Congratulations on getting married.

Marriage customs in Qingdao. When a man marries, he is called "the daughter-in-law" and when a woman marries, she is called "going out". Except for special circumstances, wedding etiquette has to go through many procedures, such as matchmaking, blind date, engagement, sending a date and getting married. -> Matchmaking is also called "media protection", which is introduced by a matchmaker to two families, men and women, and marriage is concluded. Matchmakers can be relatives and friends, acquaintances, or special matchmakers. They are basically different from each other according to their age, family background ...

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In fact, they all use the customs of Qingdao, but it's even more common in Huangdao and Laoshan, and sometimes it's according to the habits of their hometown, so I don't have to tell you something roughly! ! !

Now the gift for proposing marriage is 31,8 yuan, which means that if three families get together and the conditions are good, 1,1 Wan Li will choose one, and then the woman will return it to the man, ranging from 1, yuan. At the same time, the man's family should bring hardware. Generally, the man buys a house, and the woman buys electrical appliances to prepare bedding.

Some people say that there are still six kinds of traditional engagement gifts: six pounds of meat (across the board), six strips of fish and six bottles of wine.

generally, every bride price above (except meat, as the saying goes, the girl is the flesh of the mother, and she is reluctant to give it to others) will be returned to the man's home by the woman's family, with two or four copies of each.

In addition, there are other things, such as engagement ring, gift money (also called engagement money), two red bags, two red belts, and at least two sets of clothes (as the saying goes, mother-in-law's coat is handed down to the old). The woman's family should prepare a new pair of shoes for the man (called husband's shoes).

At the engagement ceremony, both men and women should change their names to parents, and both parents should be prepared to change their names to money (6 ~ 2, yuan). Generally, the man's family should arrive at the woman's house before noon, and the woman's family should treat the man's guests to dinner at noon. After dinner, the man's family should return to their homes before sunset. The engagement ceremony has come to an end.

Huangdao pays attention to people's old traditions. There are many customs:

The bride should not wave back when she goes out.

The bride should not cry when she goes out. On the one hand, it is unlucky, on the other hand, it will ruin her makeup.

When getting off the bus, the groom and the bride should get off from the same side, and don't separate, otherwise it is unlucky.

Those who are pregnant should not attend the wedding.

When eating jiaozi at the bride's house, Even numbers should be left in the bowl and noodles should be eaten. Then the man asks if the noodles will give birth to a bride. If it means giving birth to BB

, I'll tell you about the procedure: Qingdao basically covers everything:

About 12 months after engagement

Buy an engagement ring

Choose a religious ceremony or a folk ceremony

Choose a venue or venue for the ceremony. Consult the online handbook of aristocratic wedding

Two people reach an agreement on the form and theme of the wedding

Decide on the best date and time for the wedding

Choose the best man and usher (about one usher is needed for every 5 guests)

If the wedding is held in a church, make an appointment first, and then make sure that every detail is all right (documents, prohibitions, fees, pianist, choir, etc.

Arrange the wedding reception

Prepare the guest list 6 months before the wedding. In this matter, you need the help of your parents to ensure that no guest is left behind

to decide the catering problem at the wedding reception, especially the menu

invite a DL music couple or other entertainment items

order clothes for the groom and the male tribe

solve the accommodation problem on the wedding night

choose the type of flowers. Banquet and some small details

Find a photographer and videographer

Arrange wedding insurance

Decide the date of your honeymoon and make preparations

Make sure your passport is valid and get a visa if necessary

If you are pregnant during your honeymoon, get ready now

Prepare a check for your honeymoon trip

Three months before your wedding

Discuss marriage with your fiancee. Write it now and send it out

Start choosing a gift

Discuss the problems in the ceremony and the order of the ceremony

Discuss with the pianist which song to choose

Order a list of the order of the ceremony

Buy a wedding ring and arrange insurance

Write a thank-you letter to them when you receive the gift

Solve the accommodation and food problems for friends from other cities, and it is best if these problems can be solved in the invitation letter. Especially if you want to get married on a holiday, you should tell others earlier

book wedding balloons

the bride's father and groomsman have prepared their own speeches

buy clothes and luggage for the honeymoon trip

get a seat card

if you want to get married in church, know the relevant taboos in advance

let everyone present know. A dinner rehearsal attended by ushers

Confirm the number of participants and the requirements for the menu

Start writing speeches

Arrange a dance for the best man only

Be the bride and best man. Parents and ushers buy gifts

Give your suggestions on seating arrangement to ushers one week before the wedding

