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If a girl is a more motivated person, and the other party does not reply to your WeChat message, then it is very likely that she is busy with her own affairs and has no time to check WeChat. After finishing her work, she does not know how to reply to you, so she simply does not reply.

This situation often occurs. Generally speaking, you are not important in the eyes of girls. The reasons leading to this are actually closely related to daily interactions. For example, some boys think rationally and like to use problem-solving methods.

way, and girls are emotional and prone to emotions. The difference in thinking makes it impossible to continue the conversation normally. For example: Female: It’s really cold today. Male: Yes, it’s below freezing today. You must wear more clothes when going out.

Just providing solutions to girls, instead of asking girls if they are cold and caring at the first time, it will only give girls the feeling of playing the piano to others. If they do not understand the subtext of girls' words, they will only receive thank you from girls, but they will not be impressed.

A girl's heart.

2. Girls feel that chatting with you is boring. Girls are creatures dominated by emotions. During the process of chatting with girls, if the topic and atmosphere are always dull, it will be difficult to mobilize the girls' emotions, and it will only make the girls feel dull and boring.

, the chat will only be awkward, such as: Man: What are you busy with?

Female: It’s time to go to work. Male: Are you tired?

Female: It’s okay. Male: What do you do at work?

Female: .....Many boys like to chat with linear thinking. They talk in one line to the end, and only switch topics when the topic is dead. This can easily turn the chat into an interrogation, which not only puts pressure on girls, but also exposes your sense of need.

3. Girls don’t want to chat with you. Girls are naturally sensitive, especially when it comes to strangers. They will maintain a certain degree of vigilance and defensiveness. When chatting with girls, if you keep saying things like asking girls to hang out with you, it will make girls suspicious.

The purpose of your chatting with her is to make girls feel insecure and take the initiative to keep distance from boys and not want to reply to you.

After figuring out why girls don’t reply to your WeChat messages, let’s take a look at what men with high emotional intelligence do!

2. How to deal with girls who don’t reply to WeChat with high emotional intelligence 1. When you and a girl are not chatting in the same channel, many straight men are not aware of the girl’s thoughts. When they encounter a girl who doesn’t reply to WeChat, they will choose to reply to the girl like this: "

Are you busy? Please reply to me when you are done." I believe many brothers have replied to girls like this. In fact, this method is wrong. It will only interfere with the things at hand and cause girls to have an image of you as clingy and with low emotional intelligence.

She feels like you are caring or caring about her.

Men with high emotional intelligence understand that if a girl does not reply to messages, it means that the girl is not interested in him or starts to hate him. At this time, any proactive behavior will only increase the girl's boredom, because the girl is already wary of you, and too much entanglement will only make the girl more bored.

She was disgusted.

The correct approach is to retreat in time, keep a certain distance from the girl, balance the sense of need, and see if the girl will be anxious because of your sudden departure, arouse the girl's desire for gain and loss, and attract the other party's attention.

2. When a girl feels that chatting with you is boring, many straight male brothers will interpret a girl's "she is busy and has no time to reply" as "she has nothing to do and won't reply". In fact, girls just think chatting with you is boring, but boys will next time

Asking a girl why she doesn't reply to messages during a chat will give the girl a sense of oppression and make the chat awkward.

Men with high emotional intelligence will not talk to girls about not replying to messages. Instead, they will talk to girls about topics that interest them, show their value, and build attraction. For example: 1) Chatting with girls about topics about her wants to attract girls.

Remember you, then I can chat with you about her topics. The topics here can be from Moments, WeChat groups, *** sharing with friends, *** public accounts that *** follow, etc., to talk about what she is interested in.

General topics can be chosen from: photography, food, fitness, sports, pets, celebrity gossip, etc. to start chatting with girls.

2) In order to establish value, in addition to chatting with girls about topics she is interested in, you also need to show yourself and highlight your own value. For example: sharing photos of yourself working overtime in your circle of friends is to show that you are a motivated and diligent person.

Sharing photos of gatherings with friends in a man's circle of friends is to show that you have your own social circle and a good attitude towards life. However, you must be careful not to be deliberate in the process of showing your value. This can easily turn into showing off and be disliked by girls.

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