become better themselves. Parents, on the other hand, will learn to let go of their anxiety and never meet their children again.

Conclusion: Love is a relaxed evil force, which can make children fly freely and make them better themselves. The rest of my life is too long. Only by training children to become better people can students be happier for the rest of their lives. Therefore, love is to master the sense of proportion and be appropriate.