Get a haircut

Prepare honeymoon luggage and buy some necessary things

Make arrangements for the time on the wedding day

If you want to use the car on your honeymoon, Check whether the car is in good condition

Check the honeymoon plan for the last time

Arrange a group of people to return the rented clothes after the wedding

Prepare the clothes to be taken away the day before the wedding and bring the boxes to be used at the party

Give the best man a set of spare keys to other cars and the fees to be paid for the church ceremony

Send your articles or photos to the media

. Help for you

★ Wedding Special Tips ★

1. Try not to set the wedding on weekends. Most people want to relax on weekends. If you hold a wedding at this time, they have to choose between vacation and your wedding. If you really want to hold a wedding ceremony on weekends, you should be prepared to spend the whole weekend entertaining guests.

2. Don't forget to write your wedding vows. This is not out of conformity, but to show your devotion to each other and add luster to your's wedding.

3. Don't have an ice break between the ceremony and the wedding reception.

4. Prepare vehicles to transport the guests from afar from the ceremony site to the wedding reception site;

5. Don't let the DJ play the music too loudly during the wedding reception;

6. Discuss with the caterer and leave a time interval between each dish;

7. Don't ignore the dietary taboos of the guests, and you can introduce some special dishes;

8. Arrange seats for the guests, put numbers on the table to remind the guests to sit in their own seats. When arranging seats, the groom's guest seats should be arranged in the same row as the bride's guest seats, so as not to be suspected of splitting.

9. Arrange your own meals according to the specific time of the wedding. You need something to eat or make brunch in the morning. In the afternoon, if you hold a wedding, you will eat a little food before meals. If you hold a wedding in the evening, you can have an adequate dinner, and the person who undertakes the shower can help you choose the right menu.

1. Don't omit champagne.

11. At the banquet, you two newlyweds should talk to your family and guests between showers.

12. Ask waiters to help photographers and caterers complete their work tasks, and they will certainly be happy to lend a helping hand;

13. Discuss with your fiance where to spend your honeymoon, how to stay, and how long you are going to stay. These details must always be considerate;

14. Don't spend all your savings on this honeymoon. Choose to travel in the off-season or go to an all-inclusive resort, which will save you money.

15. Do what you can. The wedding day is tight, and your body will be overloaded. When your physical strength is overdrawn, you should pay attention to the signal it sends and pay attention to your body.

16. Don't be overwhelmed by the wedding preparations. Trivial affairs such as buying food are divided into several parts. Call friends and family from time to time to adjust. Since you are all interested in buying clothes on Saturday and lying about the person who caters for the shower, you might as well take time off to watch a movie and relax.

17. Pay attention to rest. At this stage, the pressure is relatively high. You need more sleep and be flexible. If you always feel tired in the morning, you should sleep for nine to ten hours every day. Don't treat the guest list as a pillow book. Before going to bed, find a recent best seller or some relaxing magazine to amuse yourself.

If you master these treasures, your wedding will be smooth all the way, and with our careful director, I believe your wedding performance will come to a successful conclusion, leaving unforgettable memories in the hearts of every participant.

★ How to choose a bridesmaid and best man ★

1. You must be careful and careless in choosing the right best man. Your close friends in college, brothers, cousins and even elementary school classmates who haven't seen each other for years may be scrambling to be the best man. However, no matter who the best man is, he should at least know something about bridesmaids. If you are worried about how to choose the right best man, take a look at our suggestions-

2. The number of bridesmaids to wait for the best man

The number of best men can be determined according to personal preferences, and there is no special restriction. According to the usual practice. If you want to have fewer groomsmen but don't want to offend friends or male relatives, you can let them be ushers. They can wear ordinary dresses to show their seats to guests like everyone else. In this way, you can not offend anyone and avoid the bad reputation of poor hospitality.

3. Brothers and sisters can do

Choosing the best man is not your own business. Your bride may have intended to let her favorite brother be the best man long ago. As long as this guy is not very annoying, you'd better let him be the best man. On the contrary, if you want your closest sister to be a bridesmaid, the bride will agree. There is no need to follow the tradition completely on this issue, and if you two are open-minded, your sister can take your side and play the traditional best man role, while the bride's brother can accompany her.

4. Only the responsible person is suitable

Who should I choose? The best man should have some taste, because he will make a toast at the wedding banquet. Of course, you don't want him to say inappropriate words. He should also be responsible, because he will keep the ring given to the bride by the groom at that time. In addition, the most important thing is that he must be very humorous, because the bachelor party before the groom's marriage is organized by the best man. Choose an activist in your life as the best man. If you don't find out that you and your best man have much in common until the night before the wedding, it will be too late. What you need at this time is not nervousness, but a reassuring best man to accompany you before, during and after the wedding. Keep this in mind, and you won't mistake those who forgot their rings, got drunk at the wedding or put their minds elsewhere as the best man. Take the right step, and you will be relieved.

★ Master of ceremonies ★

At present, a well-worded host usually holds a grand wedding ceremony for the couple, creating a happy and peaceful atmosphere with short words. It is not a simple matter to make the couple feel happy and sacred, and to let hundreds of guests share the passion of the wedding.

So choosing an excellent host becomes the core of the success of the wedding. When determining the wedding emcee, you must never listen to hearsay. It is best to learn more about this person's intuitive information, such as video materials, or see the best with your own eyes, so that you can know whether his presiding style is suitable for you, so that you can make choices and make demands. After that, before the wedding, you'd better make an appointment with the host to discuss the wedding procedures and contents, and finally put forward your specific requirements. I believe that an elegant and humorous host will definitely add a happy atmosphere to your wedding.

Wedding Shooting-Stay in every eternal moment-The magician of the wedding

Wedding ceremony procedure

1. The master of ceremonies announced the wedding, played music, and the newlyweds entered the venue

2. Many relatives and friends sprinkled flowers for the newlyweds, and the newlyweds slowly stepped onto the stage in the wedding March

3. flower girl presented flowers for the newlyweds to bless them

4. Drink a toast

7. Parents of both sides address the guests

8. Newcomers offer tea to their parents

9. Worship the world

1. Newcomers give thanks to the guests

★ Wedding vocabulary ★

Leaders, friends and relatives:

Life can have several most unforgettable and happiest moments, and today I really feel it from my heart. Today, I married my sweetheart. Our elders, relatives, close friends and leaders came from afar to attend our wedding celebration, which brought joy, joy and sincere blessings to today's wedding. Take this opportunity, let us sincerely thank our parents for bringing us up, the leaders for their concern, and the friends for their blessings.

I also want to thank my parents-in-law for asking you to believe that I will love my wife deeply forever, and through our hard-working and intelligent hands, I will definitely create a happy and happy family.

Finally, please share a happy evening with us.

I wish you all the best and all your dreams come true.

thank you! Xinlang: Xin Niang:

Model speech from parents

Ladies and gentlemen: Hello!

Today is the wedding day for my daughters (sons) * * * and * * *. Thanks to all the guests, I would like to express my warmest welcome and heartfelt thanks!

Fate has married my daughter (son) * * * and * * *, and I am very happy as a parent. They know each other, know each other, love each other, and become husband and wife today. From now on, I hope they can respect each other, love each other, understand each other and help each other, and use their intelligence and hard-working hands to create their own bright future.

Finally, I wish them both a happy and happy wedding.

thank you!

★ How to choose a supervisor ★

Color selection and style selection

Whether the wedding is going smoothly and successfully, it is particularly important to choose a competent wedding supervisor.

Choosing a supervisor is the first thing you need to solve in your whole wedding, because after the supervisor is determined, all the big and small things and procedural details of the wedding can be entrusted and discussed together. Of course, this is on the premise that you must choose a competent supervisor first. With a good supervisor, the wedding is twice as effective. And if you choose an incompetent supervisor, then you will have a headache.

how to choose a supervisor? Here are some experiences for reference:

1. Find someone you can trust. Most people like to use relatives and friends who are very close, because these people can do their duty. That's right. If you don't trust him and entrust him to do the banquet, you are worried that he will take advantage of it and buy a cigarette, and you are worried that he will shoddy it. Why bother,